Getting out n smelling the fresh air once again
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Anybody felt the urge to get out of a r/s juz bcoz u wish to experience life as a carefree single once again. U feel tt everything currently is dead, stale n monotonous. U wish to try sth new as a single once again.
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Uh..not me
I used to enjoy the freedom of being a single, but I guess now I am enjoying the beauty of being in love
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I tink i becoming sick..Originally posted by rainee:Uh..not me
I used to enjoy the freedom of being a single, but I guess now I am enjoying the beauty of being in love
Joke aside.. i'm tired.. with things tt r dormant.. haiz.. -
you're in love with the sound of your own voice...Originally posted by rainee:Uh..not me
I used to enjoy the freedom of being a single, but I guess now I am enjoying the beauty of being in love
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not me.
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you are in love with your own sick self...but you can't see it. Don't know want to pity you or pity me moreOriginally posted by mahai102:you're in love with the sound of your own voice... -
i guess it`s ok to live single once in a while to break free
not as like neglecting ur partner but more like enjoying psudo-singlehood when he/she`s not around...
haha
it`s all up to ur imagination
anyway he/she can`t possibly be u you 24/7 rite??? -
Probably so..Originally posted by BaByBoY:i guess it`s ok to live single once in a while to break free
not as like neglecting ur partner but more like enjoying psudo-singlehood when he/she`s not around...
haha
it`s all up to ur imagination
anyway he/she can`t possibly be u you 24/7 rite???
But juz things has become dormant, old n longer exciting. Really feel like breaking away n do things for myself. Selfish yes.. but wat the heck.. -
YES! I did feel that before and I did get out....
(not that I'm encouraging you to do it hor....)
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Oh,Originally posted by gentlerock:YES! I did feel that before and I did get out....
(not that I'm encouraging you to do it hor....) 
so did you go back in? Sometimes, it is just a phase that people go through. Like Chicago's song "everybody needs a little time away, I had to say, from each other. Even lovers need a holiday, ......blah, blah"....sorry, forgot the lyrics....sign of old age. 
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Ermm...try the long-termed 'tourist' in Changi 'Hotel' instead...bet they'll share the same sentiment as you.Originally posted by Gackt247:Anybody felt the urge to get out of a r/s juz bcoz u wish to experience life as a carefree single once again. U feel tt everything currently is dead, stale n monotonous. U wish to try sth new as a single once again.
Anyone?
Oei!!!! Don't come here and create more confusion and troubles for the people here...they're as broken as can be.
Hahaha....they'll ignore you anyway....
Ok...I want something new...give me FireIce. -
Hello littlestream!Originally posted by littlestream:Oh, so did you go back in? Sometimes, it is just a phase that people go through. Like Chicago's song "everybody needs a little time away, I had to say, from each other. Even lovers need a holiday, ......blah, blah"....sorry, forgot the lyrics....sign of old age.
Nay....I didn't go back. Not to the one I left anyway. She found someone new, found a new religion even....and got married soon after we broke up. It really didn't matter to me because I had lost all feelings already (long before the breakup). -
Actually, yesh. I was younger then & wanted to experience more before I eventually settled down & give someone commitment. Not long after I broke up wif him, he met a girl & got married within 1 mth of going out wif her. He's stuck in an unhappee marriage now, & for awhile there, I felt bad, cosh it was all my fault
I've gotten over it tho, I was still young afterall, & he was pressing me to get married, but I was too immature to think abt it. Marriage? At 20?!
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Gackt247:Anybody felt the urge to get out of a r/s juz bcoz u wish to experience life as a carefree single once again. U feel tt everything currently is dead, stale n monotonous. U wish to try sth new as a single once again.
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Is there really no more endless love? We are at this stage too. We have stopped buying each other things on anniversaries... so scared that the feeling will just be gone like that...
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If I understand correctly, your case is different from all the above mentioned. In the above, people wanted to get out of the relationships - and will initiate the break-up. In your case, you are afraid of getting out.Originally posted by timble:Is there really no more endless love? We are at this stage too. We have stopped buying each other things on anniversaries... so scared that the feeling will just be gone like that...
So....for your case, maybe you have to try a little rekindling. For me, usually a little break, being in a different world and different atmosphere helps. For example, take a short holiday to some beach resort, try doing something different (different places for meals, meet at different times, etc), etc.
I feel that the concept of endless love is a very ambiguous, contraversial and subjective thing.... -
Hmm..
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Hmm.. different and similar in some ways... similar in the sense that the relationship is dormant. Difference in not giving up yet.Originally posted by gentlerock:If I understand correctly, your case is different from all the above mentioned. In the above, people wanted to get out of the relationships - and will initiate the break-up. In your case, you are afraid of getting out.
So....for your case, maybe you have to try a little rekindling. For me, usually a little break, being in a different world and different atmosphere helps. For example, take a short holiday to some beach resort, try doing something different (different places for meals, meet at different times, etc), etc.
I feel that the concept of endless love is a very ambiguous, contraversial and subjective thing....
Perhaps so...the concept of endless love is subjective. The dormant stage of the relationship may be temporary. However, once a party decides to call it off, no amount of efforts could keep it going. -
Yes. Had ever felt very much so in the past.Originally posted by Gackt247:Anybody felt the urge to get out of a r/s juz bcoz u wish to experience life as a carefree single once again. U feel tt everything currently is dead, stale n monotonous. U wish to try sth new as a single once again.
Anyone?
1st thing, being attached doesn't mean you can't have life of your own.
2nd thing... If your love life can be boring, what makes you think that your single life won't be? Learn to share your life with her... Excitement and interesting activites are up to your own imagination to add...
Unless you're talking about being one who just enjoys the life of being single and being attached really don't mean much to you, personal advice to you would be... Don't waste everybody's time, unless she knows and is also into short-term relationship too...?