i think you should have made advance earlier when she has just broken i heard its easier at that type of time. but of course i think not to confess to her but to go and accompany her very often ask her out etc.Originally posted by twenty47:The girl I like has just broken up with her boyfriend for almost a month. Do you guys think that 1 month is enough to get over a r/s? Cause' i am afraid that she might not be ready to accept me.
Also, in what way can I tell her my feelings? Ask her out for movies? Tell her over phone? Can you guys help me please, I'm a little dumb is this area.
let her know ur intentions but give her the space to sort out her own feelings.Originally posted by twenty47:The girl I like has just broken up with her boyfriend for almost a month. Do you guys think that 1 month is enough to get over a r/s? Cause' i am afraid that she might not be ready to accept me.
Also, in what way can I tell her my feelings? Ask her out for movies? Tell her over phone? Can you guys help me please, I'm a little dumb is this area.
That would be stupid. It accomplishes nothing.Originally posted by twenty47:Also, in what way can I tell her my feelings?
You can ask her out anytime (not graveyards hours okie?) as a friend. If she's willing to go out with you for a valid reason, then let things happen naturally from there on. No need to be really savy and impress her intentionally...well...no need to do so until you're 100% sure that she's comfortable being with you when you're out with her. If you're sure that she's comfortable being with you after more than once or twice outings, perhaps you can tell her that you really enjoyed your time with her and would like to 'better' friends with her. The moment to tell her this can only be after you have attracted her to your attention. How to attract her to your attention...well...you could discussed something of an importance with her...and it better concerns her or else you're probably not the one for her cos she didn't tell you nuts about anything happening around her. Catch her attention and afterwards there will be a common weird silence after the conclusion has been reached or agreed...that's probably the good time for you to tell her that you've enjoyed her accompany and would like to be 'better' friends.Originally posted by twenty47:i am already her friend
Yeah..But dun wait too long...I waited too long and now she is happily attached.Originally posted by browniebaobao:Juz be there for her, care for her..through this period in her life? Action speaks louder than words ya. Dun think it's the right time to confess now..juz be frens and hopefully when she's ready to get into another r/s, she will consider u.![]()
Sometimes pple thot that they have gotten over the past, but to only find out later that they havent...Originally posted by twenty47:Hmmm i did ask her if she had gotten over it and she told me she had... argg... confused. Anyway i am writing a song for her to tell her how i feel. You guys think its a good idea?
Did you said you're dumb?Originally posted by twenty47:The girl I like has just broken up with her boyfriend for almost a month. Do you guys think that 1 month is enough to get over a r/s? Cause' i am afraid that she might not be ready to accept me.
Also, in what way can I tell her my feelings? Ask her out for movies? Tell her over phone? Can you guys help me please, I'm a little dumb is this area.