Originally posted by NuLife:
impressed le.... how old r u?
got bf or not?
curious on why u think lik tat...
personally i think nowadays...it is not possible not to have sex b4 marriage.
haha I do not reveal my age here.
I am currently in a relationship and I have discussed it with him before regarding this and he said he will respect my decision when it comes to my body.
Why I think this way? maybe because I was brought up in a conservative family? And maybe because I do not feel like getting into trouble by getting pregnant at the wrong age(Yea, I know there is such thing called protection but only abstinence can guarantee 100% safety..I just do not feel like taking the risk). And I think waiting to have it after marriage will make it all the more special. I would like to think that it is something that is worthwhile the wait. And if he truly loves me, he will wait. I do not have anything against people who have sex before marriage, but just know that it is my choice to have it afterwards and it is a decision I will stick to. And I do not think it is impossible, it will be a good test on will power as well.