Dear Chillz88,
Poor thing, I sympathise with your situation, a long-distance relationship is very bittersweet. The joy of meeting & spending time together is all the more pronounced, & hence cherished, due to the agony of the long separations apart.
Can she return to SG during her school vacation?
In the meantime, although it's hard, take good care of your health. How do you think your gf would feel knowing that her bf has No appetite, & is moping, pining away for her? What would you feel if your gf did the same thing?
Nowadays, long-distance international calling cards come with cheap rates for Australia. Why don't you buy a card once a month & call her? I think you have about 3 to 4 hours' talk time with 1 card. She can do the same over there in Australia. These cards are Not that expensive, about S$10/- each.
Do special things for your gf. Buy a little notebook (nice 1 please, you'll know why later), & jot down your thoughts everyday, including your feelings after every conversation. That's what I did once, treating my bf like a diary, & every entry began with "Dear XXXXXXX"... When you've finished your diary, paste a little note on the last page that says something like, "You always feel close". Then send the journal off to your gf.
This will give you something to look forward to, imagining your gf's smile & tears of delight when she receives it : )
FeowFeow
Originally posted by chillz88:
yar.. studying there.. each yr for the past 2 years we met 1 month or so only during her holidays.. and sometimes for 1 week in May..