What Should I Do From Here?
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hmmm...recently,met a girl of my dreams or if it's too exaggerating,my expectations...she was like the one i am looking for all this while...But the problem is,i am not sure whether i should go after her...Afterall,she's e girl of my dream,but to her,i may not be her prince charming...If it was e past character of mine,i'm sure i won't hesitate to go after her,but now,i'm in stuck.I,like any human beings,is scared of rejection,should i try or stay put?
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I think you are still too young to be so sure to say that she is THE ONE for you.
Try to be frens first ba.
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I agree with brownie...
Be frenz first n see hw tins progress...
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haha,e thing is,we r friends.Its just that we are in different schools now and does not chat as often.I'm too young?eh,this i not sure lo.Very confused.I mean she may not be my "One" but she's someone i being looking for,ya?
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Well, what are you waiting for? Opportunity doesnt always knock twice at the door.Originally posted by boyboy18:hmmm...recently,met a girl of my dreams or if it's too exaggerating,my expectations...she was like the one i am looking for all this while...But the problem is,i am not sure whether i should go after her...Afterall,she's e girl of my dream,but to her,i may not be her prince charming...If it was e past character of mine,i'm sure i won't hesitate to go after her,but now,i'm in stuck.I,like any human beings,is scared of rejection,should i try or stay put?
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Originally posted by boyboy18:
Well, you'd never know if you don't try. If you don't feel your balls are up to it, instead of thrusting the question right at her face, why not drop some hints first? Ask her out for single dates more often. Send her cards with lots of hearts and/or flowers. Call her more often to ask her if she has eaten. Things like that. Guys are expected to make the first move anyway. Can't expect her to send you an invitation, right?
Very confused.I mean she may not be my "One" but she's someone i being looking for,ya?
However, if you don't wish to risk losing your face or the friendship, then you could just stay put, remain her loyal nice-guy friend and admire her from afar till she finds her happiness. With someone else. -
sorry to say to you, u cannot have the cake n eat it....Originally posted by boyboy18:hmmm...recently,met a girl of my dreams or if it's too exaggerating,my expectations...she was like the one i am looking for all this while...But the problem is,i am not sure whether i should go after her...Afterall,she's e girl of my dream,but to her,i may not be her prince charming...If it was e past character of mine,i'm sure i won't hesitate to go after her,but now,i'm in stuck.I,like any human beings,is scared of rejection,should i try or stay put?
everything comes with a price. problem is with you, you need confidence, you need to organize your thoughts then thinking betw the legs.
if u can treat her as a normal person, get chance to know more of her, ur dream may shatter. -
u dun chat often how u know she is the girl of ur dreams?Originally posted by boyboy18:haha,e thing is,we r friends.Its just that we are in different schools now and does not chat as often.I'm too young?eh,this i not sure lo.Very confused.I mean she may not be my "One" but she's someone i being looking for,ya?
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Originally posted by Tuatau:
Nice guys finish last
However, if you don't wish to risk losing your face or the friendship, then you could just stay put, remain her loyal nice-guy friend and admire her from afar till she finds her happiness. With someone else.
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haha,this i know,but i am still confused,not knowing whether to go after her anotOriginally posted by shade343:Well, what are you waiting for? Opportunity doesnt always knock twice at the door. -
i'm not afraid of losing face lo.Its just that,i am more afraid of being rejected.Surely rejection feeling is always not nice.Originally posted by Tuatau:Well, you'd never know if you don't try. If you don't feel your balls are up to it, instead of thrusting the question right at her face, why not drop some hints first? Ask her out for single dates more often. Send her cards with lots of hearts and/or flowers. Call her more often to ask her if she has eaten. Things like that. Guys are expected to make the first move anyway. Can't expect her to send you an invitation, right?
However, if you don't wish to risk losing your face or the friendship, then you could just stay put, remain her loyal nice-guy friend and admire her from afar till she finds her happiness. With someone else. -
i mean not often as in not everyday lo.Only when she is free then we do chat.Originally posted by Axelheat755:u dun chat often how u know she is the girl of ur dreams?
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What are you confused about? If you dont take this opportunity to go after her, there may never be another chance too. Stop thinking so much and go chase herOriginally posted by boyboy18:haha,this i know,but i am still confused,not knowing whether to go after her anot -
ahahas,if i not her type how?being rejected n being depress myself?
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Juz tk it as an experience...Originally posted by boyboy18:ahahas,if i not her type how?being rejected n being depress myself?
Read my signature... -
i wonder how many experience i have to go thru
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Depends on fate and luck dude...Originally posted by boyboy18:i wonder how many experience i have to go thru -
u mean u dun ask her, u will be her type?Originally posted by boyboy18:ahahas,if i not her type how?being rejected n being depress myself?
when a woman say "u not my type" its just a polite way to say u dun interest me la
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sing to her...if you know the song.
I won't bore you with the detail baby
I don't even wannna waste your time
Let's just say that maybe
You could help to ease my mind
Baby, I ain't Mr. Right
But if you're looking for fastlove
If that's love in your eyes
It's more than enough
Had some bad luck
Some fastlove is all that I've got on my mind
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not again..hahasOriginally posted by Simple_Bear:Depends on fate and luck dude... -
Its universal dude...Originally posted by boyboy18:not again..hahas -
i boring,nth to stress,stress bout this.Hahas.but this really bothers me
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Originally posted by boyboy18:
Of course nobody likes being rejected, but someone has got to bear that risk. And guys are expected to be that 'someone' because they usually are the ones who choose.
i'm not afraid of losing face lo.Its just that,i am more afraid of being rejected.Surely rejection feeling is always not nice.
Girls aren't expected to bear that risk because they usually can only choose from among those who have chosen them. -
is she yr first love?
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nope.Originally posted by drx:is she yr first love?