need some kind words from all of u please..
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I miss my gf so much. I don't feel good ever since she went back Perth. I want to meet her. It'll be 6 more months till I can see her. Even then, I'll be in NS. I'm enlisted in July. Right now we are long distancing.
I've just got back from Perth and my parents surely won't alllow me to go there again and she can't come back here either. I'm sick of just webcamming and talking on phone each night. I want to see her in flesh. *sobs* I feel so weak, and no apetite to eat.. just thinking of my gf.. -
use webcam or msn or ICQ or yahoo messenger ...........
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Is she studying abroad?
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yar.. studying there.. each yr for the past 2 years we met 1 month or so only during her holidays.. and sometimes for 1 week in May..
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Dear Chillz88,
Poor thing, I sympathise with your situation, a long-distance relationship is very bittersweet. The joy of meeting & spending time together is all the more pronounced, & hence cherished, due to the agony of the long separations apart.
Can she return to SG during her school vacation?
In the meantime, although it's hard, take good care of your health. How do you think your gf would feel knowing that her bf has No appetite, & is moping, pining away for her? What would you feel if your gf did the same thing?
Nowadays, long-distance international calling cards come with cheap rates for Australia. Why don't you buy a card once a month & call her? I think you have about 3 to 4 hours' talk time with 1 card. She can do the same over there in Australia. These cards are Not that expensive, about S$10/- each.
Do special things for your gf. Buy a little notebook (nice 1 please, you'll know why later), & jot down your thoughts everyday, including your feelings after every conversation. That's what I did once, treating my bf like a diary, & every entry began with "Dear XXXXXXX"... When you've finished your diary, paste a little note on the last page that says something like, "You always feel close". Then send the journal off to your gf.
This will give you something to look forward to, imagining your gf's smile & tears of delight when she receives it : )
FeowFeowOriginally posted by chillz88:yar.. studying there.. each yr for the past 2 years we met 1 month or so only during her holidays.. and sometimes for 1 week in May.. -
You dont need some kind words, you need a sort of wake up call.
Long distance relationship is very very hard to maintain, unless you are seriously loaded and can pay for all the telephone bills ahz, the air tickets ahz, and so fore.
In addition, its like you're leading your life in a totally different environment from hers, she's studying, you're going to shouting KILL KILL KILL in your camp. She'll also be meeting new people, and you will too, except for the fact that yours consist mainly of guys. Then you also wouldnt have so much free time for the first 9months of your ns life if you are going to be a specialist, first 6months of your time if you're going to be a man, and first 12months of your nslife if you're going to be a officer. It's because you're be on course and when you're course your time is tightly packed that at the end of the day, you'll take a bath and be left with like 1 or 2 hours if you are lucky before you sleep.
Do consider the pros and cons of having a long distance relationship, ask yourself do you want to continue having this relationship, and then decide lorz.
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Consider urself lucky to have only 2yrs to serve.... ur predecessors went extra 6mths...Originally posted by yunyi1510:You dont need some kind words, you need a sort of wake up call. -
now is only may. fly there to see her if u really miss her.
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Well...ask your gf to sign up with three.com (3G) in australia. And you also go and sign up with a 3G plan.Originally posted by chillz88:I miss my gf so much. I don't feel good ever since she went back Perth. I want to meet her. It'll be 6 more months till I can see her. Even then, I'll be in NS. I'm enlisted in July. Right now we are long distancing. I've just got back from Perth and my parents surely won't alllow me to go there again and she can't come back here either. I'm sick of just webcamming and talking on phone each night. I want to see her in flesh. *sobs* I feel so weak, and no apetite to eat.. just thinking of my gf.. 
Sometimes phone sex can do wonders for your relationship. -
Get skype...and then you can talk for free
Give her a surprise call sometimes, and send her surprise gifts that you make yourself...it will really make her day to receive it...
And think of the day when you will finally meet her again... -
since you're already in perth and if you do actually have PR, why come back in the first place?
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Need kind words? YOu are so handsome so suai, so hunk