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Why??why does she choose to hurt me again??why when me really wanted to let her go..God had to let me see her again??and let her sms me??why do i have to see her sad face when me never go over said anything to her that day??she claimed that she choose him is not because she love him more..then why choice him??
Sorry to everyone who come in and see all these useless rantings..me really needed an outlet to say things out..its really hurting when you are hurt by the same person 3 times..it takes alot of courage to be able to forgive her 3 times..maybe this time me will really learned my lessons..once bitten twice shy..3 times bitten?? -
Why??why does she choose to hurt me again??why when me really wanted to let her go..God had to let me see her again??and let her sms me??why do i have to see her sad face when me never go over said anything to her that day??she claimed that she choose him is not because she love him more..then why choice him??
Hi William
Sorry to everyone who come in and see all these useless rantings..me really needed an outlet to say things out..its really hurting when you are hurt by the same person 3 times..it takes alot of courage to be able to forgive her 3 times..maybe this time me will really learned my lessons..once bitten twice shy..3 times bitten??
I know how much it hurts. To be hurt once is bad enough and through your post, you mentioned that you have forgave her 3 times. It really goes to show that you love her alot and really have faith in this r/s
Sad to say, she decided to walk away and choose the path of hurting you again... I do not know what are the previous encounters of you forgiving her, but right now it dosen't matters.
You gotta think what mae her want to hut you not once but THRICE... Couold she have some reasons of her own... Example: She tried but still find that no more feelings..??? You have to tell us alittle bit more so we can help you best.
I just got "ditched" as well... going through difficult phase also.... We have to try to overcome everytime we face it ok??
Looking forward to your posts...
Meanwhile.... take care... -
Love is painful...
Gt on with Ur life dude...
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hi all..thanks for your replies..me will be fine by tml morning..now me only abit sad..maybe because my feelings are quite numb already..the 1st time she left me is hell..but now is already the 3rd time..what more can i say..hm..just wanna forget this person and find my life back..hope malcom can also recover from his heartache..
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hi all..thanks for your replies..me will be fine by tml morning..now me only abit sad..maybe because my feelings are quite numb already..the 1st time she left me is hell..but now is already the 3rd time..what more can i say..hm..just wanna forget this person and find my life back..hope malcom can also recover from his heartache..
Hey brother...
Thanks for your concern.... It sucks.... but we still gonna live... -
Take care but remember not to be soft hearted again.
Never ever look back!!
I was once like you, I thought that by just forgiving her and give in to her sad face she will come back to me.
But sadly I was wrong in the end I found out this girls are only using you to feel better for themself. Their tatics is this when the her bf is sianz or mad with her she runs to you and ask you for help. This is only tempoary, she just playing with you until her bf comes back to her. She will then dump you for him again.
Think carefully if she says she loves you how come she is not with you now? You are just a small toy to her. Her feelings is not real is just us who suffer the worst.
I do not wish for you to suffer the same fate I had to go through in order to realise this.
Your love for is not worth any effort at all. Why waste so much time on her when they are much more better girls out there. Please do not tell me she will change cos is just bullshit crap that we say to ourselves to keep the so call " hope" alive.
SHe does not love you at all, she is using you like a toy. -
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gosh.in the exact same position..
except its been only my 2nd time.
heh..
good luck ta all heartbroken sods here ( : -
Dear William,
There's a saying, although by now I'm unsure of the words, but it's something to the effect of: Hit me once, shame on you. Hit me twice, shame on me. You've been hit the 3rd time, who else is there to shame?
Why subject yourself to such emotional torture? Please don't end up like this guy friend of mine. His girlfriend cheated on him SIX times. He's now so messed up emotionally, it really hurts to know......
Everytime she ended a relationship, she would go back to him, but once she found someone else, she'd ditch him. Is this what you want for yourself? Before you end up scarred for life, like my friend probably is, please cut yourself loose & forget about her.
Sever all contact once & for all.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by tan_william:hi all..thanks for your replies..me will be fine by tml morning..now me only abit sad..maybe because my feelings are quite numb already..the 1st time she left me is hell..but now is already the 3rd time..what more can i say..hm..just wanna forget this person and find my life back..hope malcom can also recover from his heartache.. -
i am in no mood to read. so i justOriginally posted by Simple_Bear:Love is painful...
Gt on with Ur life dude...
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I say is time to fight back against these girls
We do not need them !!
Is time to play with them and make them realise we too have feelings and we are not toys!! -
I say is time to fight back against these girls
We do not need them !!
Is time to play with them and make them realise we too have feelings and we are not toys!! i agree! -
yea u dun need them
but ur lanjiao needs them
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I'm not as good as the rest of them.....all i know the only word for is " Don't be a Gu Niang"Originally posted by tan_william:Why??why does she choose to hurt me again??why when me really wanted to let her go..God had to let me see her again??and let her sms me??why do i have to see her sad face when me never go over said anything to her that day??she claimed that she choose him is not because she love him more..then why choice him??
