How do you Stop the Chase?
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How do you stop the chase? When the girl hasn't accepted nor rejected you but, just always leave you very puzzled. The girl is a long time friend, so it'll definately make both of you feel very puzzled if you don't tell her you're going to stop the chase or should I continue the chase until she gives the clear signal to stop?
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Just stop lor... Or if you wanna tell her also can...?
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ask her how she sees u man,cos time don't wait for ppl,n youth don't stay on ppl
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if u really want her, dun stop even tho she give u stop signal..persistance pays off
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I agree but, most girls don't like the extra attention they're getting and also there's a common mindset that states,Originally posted by alexkusu:if u really want her, dun stop even tho she give u stop signal..persistance pays off
"If she's happy, let her be..."
However, I still say,
"Fight for your own happiness." -
Aiya u know each other so long liao... go straight to the point man.
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Just give it up for a while, don't call her or anything for a week.
When she asks why, just tell her you're tired and you're waiting for an answer...
That should stop it pretty quick~ -
There are three possibilities I can think of.
1) She doesn't know whether she likes you as a friend or a romantic partner. She is confused.
2) She doesn't know how to break it to you that she doesn't like you as a romantic partner.
3) She likes being chased.
But then, I'm not really answering the question am i?Sorry, errm well, i think you should just ask her, or else, when you have no answer, you just have to wait then. -
diao qi lai mai...
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Originally posted by hyperactivechatterbox:
I think Option 3 is out because, I haven't seen her for months. She does always replies my Good Night SMSes and replies to 3/4 of my lame SMSes. I tried asking her out only once through SMS but, she didn't reply. I tried calling her on the phone only once but, she said she was on the phone.
[b]There are three possibilities I can think of.
1) She doesn't know whether she likes you as a friend or a romantic partner. She is confused.
2) She doesn't know how to break it to you that she doesn't like you as a romantic partner.
3) She likes being chased.
But then, I'm not really answering the question am i?Sorry, errm well, i think you should just ask her, or else, when you have no answer, you just have to wait then. [/b]
All facts now shows that she is still unattached but, some "Ba Gua" people who don't even get to see her often caught news that she is attached. I wonder how true that is? At least, she still replies my Good Night SMSes. -
totally agree with u on this one... time to move on... move on... there are plenty of decent girls in s'pore... y fret??Originally posted by mach10:diao qi lai mai... -
Ask her.
Its the only way,if she try to avoid the question,ask again a few days later.Finally if you cant take it anymore and she didnt give you any answer,Kill her.Its the last way to make her yours forever.
JK~
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Agreed.Originally posted by alexkusu:if u really want her, dun stop even tho she give u stop signal..persistance pays off -
Also agree that it can make some people very pissed.Originally posted by LazerLordz:Agreed. -
I asked her out today but, she didn't replied. Just a moment ago, I told her that she could still reply if she ever feel like replying. I seriously doubt a reply will ever come. I will stop SMSing her, if she still doesn't react then, I guess its time to stop.
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the gal so bo on , wan go then say go la .. don wan then don keep ppl waiting ma ..