How Did You Fall In Love?
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U meant the 1-sided one or both parties one??Originally posted by FeowFeow:Dear All,
Just a sharing session, as above. There's No right & No wrong.
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I noe *hugz* It's time to let go tho, No matter how slowly. Try imagining a box in which u tuck all the unpleasant memories, then imagine setting fire to the box.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by shinta:well, in a way ya, it did teach me how to cherish him much better... but, the memories are painful... so painful, i rather do w/o them.. -
HURRICANE?!
FeowFeowOriginally posted by shinta:i'd always send an sms to him to inform him of a hurricane approachin.. den again, by the time i see him, i feel all happy again
all frustrations n etc were blown away.. -
Either 1 : ) Can tok abt wat attracted u to her, wat made u fall in love wif her, etc? : ) Wat did u do to woo her?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Boo777:U meant the 1-sided one or both parties one?? -
oh.. i meant let him noe that i'm in a very foul mood.. n if i ever start anything that could hurt him, let me noe..Originally posted by FeowFeow:HURRICANE?!
FeowFeow
cos i do tat all the time to one of my ex n hurt him rather often
so i dun wan this to happen... so i tot, i'll just keep quiet.. n let him noe so he wouldn think i'm upset with him or sth..
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Orh
I do the same, wif my DAD He'll nag & nag & nag & nag & nag, until I gotta give weather forecast
My guy, once in awhile, has to bear wif me in a grumpy mood, but in return, I oso sometimes gana Then both of us get v. upset for awhile, but thankfully it never lasts long
FeowFeowOriginally posted by shinta:oh.. i meant let him noe that i'm in a very foul mood.. n if i ever start anything that could hurt him, let me noe..
cos i do tat all the time to one of my ex n hurt him rather often
so i dun wan this to happen... so i tot, i'll just keep quiet.. n let him noe so he wouldn think i'm upset with him or sth.. -
I started to "feel" after I barely escaped from the clutches of Mr. Reaper himself. Wat attracted me to her?? At first glance... she's not much of a looker... but after tat "incident"... I suddenly found everything about her e.g. the things she did, her actions, her every movement, the way she laughs, wat type of clothes she mostly wears... are exaggerated. I find her a very natural person, especially the way she laughs, she goes all out to laugh loudly with all her heart, not a care in the world, no pretends, no "act cute", and tat is something tat pulls me to her.
Wat did I do?? For starters, I didn't do much. Just showed her a little more care than usual, being more generous to her. I didn't do anything bombastic so to avoid her being embarrassed by office gossips. But the response from her ain't tat good, maybe itz me. When the response ain't good, it hurts though.
As long as she still works in the company... damn... therez no monday blues!! I'm actually looking forward for weekends to end so I can get back to work and see her again. Everytime I see her smile/laugh, it really brightens up the moodiest of my days.
I've also pestered friends who are experienced in relationship to give me tips on wat to do, wat she might be thinking from the response she gave, wat I could've done to improve myself.
She's not working the company cos her contract ended. Itz been a few months now since she's not here, and more than a year since I've known her. Some friends said itz only a "crush" or "affection" and will be over soon. Till now, itz not "over soon". Itz still hurts now, I can only forget bout the pain by drowning myself in my work and divert my passion somewhere else. It simply came back by just a simple glance at her photo, or a mention of her name. Ouch.
I've recently deleted all the sms she sent to me for the past year which I've kept. I've found myself stupid and dangerously vulnerable to her bidding. But seems tat I'm not alone. Anyway, itz over, I dun wish to dwell in the past, just dun mention her name and dun let me see her again, and may time wash away every feeling that I have left for her. But for now, I dun believe anyone in this world is worthy enough to replace her.
Damn... I sound soooo long-winded... ha ha!!
Cheerz!! Itz Tiger Time!!Originally posted by FeowFeow:Either 1 : ) Can tok abt wat attracted u to her, wat made u fall in love wif her, etc? : ) Wat did u do to woo her?
FeowFeow -
Poor thg... But it's been so long oredi, it's indeed time to let go. It may sound cheesy, cliche, corny, etc, but wat wasn't meant to be urs, wasn't meant to be urs.
Perhaps there's someone else meant for u later? : )
FepwFepwOriginally posted by Boo777:I started to "feel" after I barely escaped from the clutches of Mr. Reaper himself. Wat attracted me to her?? At first glance... she's not much of a looker... but after tat "incident"... I suddenly found everything about her e.g. the things she did, her actions, her every movement, the way she laughs, wat type of clothes she mostly wears... are exaggerated. I find her a very natural person, especially the way she laughs, she goes all out to laugh loudly with all her heart, not a care in the world, no pretends, no "act cute", and tat is something tat pulls me to her.
