Love problem
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Met this girl on the net she is not pretty but her character sure attracted me and I fell for her OMG at the very beginning when we chat, I only treat her like a friend who can really get along with me very well but after I met her in person, we also chat and laugh at every little things like can really get along well lor. she like another guy but the guy is like toying with her feelings and she is very upset about that. I even teach her how to go after other guys on the phone and she taught me too how to go after other girls as well. But after I met her, it's like magic somehow i really like her character and she too enjoys going out with me but not sure if she likes me or not. We only go out once only which is last friday till from morning till about 4am. She even agreed happily to go out with me again and even suggested a few new places. does she like me or just like me as a friend not like BF? I guess it's only one sided love. I never call her everytime, i only call her like once a week or two because cannot call her all the time mah later she finds me irritating. Can anyone advise me what to do please? She left me a deep impression which i cannot forget till now
is it ok to tell her i like her on the next date? she told me she also looking for a partner now. should i tell her ....... -
i lazy to read ur whole thread....saw only a few sentences....shld u go n tell her that you like her???
Well....do you need me to teach you how to fcuk???
kaoz...you've answer already....juz go n do what you think is right n good for yuo...not otehrs to decide or give you opinions on tis kinda issues.... -
just afraid that she might be treating me as a freind only and don't even have feelings for me guess i call her more and chat with her and make her like me first
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well, be patient and get to know her and let her know u better. maybe she's as unsure about her own feelings about you. go out a few more times and the time will come. good luck.
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YES!Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:Met this girl on the net she is not pretty but her character sure attracted me and I fell for her OMG at the very beginning when we chat, I only treat her like a friend who can really get along with me very well but after I met her in person, we also chat and laugh at every little things like can really get along well lor. she like another guy but the guy is like toying with her feelings and she is very upset about that. I even teach her how to go after other guys on the phone and she taught me too how to go after other girls as well. But after I met her, it's like magic somehow i really like her character and she too enjoys going out with me but not sure if she likes me or not. We only go out once only which is last friday till from morning till about 4am. She even agreed happily to go out with me again and even suggested a few new places. does she like me or just like me as a friend not like BF? I guess it's only one sided love. I never call her everytime, i only call her like once a week or two because cannot call her all the time mah later she finds me irritating. Can anyone advise me what to do please? She left me a deep impression which i cannot forget till now is it ok to tell her i like her on the next date? she told me she also looking for a partner now. should i tell her ....... 
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It's ur choice...y consult us?Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:just afraid that she might be treating me as a freind only and don't even have feelings for me guess i call her more and chat with her and make her like me first -
U met her only once har?
Slowly la. Be frens first, know each other better. -
You know what ? i think you should go and tell her that you like her. you know , is hard to find a girl that can get so much of your attention & is hard to find someone who can get along with u. you should fight for yr love and give a chance for you and even her. trust me , is better than keep in your heart and don't let yr feeling show
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how to be slow she is looking for a bf now so if i don't be fast later she kena taken i go bang wallOriginally posted by browniebaobao:U met her only once har?
Slowly la. Be frens first, know each other better. -
mayb u'll juz tell her how u felt for her from the start till nw..but don't scare her away la..like keep askin her to be ur gf or wat..cos met once only..after tell her,the decision is hers to make
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ASK HER!!
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I agree with BaoBao, dun rush into a r/s but sit down & give many tots, understand her, know wat she likes & dislikes, know her more not from the outside but from the inside,wat's her character like? Prob then, u will have a clearer mind of her & maybe u can picture u & her together now to the future. It's all about long term & not just a short term happiness.Originally posted by browniebaobao:U met her only once har?
Slowly la. Be frens first, know each other better.
Being able to click, there's maybe possiblity that u & her hav the chemistry together, however, in other occasion, it's better to as frenZ or buddies ... -
If you really like this girl, and wish to go into a relationship with her. You will have to TELL her. It doesn't matter even if she rejects you, at least you'll know and both of you can be a better friend to each other without worrying if either one is having a hidden agenda behind their face.
Even if a relationship doesn't blossom between the two of you, your friendship with her will grow even closer. Either way, you've everything to benefit. Nowadays...girls don't freak out on the slightest love declarations cos they're more open-minded and desire romance.
Times have changed...and I can feel it in the wind.
Good luck.Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:Met this girl on the net she is not pretty but her character sure attracted me and I fell for her OMG at the very beginning when we chat, I only treat her like a friend who can really get along with me very well but after I met her in person, we also chat and laugh at every little things like can really get along well lor. she like another guy but the guy is like toying with her feelings and she is very upset about that. I even teach her how to go after other guys on the phone and she taught me too how to go after other girls as well. But after I met her, it's like magic somehow i really like her character and she too enjoys going out with me but not sure if she likes me or not. We only go out once only which is last friday till from morning till about 4am. She even agreed happily to go out with me again and even suggested a few new places. does she like me or just like me as a friend not like BF? I guess it's only one sided love. I never call her everytime, i only call her like once a week or two because cannot call her all the time mah later she finds me irritating. Can anyone advise me what to do please? She left me a deep impression which i cannot forget till now is it ok to tell her i like her on the next date? she told me she also looking for a partner now. should i tell her ....... -
Anything is quite possible for now....Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:just afraid that she might be treating me as a freind only and don't even have feelings for me guess i call her more and chat with her and make her like me first
Try to be a bit 'nicer' to her in certain ways and see how she reacts to it... Study her body language...
And like what the others have suggested, don't be too blind by the superficials... You might really not know her well enough yet...? But then again... If you THINK you REALLY LIKES her.. And if you also FINDS OUT that she's INTERESTED in YOU.... I'll say "What the heck?! GO GRAB HER!!"
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Frog, how about letting her know that you'd like to see more of her? Ask her out more often, call her up to chit chat more often, go out strolling together more often, and soon things may just take shape in natural course.
One'd like to think she may have dropped a hint or two, but like what the posts above have said, the decision to act ultimately lies with you. You are a guy, and though times have changed, guys are still expected to make that first move when it comes to courtship. -
Originally posted by Kerotan Frog:how to be slow she is looking for a bf now so if i don't be fast later she kena taken i go bang wall
sometimes too rush will only make things worse.
She told u she is looking for a bf? Then I wonder how serious can she be..find a bf for the sake of finding a bf?