These are my thoughts, Look here to feel better please....
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Only thing I can say is Treasure every moment and Love yourself more coz you came into this world alone and you will leave here alone.
Life is a bed of rose with thorns underneath.... You came into this world crying while others around you smile....
When you leave... others will cry.... You must smile
You can do your very best to give all your other half wanted. If the other half decideds to walk away from all these one day, you will be sad, feeling unwanted and devastated...
Though there are surely couples who are still very loving and understand each other alot... They are able to withstand all storms... These people are Lucky...they have "won" in Love....
Love is a 50-50 gamble... either it screws u up big time, or else it will make you happy like hell...
When you fall into it, you look forward to everyday with a smile. The special place in your heart is filled up.... So even if you do not meet up everyday, you still feel good... Coz you know you are in love...
Ironically, you can't control it... maybe that's why they call it "falling" in love... You simply "fall" into it....
Guys and gals.... i am going through a difficult phase of being alone.... its tough, but I just this is just life..... That's why we were crying when we are born.....
Remember to save some love for yourself and not only for that him or her.... It will hurt deeper if it doesn't turn out your way....
Je'taime... -
Move on dude...
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Try going out and realise something, things will still be usual running at its usual pace. Nobody or rather nothing will hang in there waiting for you to recover. She aint going to wait for you either.
She is and maybe has found her happiness elsewhere.
Face the reality, move on. -
yeah...rite.... how un-oringinal.
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you seems to be having a sad and heavy thoughts
cheers
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yeah...rite.... how un-oringinal.
"From this arises an argument: whether it is better to be loved than feared. I reply that one should like to be both one and the other; but it is much safer to be feared than to be loved when one of the two must be lacking"
The above is quoted by one member...... true i agree it might not be original.....
Though we might have hear the above before from some where or some one. But how much do we really wish that we can get all these thoughts into our head when we just broke off??
There might be many sad souls out there now.....
"Condolences to the death of your love life..." -
if you are afraid of getting hurt stay away from love.....
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Yup.. i know. I am truly afraid now... Sure to be staying away from it a long long time.....
if you are afraid of getting hurt stay away from love.....
Very tired and very scared le. Guess i have to avoid it to protect myself....
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Its nt a matter of staying away or nt...Originally posted by mal_colm1979:Yup.. i know. I am truly afraid now... Sure to be staying away from it a long long time.....
Very tired and very scared le. Guess i have to avoid it to protect myself....
Thanks dude.
If U yearn for the happiness of love...U muz be prepared to bear the pain...love is sweet but it is also bitter... -
x2Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Its nt a matter of staying away or nt...
If U yearn for the happiness of love...U muz be prepared to bear the pain...love is sweet but it is also bitter... -
+1...Originally posted by dragg:x2 -
+ 2Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Its nt a matter of staying away or nt...
If U yearn for the happiness of love...U muz be prepared to bear the pain...love is sweet but it is also bitter... 
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Dear Malcolm,
Love is something that can never be truly understood, for each & every one of us is made different. Some people are lucky enough to get it right, because their partner also figured things out & got it right. Some have to go through numerous relationships in order to figure out what they truly want.
To shy away from relationships just because the 1 you thought was for you, wasn't meant to be, is a shame. Simply because in your shell, you may actually push the 1 who's meant for you away & lose the chance to be perfectly happy.
A relationship is never roses, many run away at the 1st sign of deep trouble, forsaking the 1 they profess to love. There're always stumbling blocks to true love, otherwise how can it be so sweet when you've finally found it?
Take the time to heal, & nurture the love in your heart again. When you're ready to try 1 more time, give it your 100%, & hope for the same. Then, the rewards can't be spelt out in words.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by mal_colm1979:Only thing I can say is Treasure every moment and Love yourself more coz you came into this world alone and you will leave here alone.
Life is a bed of rose with thorns underneath.... You came into this world crying while others around you smile....
When you leave... others will cry.... You must smile
You can do your very best to give all your other half wanted. If the other half decideds to walk away from all these one day, you will be sad, feeling unwanted and devastated...
Though there are surely couples who are still very loving and understand each other alot... They are able to withstand all storms... These people are Lucky...they have "won" in Love....
