Scenario - A and B
-
Lets name the guy: A -19 years old
And the girl: B - 19 years old
A and B started off as friends. Everything was going cool for them.. until one day.. Both A and B realised they like each other. A went off to express his feelings to B. B accepts and boom. It started their relationship.
A and B love each other very much. However, after weeks, A felt that B was ignoring him.. felt insecure..
A and B came together and have a good talk. B told A that she was not ready for relationships- reasons: [ Needed more time, Studies ]. And decided it would be better off to remain as friends. reasons: [ B felt it was unfair for A to carry on this relationship because she herself knows she had not been showing enough love for A due to half-heartedness.. confusion ]
However B told A that when she was ready for love, she would surely come back for A.- Provided that A is still single.
They still love each other even though returing to friends.
PS: Comment on this by providing wat should A do now? blah blah..
Give views and thoughts abt it.. -
A should concerntrate on his studies first...don't think too much lah dude~
-
A should think of C - a cute 18 year old chio bu.
-
Cont to be good frenZ to B & wait till B is ready to accept ur luv again. As time will reveal how much ones love each other, if not, it also rational to move on & seek the type of love A want.
-
I think they are not ready yet...they should finish their studies first but i think they are suited for each other,just that the time is not ripeOriginally posted by InSidiousGG:Lets name the guy: A -19 years old
And the girl: B - 19 years old
A and B started off as friends. Everything was going cool for them.. until one day.. Both A and B realised they like each other. A went off to express his feelings to B. B accepts and boom. It started their relationship.
A and B love each other very much. However, after weeks, A felt that B was ignoring him.. felt insecure..
A and B came together and have a good talk. B told A that she was not ready for relationships- reasons: [ Needed more time, Studies ]. And decided it would be better off to remain as friends. reasons: [ B felt it was unfair for A to carry on this relationship because she herself knows she had not been showing enough love for A due to half-heartedness.. confusion ]
However B told A that when she was ready for love, she would surely come back for A.- Provided that A is still single.
They still love each other even though returing to friends.
PS: Comment on this by providing wat should A do now? blah blah..
Give views and thoughts abt it..
-
Are you A or B?
-
U also know how to say this ar?Originally posted by StarPuppy:I think they are not ready yet...they should finish their studies first but i think they are suited for each other,just that the time is not ripe -
ruhua~!!Originally posted by Ito_^:A should think of C - a cute 18 year old chio bu.
-
you take from my former post arh? haha
-
A should continue to remain as friends with B.. but keep his heart open for others as well...
For all you know B may never be ready for love with A and at their current age, a lot of changes will occur with their mindset... -
eh...its i can advice but i cannot do....look down on me alwaysOriginally posted by browniebaobao:U also know how to say this ar?
-
Originally posted by StarPuppy:eh...its i can advice but i cannot do....look down on me always
Not look down on u wor.
If u can say that to others, why can't say that to yourself? -
The story continues:
Now A realised that B was attached with her ex even though she told A she was not ready for love and all as mentioned above in the first post.
Just one week after A and B became friends.
Is it considered cheating?
Views and thoughts please. -
after reading ur 1st post i thought u had the same situation as me.. in the past where me and my gf (b4 we are together) she told me the same thing.. but days goes by, and drags on, and in the end we were together after going thru all kinds of rough roads..Originally posted by InSidiousGG:The story continues:
Now A realised that B was attached with her ex even though she told A she was not ready for love and all as mentioned above in the first post.
Just one week after A and B became friends.
Is it considered cheating?
Views and thoughts please.
but as for ur case, u said she went back to her ex.. so i think she lied to u 1.. shes not worth for u to love.. -
B 'attached' to her ex is what sense?Originally posted by InSidiousGG:The story continues:
Now A realised that B was attached with her ex even though she told A she was not ready for love and all as mentioned above in the first post.
Just one week after A and B became friends.
Is it considered cheating?
Views and thoughts please. -
Originally posted by InSidiousGG:
Don't you mean "just one week after A and B became a couple"? I thought they were already friends for quite some time.
Now A realised that B was attached with her ex even though she told A she was not ready for love and all as mentioned above in the first post.
Just one week after A and B became friends.
Is it considered cheating?
I don't think it is cheating. One week as a couple sounds trivial, how much feelings could have been pumped in that one week?
In my opinion, B was probably just testing the waters by sampling A. She probably didn't like the test results, and decided to go back to her ex-boyfriend. However, she was reluctant to lose a good "guy friend" in A, so she wrote him a rain check to keep him around, in case of emergencies. -
hm... woah.
sounds like the girls getting more cunning these days
-
To answer your question: YESOriginally posted by InSidiousGG:The story continues:
Now A realised that B was attached with her ex even though she told A she was not ready for love and all as mentioned above in the first post.
Just one week after A and B became friends.
Is it considered cheating?
Views and thoughts please.
But i think you shouldnt think too much about it. Such cheatings happen all the time. Whether its the guy or the gal. You should concentrate on deciding your next move. -
Originally posted by elektra:
It goes both ways.
sounds like the girls getting more cunning these days
It's just that guys used to do it more in the past, and now the tide is turning to balance the scales.