A case study to share...
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This happenned to my friend Larry (not his real name of cos). He used to date this rich girl called Bel (also not real name). They were quite compatible. Same height (both of them were tall), interests etc. Just that Bel, being born from a rich family, acts like a spoiled brat sometimes. She used to quarrel and make a big fuss over small stupid stuff, dont allow him to go out with our clique to accompany her etc.
Then one night by chance, Larry met this girl from chinablack called Eve (fake name). It was the last time he ever stepped into a club. Back then Larry was still with Bel, but he dated Eve at the same time. Eve was 2 years older than Larry (who was 19). During the courtship stage, eve was a very nice girl. Sweet, caring, loving and all those goodie stuff that all guys look for. Larry was getting infatuated with Eve.
Soon, Larry feels that he has no more feelings for Bel anymore, so he decided to break up with Bel for Eve. Bel was sad, but she went on with a life and got a new bf later on...
Back to my friend Larry. He was happy, now that he did not have to face the spoiled brat Bel anymore. But little did he know that Eve was actually several times worse than Bel was. After the first month of their relationship, Eve revealed her dark side to everyone.
She forced Larry to accompany her everyday. Larry stopped goin out with us completely, he skipped all his poly classes just to accompany her. He was always late for morning classes (because eve visits his place in the wee hours of the morning). Because of his lack of attendance, he was barred from taking the papers before. LArry also skipped his part time job (shop sales staff) alot of times by getting fake MCs.
He completely becomed another person. Eve has a very low level of tolerance towards jealousy. When she saw Larry sms Bel, she quarrelled and threw tantrums all over. Eve had completely turned Larry's life upside down. Because of his constant skipping of classes, he failed his poly modules and he was kicked out by the poly. He is currently on appeal.
Larry decided he did not want to stay in this type of monstrous relationship anymore. But it was not over. Eve threatened to do things like commit suicide should Larry leave her. Till today, Larry stayed on in this half-f***ed relationship with that woman.
I believe the moral of this story is : Bu2 Yao4 Luan4 Tou1 Chi1 (Don't Cheat)
If my fren hadnt two timed Bel, im sure he will be a happier guy today.
Share your thoughts
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dun anyhow pick up girls in Chinablack?
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Some gers r jus....
tsk tsk tsk....
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Sounds a bit like my cousin's sad story. He had a gf from hell as well. In the end my uncle and auntie sent him overseas to study to cut off all contacts with the girl.
Now he is happily married with a British wife who serves him hand and foot. -
haha... actually i knew a girl from CB as well (fren's fren) She exhibits the same traits as eve. That is why i am reluctant to know her too well...Originally posted by FireIce:dun anyhow pick up girls in Chinablack?
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I fail to see the relevance and significance of "same height" in the story.
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Just trying to say they look compatible. Everyone around them thought that way last time. They were kinda like Twin Towers...Originally posted by charlize:I fail to see the relevance and significance of "same height" in the story. -
Even if he wasn't cheating.. He could have been a single guy who got to know Eve, and the result would probably still be quite the same...?Originally posted by hypercurry:Share your thoughts
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then wad's the moral of the story? dun date gers who are rich or from china black?
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nan ren yao you zhu jian...cannot always let girls control you~
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19, two years older... 21.
still a kiddie to me -
break when U know its time to break.Originally posted by excused:then wad's the moral of the story? dun date gers who are rich or from china black? 
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The moral of the story is: Don't go China Black. Go other place chiong instead. -
i tink e most impt thing is..... take................ ur.................... time.............. Ya.. to unravel the true character of the other person b4 gettin into a relationship.
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wat a strange story! I watched an adult-movie called Eve on cable tv...kinda same plot except Larry dosent go to uni..n Bel fell inlove wit a married man who killed his wife for Bel
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y u put the title as case study ah?
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Very true, u need time to see the true colours of that personOriginally posted by zincess:i tink e most impt thing is..... take................ ur.................... time.............. Ya.. to unravel the true character of the other person b4 gettin into a relationship. -
i only believe in relationship of years
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Gin nah.Originally posted by kopiosatu:19, two years older... 21.
still a kiddie to me -
I dun tink age really matters.
i'm 18 my bf is 23. Wad happens?
We hit it off.
We've been together for a yr plus N we nv quarrel. -
but your friend happy to be controlled and to get his life ruined mah. if he not happy to get that then he break le so in the end is his choice i guess
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I doubt he is truly happy. He used to be very joker type. Now change liao. Sigh.Originally posted by hisoka:but your friend happy to be controlled and to get his life ruined mah. if he not happy to get that then he break le so in the end is his choice i guess
And btw he already talked to the poly director about his appeal to go back to study. The director allow him to go back, but he will still be expelled anytime if his grades drop. -
At least it's a chance your friend can work on?Originally posted by hypercurry:I doubt he is truly happy. He used to be very joker type. Now change liao. Sigh.
And btw he already talked to the poly director about his appeal to go back to study. The director allow him to go back, but he will still be expelled anytime if his grades drop.