Love is a 50-50 gamble... either it screws u up big time, or else it will make you happy like hell...
When you fall into it, you look forward to everyday with a smile. The special place in your heart is filled up.... So even if you do not meet up everyday, you still feel good... Coz you know you are in love...
Ironically, you can't control it... maybe that's why they call it "falling" in love... You simply "fall" into it....
Guys and gals.... i am going through a difficult phase of being alone.... its tough, but I just this is just life..... That's why we were crying when we are born.....
Remember to save some love for yourself and not only for that him or her.... It will hurt deeper if it doesn't turn out your way....
Je'taime... -
Dear Malcolm,
Hi Feow
Love is something that can never be truly understood, for each & every one of us is made different. Some people are lucky enough to get it right, because their partner also figured things out & got it right. Some have to go through numerous relationships in order to figure out what they truly want.
To shy away from relationships just because the 1 you thought was for you, wasn't meant to be, is a shame. Simply because in your shell, you may actually push the 1 who's meant for you away & lose the chance to be perfectly happy.
A relationship is never roses, many run away at the 1st sign of deep trouble, forsaking the 1 they profess to love. There're always stumbling blocks to true love, otherwise how can it be so sweet when you've finally found it?
Take the time to heal, & nurture the love in your heart again. When you're ready to try 1 more time, give it your 100%, & hope for the same. Then, the rewards can't be spelt out in words.
FeowFeow
Thanks for the console.... Sigh.... Apparently its a case of "kuah puah" liao... The desire to go into love has simply diminished... I think even if I meet Miss Right along the way, I will be very afraid to give "LOVE" once again..
Dare not take the gamble anymore.. -
no pain no gain
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Hi people....
Don't know if any of you have the same feeling....
Some people after breaking off, still will think that they can find a better one out there and remain optimistic.....
Just wondering are there any of you who is "kuah puah" liao and don't wish to look at "love" and play the "game" anymore?? -
x1000Originally posted by mal_colm1979:Hi people....
Don't know if any of you have the same feeling....
Some people after breaking off, still will think that they can find a better one out there and remain optimistic.....
Just wondering are there any of you who is "kuah puah" liao and don't wish to look at "love" and play the "game" anymore??
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mal...u studied in uk?
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Time will heal ur wound & sorrow.......
Forget ur past, look to the future & see light u wan to achieve.
Staying & refusing to let go & standing at that particular point in time, only allow urself, watching ur chance of find the right one slipping away
If u r a sparrow, u can always fly together with a cluster of sparrows, they are there for u ..... no need to feel lonely & time to ponder ur sadness -
x2Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Its nt a matter of staying away or nt...
If U yearn for the happiness of love...U muz be prepared to bear the pain...love is sweet but it is also bitter... -
Dear Malcolm,
Actually, there was a period when I was actually "anti-men"
I was so scared of being hurt again, etc etc etc.
However, as time passed, I realised I shouldn't give the people who hurt me the gratification that they'd scarred me forever, & I was forever moping over them. That's when I decided that I'd do BETTER than them
If I'm a woman, & I can do it, then you, as a guy, can. You're only 2 years younger (if your birth year is 79), so don't give the excuse as too young, I did it when I was 23 or younger
FeowFeowOriginally posted by mal_colm1979:Hi Feow
Thanks for the console.... Sigh.... Apparently its a case of "kuah puah" liao... The desire to go into love has simply diminished... I think even if I meet Miss Right along the way, I will be very afraid to give "LOVE" once again..
Dare not take the gamble anymore.. -
Go PM other girls lah...
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Before i fall in love again...i am preparing to leave her..Originally posted by mal_colm1979:Yup.. i know. I am truly afraid now... Sure to be staying away from it a long long time.....
Very tired and very scared le. Guess i have to avoid it to protect myself....
Thanks dude. -
x2 here.....Originally posted by mal_colm1979:Hi people....
Don't know if any of you have the same feeling....
Some people after breaking off, still will think that they can find a better one out there and remain optimistic.....
Just wondering are there any of you who is "kuah puah" liao and don't wish to look at "love" and play the "game" anymore??