I need help...I just cant lie..:( :( :/

• shade343

  3 May 05, 23:30

  I just cant seem to lie. Sometimes I wonder whether thats a good thing or a bad thing This troubles me.
• dragg

  3 May 05, 23:32

  you are already lying.
  
  
  
  
• FireIce

  3 May 05, 23:34

  then u better dun do sales
• shade343

  3 May 05, 23:36

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  then u better dun do sales

  Thet funny thing is when I do sales...I tend to also speak and emphasise on the bad point of the product unknowingly
• ditzy

  3 May 05, 23:37

  Originally posted by shade343:

  Thet funny thing is when I do sales...I tend to also speak and emphasise on the bad point of the product unknowingly

  Exactly!
• shade343

  3 May 05, 23:39

  The thing is, I have frens who know about this and they take advantage of me. Like they know I cant lie. So they will ask me for some info about another fren and I find great difficulty in telling a lie. So the fren will most likely end up coercing me into spilling the beans.
• littlestream

  3 May 05, 23:40

  Originally posted by dragg:

  you are already lying.
  
  
  
  

  (you are funny!)
• ditzy

  3 May 05, 23:40

  Originally posted by shade343:

  The thing is, I have frens who know about this and they take advantage of me. Like they know I cant lie. So they will ask me for some info about another fren and I find great difficulty in telling a lie. So the fren will most likely end up coercing me into spilling the beans.

  Pick one:
  
  1) Change your habits.
  2) Change your friends.
  
  
• shade343

  3 May 05, 23:43

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  Pick one:
  
  1) Change your habits.
  2) Change your friends.
  
  

  Both options dont look ideal
  
  If I change my friends, it shows that I dont trust them and its not possible to change my habit
• ditzy

  3 May 05, 23:44

  Originally posted by shade343:

  Both options dont look ideal
  
  If I change my friends, it shows that I dont trust them and its not possible to change my habit

  Then I guess you're fcuked.
• shade343

  3 May 05, 23:49

  Have you been in a situation in which one of your friends lied to you just to cop information out of you?
• ditzy

  3 May 05, 23:50

  Originally posted by shade343:

  Have you been in a situation in which one of your friends lied to you just to cop information out of you?

  Of course! I do it all the time.
• Imperfect

  4 May 05, 01:14

  u dont need to know how to lie... just learn to say no to some demands...
• drx

  4 May 05, 03:34

  The thing is, I have frens who know about this and they take advantage of me. Like they know I cant lie. So they will ask me for some info about another fren and I find great difficulty in telling a lie. So the fren will most likely end up coercing me into spilling the beans.
  
  Try this
  
  Next time your friend or Guy A tries to tell you a scecret or infomation please stop him, if you do not know anything about Guy A how can you lie about it? If guy B comes along and ask for Guy A info you have nothing to say or tell to Guy B because you do not know anything.
• HENG@

  4 May 05, 03:39

  Originally posted by shade343:

  The thing is, I have frens who know about this and they take advantage of me. Like they know I cant lie. So they will ask me for some info about another fren and I find great difficulty in telling a lie. So the fren will most likely end up coercing me into spilling the beans.

  take a page from politicians for whom being caught lying has potentially disastrous results for them.
  
  learn to say : "no comments"
• ditzy

  4 May 05, 05:19

  Originally posted by Imperfect:

  u dont need to know how to lie... just learn to say no to some demands...

  Guy1: Do you want money? I got loads to spare.
  Guy2: NoooooOOOOoooOOoooOOo!!!!!!!!!!!
  
  
• varatare

  4 May 05, 09:52

  Hi shade343
  
  This is not a problem where you cant lie. This is a problem where you dont know how to keep a secret. I cant lie too, but never have such problem.
  
  Regards.
  
  

  Originally posted by shade343:

  The thing is, I have frens who know about this and they take advantage of me. Like they know I cant lie. So they will ask me for some info about another fren and I find great difficulty in telling a lie. So the fren will most likely end up coercing me into spilling the beans.

• choco B

  4 May 05, 09:53

  Act blur. Say you dunno.
• laurence82

  4 May 05, 09:53

  some people dont understand the meaning of some..
• Kenashi

  4 May 05, 09:55

  Liar liar
• Kenashi

  4 May 05, 09:57

  Originally posted by varatare:

  Hi shade343
  
  This is not a problem where you cant lie. This is a problem where you dont know how to keep a secret. I cant lie too, but never have such problem.
  
  Regards.
  
  

  
• Kenashi

  4 May 05, 09:58

  Originally posted by shade343:

  The thing is, I have frens who know about this and they take advantage of me. Like they know I cant lie. So they will ask me for some info about another fren and I find great difficulty in telling a lie. So the fren will most likely end up coercing me into spilling the beans.

  that seemed to be big-mouthed to me than being honest
• choco B

  4 May 05, 10:02

  What's the truth?
  
  Your friend asks : Do you think he's right?
  You answer: I can't say he's wrong
  
  A non-committal statement. You also also never claim that he's right.
  
  Of course in the end, asking you for an opinion is as good as not asking
• varatare

  4 May 05, 10:03

  Hi Kenashi
  
  excalty what I mean but in more layman term.
  
  Regards
  
  

  Originally posted by Kenashi:

  that seemed to be big-mouthed to me than being honest

• shinta

  4 May 05, 10:05

  if its secret.. just say i can't tell u... that should do the trick.. or say go ask that person