Wat did I do?? For starters, I didn't do much. Just showed her a little more care than usual, being more generous to her. I didn't do anything bombastic so to avoid her being embarrassed by office gossips. But the response from her ain't tat good, maybe itz me. When the response ain't good, it hurts though.
As long as she still works in the company... damn... therez no monday blues!! I'm actually looking forward for weekends to end so I can get back to work and see her again. Everytime I see her smile/laugh, it really brightens up the moodiest of my days.
I've also pestered friends who are experienced in relationship to give me tips on wat to do, wat she might be thinking from the response she gave, wat I could've done to improve myself.
She's not working the company cos her contract ended. Itz been a few months now since she's not here, and more than a year since I've known her. Some friends said itz only a "crush" or "affection" and will be over soon. Till now, itz not "over soon". Itz still hurts now, I can only forget bout the pain by drowning myself in my work and divert my passion somewhere else. It simply came back by just a simple glance at her photo, or a mention of her name. Ouch.
I've recently deleted all the sms she sent to me for the past year which I've kept. I've found myself stupid and dangerously vulnerable to her bidding. But seems tat I'm not alone. Anyway, itz over, I dun wish to dwell in the past, just dun mention her name and dun let me see her again, and may time wash away every feeling that I have left for her. But for now, I dun believe anyone in this world is worthy enough to replace her.
Damn... I sound soooo long-winded... ha ha!!
Cheerz!! Itz Tiger Time!! -
I've already let go. Just tat something can't be forgotten just like tat *snaps fingers*
. Anyway, will let time help me do the job of forgetting this feeling. And ya, I know this "watz wasn't meant to b urs ain't meant to be urs", tatz y I dun rush it.
Dun worry bout it, the earth is still spinning, life still have to go on rite?? I'm still kicking
But for now, I not interested in anyone, like I said, no one is worthy of replacing her, and will have a harder time accepting someone else into my life.
Like u, now I dedicate a part of my passion to helping those tat have fallen, ease their pain, and guide them through this road through my experience. Although I'm still bearing the pain with me now, I hope tat helping them will both share their pain and experience, in turn will ease my own pain and undoing.
Anyway, thank you for listening. U've been patient.Originally posted by FeowFeow:Poor thg... But it's been so long oredi, it's indeed time to let go. It may sound cheesy, cliche, corny, etc, but wat wasn't meant to be urs, wasn't meant to be urs.
Perhaps there's someone else meant for u later? : )
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Originally posted by DeadPoet:
and i, playing basketball, didnt notice my gf was behind me, knocked into her and stumbled over her, happily attached, for ages..
Something like this.
[b]Accident by Gilbert Koh
.......And I,
..........gazing at stars,
stumbled over you,
.... ............ tripped
... ........and
....fell painfully in love,
couldn't get up
...............for ages.[/b] -
Dun worree abt it, tt's wat I'm here for : ) Ur own life's experience will enable u to give more sound advice to those who need it : )
Anywayz, u're still young, there's still time for someone to sweep u off ur feet
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Boo777:I've already let go. Just tat something can't be forgotten just like tat *snaps fingers* . Anyway, will let time help me do the job of forgetting this feeling. And ya, I know this "watz wasn't meant to b urs ain't meant to be urs", tatz y I dun rush it.
Dun worry bout it, the earth is still spinning, life still have to go on rite?? I'm still kicking But for now, I not interested in anyone, like I said, no one is worthy of replacing her, and will have a harder time accepting someone else into my life.
Like u, now I dedicate a part of my passion to helping those tat have fallen, ease their pain, and guide them through this road through my experience. Although I'm still bearing the pain with me now, I hope tat helping them will both share their pain and experience, in turn will ease my own pain and undoing.
Anyway, thank you for listening. U've been patient. -
*gigglez* U stumbled into her, knocked her over, & she fell, rendering herself temporarily concussed, & amongst the stars she saw encircling her head, she thot u were the most gorgeous guy on earth
Oh well
Kidding
FeowFeowOriginally posted by mercurialz:and i, playing basketball, didnt notice my gf was behind me, knocked into her and stumbled over her, happily attached, for ages.. -
time, companionship....
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I know my current bf thru a mutual friend.
