Partner of different race and nationality
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Don't let anyone decide for you......you should decide for yourself, right or wrong.. it's you who made the decision. Learn from your mistakes and you'll be a better person in the future. If you really like him, then give the relationship a try..doesn't mean you have to marry him.
I'm a malay guy and once I fell for a malaysian chinese girl but to afraid to express my feelings. Life is strange....we always think that we could plan and control our future but things don't always turn out that way. I always imagined my dream girl to be my own race but when you met someone special, it's just happens. It's sad that people are not true to their feelings due to pressure from family and society.
Believe in yourself..you'll make the right choice. Anyway..all the best(^_^)b -
Hi, thanks to all of ur advice...esp to aragorn73 and young stallion. our age diff is 6yrs..dunno if thats considered too old for me...but my man has a young character and likes to joke ard...and i've always wanted a bf of the same race but things dun usually turn out the way it shld be. thats why i've been wondering what exactly do i see in him...he's lowly educated, smoke, sometimes talk dirty...but i can see that he's a considerate and honest guy, who likes to help friends in need. anyway...hopefully my parents are open minded...and will accept him if i intro to them. but that will take abt a few yrs before we decide to settle down.Originally posted by Young Stallion:Don't let anyone decide for you......you should decide for yourself, right or wrong.. it's you who made the decision. Learn from your mistakes and you'll be a better person in the future. If you really like him, then give the relationship a try..doesn't mean you have to marry him.
I'm a malay guy and once I fell for a malaysian chinese girl but to afraid to express my feelings. Life is strange....we always think that we could plan and control our future but things don't always turn out that way. I always imagined my dream girl to be my own race but when you met someone special, it's just happens. It's sad that people are not true to their feelings due to pressure from family and society.
Believe in yourself..you'll make the right choice. Anyway..all the best(^_^)b
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Originally posted by Constance:
Not for you. THe fact that you already mention the word "DIFFERENCE" shows you are not colour blind, and love is. But relax, you are like hundreds of other normal people. You make people like me shine
[b]What do ppl think abt partners of different race and nationality? will love eventually overwhelms the difference?
What do u guys think?
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THat is complete and utter BULLSHIT, spgs are a minority and forever will be. THe people here can't even muster enough courage to converse politely/properly/eye contact with westerners, yet alone bonk them with emotional connections? Please..Originally posted by leilan84:frankly speaking, i do not enjoy the fact that more and more
singapore gal are becoming spg
however it's their freedom.. just hope that they'll find happiness
if it's even there.... most just fark and go... ask those who have been
fark by ang mo before and tell me it's not true
Such talk about more SPGS just puts more local men down, and for what?