Forgeting about your ex
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How long you takes to forget your ex?
Means you never think about her/him for the whole day.... -
when you met someone who is even more wonderful than your ex..
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15minutes to a week. I'll forget.
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wished i had... but nv had for last 5 yrsOriginally posted by doomz:How long you takes to forget your ex?
Means you never think about her/him for the whole day....
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working on ways to reduce the " forgeting ex " time frame
takes about a week
down from 4 months -
I on my way to my first month.....Still think of her everyday
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There are people who have left footprints in your heart and whom you would not remember for many many years, but could still one day reappear in your memories out of nowhere for no apparent reason. While many many years ago such memories would have caused not quite a small amount of heartache, this time round you may even surprise yourself that the heart feels not a single ripple of emotion at the re-emergence of the memories.
To me, forgetting is never the issue. Letting go is. -
+1.Originally posted by Tuatau:There are people who have left footprints in your heart and whom you would not remember for many many years, but could still one day reappear in your memories out of nowhere for no apparent reason. While many many years ago such memories would have caused not quite a small amount of heartache, this time round you may even surprise yourself that the heart feels not a single ripple of emotion at the re-emergence of the memories.
To me, forgetting is never the issue. Letting go is.
Some pp take a wk, some take a few weeks, some take years & some never..... got out of it......
When do u wanna let go n move on? It's all up to u alone.
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really depends on how much you love that person ba...
some you take lesser time...
you may even take forever... -
the best way to forget : get someone new or get a new play thing or hobby.....
p.s.:u r still the one who can decide how long it takes to forget and forgive.....
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I did stand strong i did tell myself to forget her...but do you know my body is willing but my mind is not?
Espically when i enter my room.....So quiet
Espically when i on my way back home....So lonely
Espically when i sleep...Keep dreaming of her
I want to forget about her...I keep myself busy but she still appear in my mind at random times... -
i u'stand wat u r going thru...at this moment of time....frds, support, encouragement etc etc...all are very impt!!Originally posted by doomz:I did stand strong i did tell myself to forget her...but do you know my body is willing but my mind is not?
Espically when i enter my room.....So quiet
Espically when i on my way back home....So lonely
Espically when i sleep...Keep dreaming of her
I want to forget about her...I keep myself busy but she still appear in my mind at random times...
try go out more with frds, liase more with ppl ......the bottom line is still ur own mind set and determination...although i know tok is easy.....its still painful ... -
Mai Sad ... Must learn to be Strong..
After every relastionship failure ... Learn to be strong dudez..
But if really cannot take it...
MEAN U WEAK...THAN THE WORLD DUN NEED WEAK PPL LIKE U...GO JUMP MRT TRACK..BUT DUN JUMP YISHUN ONE..
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dude if u are under 20, seriously go cry to ur mum. its not like u are going to marry her, i mean how many relationships dolast that long? If u are over 20, be a farking grown up will u? its not like its the end of the world or something.
ps : do not gimmie examples of relationships who last long, im stating on an average =) -
Agree with u ...Waattaa!Originally posted by waattaa!:dude if u are under 20, seriously go cry to ur mum. its not like u are going to marry her, i mean how many relationships dolast that long? If u are over 20, be a farking grown up will u? its not like its the end of the world or something.
ps : do not gimmie examples of relationships who last long, im stating on an average =)
Seem that i and u can't stand loser like them .. Whining over lost relationship...
i know why will broke off lo...cause loser like u all dun deserve any relastionship...who want to stay with a loser...
G0 and cRy to your paPa .. !!! -
guess we are all mortal... especially you have been the devoted type it will be more difficult... not a day has passed without missing her for the last 9 months my ex deserted me ... how to for someone you love so much....
Guess it will take times and time will heal the wound ..... and I wish her the best. whoever and where she is or with... Cos she is a nice and good Girl.... and forever in my heart... -
Ai ya...over liao come here act like a gentleman...Like as u say . we all are mortal..i dun believe u so nice ..mai act la...Originally posted by seancannot:guess we are all mortal... especially you have been the devoted type it will be more difficult... not a day has passed without missing her for the last 9 months my ex deserted me ... how to for someone you love so much....
Guess it will take times and time will heal the wound ..... and I wish her the best. whoever and where she is or with... Cos she is a nice and good Girl.... and forever in my heart...
i confrim u there backstab..here and there...kneel down beg her..even throw away your man pride..just to get her back . Shame on u -
hmm.....so touching.....Originally posted by seancannot:guess we are all mortal... especially you have been the devoted type it will be more difficult... not a day has passed without missing her for the last 9 months my ex deserted me ... how to for someone you love so much....
Guess it will take times and time will heal the wound ..... and I wish her the best. whoever and where she is or with... Cos she is a nice and good Girl.... and forever in my heart... -
Thanks for your insult.. AnywayOriginally posted by shlnta:Ai ya...over liao come here act like a gentleman...Like as u say . we all are mortal..i dun believe u so nice ..mai act la...
i confrim u there backstab..here and there...kneel down beg her..even throw away your man pride..just to get her back . Shame on u
If e guy vying for her is a Master degree holder , younger and defintely made a lot more money than you ... even...if you do the above can help??? ...guess you can only wish her e best wah -
the more you try to forget, the more it clings to you. So just go on with your everyday life. Soon it will leave you.
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How to when u need to "tell" urself to forget? Its impossible when u force to accomplish something ur heart is unwilling to do..
Time heals.. dun be too hard on urself now. -
do or do not, no try.
may the force be with you.
force your way through old rusty memories.
eventually, you will not remember you remember... -
Well i feel hurt cos i put in everything in this relationship....Now i am in the process of healing..
I already say my body is willing but my mind is not, if i am still unwilling to let go i will be inside my room rotting.
I just can't forget the things we do together, the time we spend together........
No point scolding me... -
You'll move on when you realise that there are better things to look forward to in life than such pains alone...Originally posted by doomz:Well i feel hurt cos i put in everything in this relationship....Now i am in the process of healing..
I already say my body is willing but my mind is not, if i am still unwilling to let go i will be inside my room rotting.
I just can't forget the things we do together, the time we spend together........
No point scolding me... -
Originally posted by doomz:How long you takes to forget your ex?
Means you never think about her/him for the whole day....
Well for one thing, love is a painful game my fren, u can only forget ur ex if theres no more anger or hatred for that particular person and start to come to terms that is futile to dream or hope for anything in return.....
I have experience it b4 n i know the feeling...