Both of us just broke off with our exes... And we were sorta keeping each other company, lending shoulders to cry and listening ears. After a very short while, we fell in love with each other. And we have been together till now...
we have been together for 4mths. Somehow I cant help thinking about his previous relationship. Cos he loved his ex alot, even proposed to her and she agreed. And they had been together for abt 4yrs! And he even cried when he talked about her (when we were just friends)... Sometime I wonder why I worry so much. Sometime I am worried cos I love him alot and dont want to lose him...
Another thing is, he has wandering eyes and sometimes his eyes will follow wherever the girls go. According to some of my friends, I should just let him see the girls. I know I cant restrict him to keep his eyes on me, but why should he keeps his eyes on them wherever they go? I told him how I feel. He said he is only just looking, not thinking of them (to me, oogling them is bad, must lest the thinking of them!). And he also says he can only look and cannot touch them, so why should I mind so much? From then onwards, whenever I mention a beautiful person, he will say he dont dare to see lest I am jealous. Erm... So what does this mean?
Conclusion: Both of us are madly in love with each other. I am more vocal in my feelings, and he will say I am too sensitive or paranoid. I dont want to be seem as so, yet I cant control expressing my feelings... And I want to get rid of these insecurities and he is not helping... What should I do? -
Hmm.. Has he been like this from the start or is it happening at only around the 3-4th month or so...?Originally posted by pinksnowie:I know my current bf thru a mutual friend.
Both of us just broke off with our exes... And we were sorta keeping each other company, lending shoulders to cry and listening ears. After a very short while, we fell in love with each other. And we have been together till now...
we have been together for 4mths. Somehow I cant help thinking about his previous relationship. Cos he loved his ex alot, even proposed to her and she agreed. And they had been together for abt 4yrs! And he even cried when he talked about her (when we were just friends)... Sometime I wonder why I worry so much. Sometime I am worried cos I love him alot and dont want to lose him...
Another thing is, he has wandering eyes and sometimes his eyes will follow wherever the girls go. According to some of my friends, I should just let him see the girls. I know I cant restrict him to keep his eyes on me, but why should he keeps his eyes on them wherever they go? I told him how I feel. He said he is only just looking, not thinking of them (to me, oogling them is bad, must lest the thinking of them!). And he also says he can only look and cannot touch them, so why should I mind so much? From then onwards, whenever I mention a beautiful person, he will say he dont dare to see lest I am jealous. Erm... So what does this mean?
Conclusion: Both of us are madly in love with each other. I am more vocal in my feelings, and he will say I am too sensitive or paranoid. I dont want to be seem as so, yet I cant control expressing my feelings... And I want to get rid of these insecurities and he is not helping... What should I do? -
He is like this from the start. In the beginning, I told myself this is another side of him which I dont know, and that it might be coincidence. Afterall, we just got together. However, as time goes by, I realise I cant stand, so I told him abt it. And he said those remarks I mentioned about...
Can advise me on what I shld do? -
I have this good guy friend who constantly disturbed/quarrelled with me. Slowly slowly, we entered a shortlived relationship. Maybe we have been such great friends/quarrelling partners that it seemed awkward to go into the lovey dovey stuff. Soon, we broke up but we remained great friends since all we've done is hold hands. -laughs-
Is a relationship between sooper good friends impossible???
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gals whom i can click .. usually i experience some sort of concern n little care from them i cant help like .. i sould vunerable hor .. lol .. hai .. such cases don happen all the time but rarely .. the recently one was short n sweet ... this gal got to koe her nt long .. becos she is my fren gf , but after awhile no more .. then we become like great frens .. movie kakis .. actually 1st date i mentioned tat i like spiderman2 movie .. then the next day .. she actually bought me the vcd .. omg .. tat was so sweet of her .. then i jus melted -_- .. but after all it was jus my wishful thinking .. mayb she is jus repaying me cos i gave her a baby shoe on the 1st date .. she took the left i took the right .. bought from cerisis .. haix .. hw i wish she is so true .. tried jioing her slowly but i realised i have changed .. cos i found myself falling for her .. i cant help but cling n sort of become a bother in a way or another ... haix ..
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i believe falling in love is a gradual thing .. the longer the togetherness , the deeper the love ..
haha .. mine was when i started noticing her in my cca ... then my junior was like commenting about her cuteness ..
during a perfomance , we were opposite each other in a row (guess what kind of cca) .. i think i sort of stared at her or something , glancing across while looking at the conductor ...
after the performance , everyone's going home or having dinner elsewhere ..
but strangely i decided to wait with her for her parents to pick her up and the rest is "a long story" ..
haha .. right now it's just memories .. -
HOW du u know if LOVE is enough for u to pull through all the problems?!!!
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HOW du u know if LOVE is enough for u to pull through all the problems?!!!