Sorry to everyone who come in and see all these useless rantings..me really needed an outlet to say things out..its really hurting when you are hurt by the same person 3 times..it takes alot of courage to be able to forgive her 3 times..maybe this time me will really learned my lessons..once bitten twice shy..3 times bitten?? -
HAHAHAHA nice.short and sweet and stright to the pointOriginally posted by dcx:I'm not as good as the rest of them.....all i know the only word for is " Don't be a Gu Niang" -
i guess it would be best that u can treat her as a friend...it will hurt u more terribly when she leaves u again.Originally posted by tan_william:Why??why does she choose to hurt me again??why when me really wanted to let her go..God had to let me see her again??and let her sms me??why do i have to see her sad face when me never go over said anything to her that day??she claimed that she choose him is not because she love him more..then why choice him??
Sorry to everyone who come in and see all these useless rantings..me really needed an outlet to say things out..its really hurting when you are hurt by the same person 3 times..it takes alot of courage to be able to forgive her 3 times..maybe this time me will really learned my lessons..once bitten twice shy..3 times bitten?? -
so does their "pu*sy" needs us..haha..just kiddingOriginally posted by letmetoucha:yea u dun need them
but ur lanjiao needs them -
tis kinda of gurl... better dun remain as fren.. u'll nv know when she gonna "play" with u again.. if u suay suay cant resist.. wah.. bro.. will see u up with another new thread..
so now... get a life... go on .. move on.. life's great
pu*ssy everywhere...
dun gif up millions of pussies for 1 pu*ssy!!
if u move on.. u sure find a ger to love.. no worries.. but open ur eyes k... dun get ur self hurt.. it sux
remember... LOVE's either Hell or Heaven.. If u feel u're in hell more den in Heaven... freaking move on... no point -
Originally posted by tan_william:Why??why does she choose to hurt me again??why when me really wanted to let her go..God had to let me see her again??and let her sms me??why do i have to see her sad face when me never go over said anything to her that day??she claimed that she choose him is not because she love him more..then why choice him??
Sorry to everyone who come in and see all these useless rantings..me really needed an outlet to say things out..its really hurting when you are hurt by the same person 3 times..it takes alot of courage to be able to forgive her 3 times..maybe this time me will really learned my lessons..once bitten twice shy..3 times bitten??
If you failed to find the reason to convince your heart and soul to leave, nothing works even if your mind knows about it. Technically speaking, you thought you have moved on, but in reality, you didn't even move an inch. Remember that emotions are 24 times stronger than your mind. Acknowledgment of the mind is only 0.04% of the vote, which is like completely useless.
I have known friends who are like 10++ times bitten and still like that.
P.S: A karmic relationship is formidable; if you don't have the wisdom to exercise the route you ought to go, you end up letting circumstances take control and swing into full strength.
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Hi tan_william,
remember me? I remember your advice and I am doing fine, not as in 100% recovered but your advices really helps me alot. I am sorry for what you have suffered. If you still recall what I have suffered through, there is one more thing which I thought would impact me greatly but to my surprise, I didnt feel much of an impact cos everything is a history. When I know that she has engaged with her bf , I just want to look forward and move on with my life, seeking for a new love and a new future.
I start to look at things from a different perpective. By turning back and look at how is she and whether is she doing fine, you are holding yourself from moving on. Good luck. -
love is a double edged sword.can make u wan to live on forever or can kill u instantly.
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Hi ptw..me rem u..me actually already never contacted her for ard 2months at that time..but we saw each other one day at one of our old hangout place..me never went over and said anything to her..and just finished my food and went off..but before i went off..she gave me a very sad look..it hurt me alot..then a week later she smsed me..saying that it hurt her alot that me treated her like a total stranger..me gave in to that sms and contacted her again..me know me is a fool..but now me had already barred all her msgs..sms and calls..think its better this way..me going oversea in 2 weeks time..hope me will have moved on by the time me come back..
Thank you everyone who had replied here..it really help me alot..
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hope u find someone u like/love when u are overseas then u can forget abt her for good already!Originally posted by tan_william:Hi ptw..me rem u..me actually already never contacted her for ard 2months at that time..but we saw each other one day at one of our old hangout place..me never went over and said anything to her..and just finished my food and went off..but before i went off..she gave me a very sad look..it hurt me alot..then a week later she smsed me..saying that it hurt her alot that me treated her like a total stranger..me gave in to that sms and contacted her again..me know me is a fool..but now me had already barred all her msgs..sms and calls..think its better this way..me going oversea in 2 weeks time..hope me will have moved on by the time me come back..
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haha..thanks..my friends kept telling me to go there find 1 ang moh back..maybe thats what i should do..
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Originally posted by drx:I say is time to fight back against these girls
We do not need them !!
Is time to play with them and make them realise we too have feelings and we are not toys!!Originally posted by mal_colm1979: i agree!