Can i say, sometimes it's the missing piece in the jugsaw puzzle which you couldn't find.Originally posted by Devil1976:What think so much and make yourself misery? The old days USED to be good but now it's OVER... You know what you should be doing... Question no more?
There isn't much of a 'missing puzzle' in his case. He has already quite firmly pictured her as she is. It's just a piece of reality waiting to be accepted. If he can't even do that, who can speak of what other 'blindness' he might hold for his next relationshipOriginally posted by M©+square:Can i say, sometimes it's the missing piece in the jugsaw puzzle which you couldn't find.
And it'll always remain a mystery which you want to seek answer of.
The power of untold answers.
Originally posted by nnilsia:Thanks all for the encouragement. I certainly will have to move on. She is definitely out for fun - its just that I didn't see it coming so soon and ended up feeling exploited, eaten up and then spat out. Just feel like I got cheapened and treated like trash.....
Anyway, just needed to puke up all my pent-up frustrations......before I leave all this s*** behind for good...
Originally posted by nnilsia:Thanks all for the encouragement. I certainly will have to move on. She is definitely out for fun - its just that I didn't see it coming so soon and ended up feeling exploited, eaten up and then spat out. Just feel like I got cheapened and treated like trash.....
Anyway, just needed to puke up all my pent-up frustrations......before I leave all this s*** behind for good...
The world is round...Originally posted by BaByBoY:Hey dude,
I can perfectly understand how you feel
it`s sort of a sense of betrayal and being used..
sometimes i really pity those gals that are out to play w the emotions of sincere guys..
oh WTF.. i guess u`ve made such a good move to move on w ur life
there`s still some others in the world who might have `no choice` cuz they tink that they `love ` the gal `too much`
it`s all bull shit
to those who were in a similair situation and are willingly still `giving`
i do urge you to stop
nothing good will ever come out of it
i cant really understand why such good guys like u always end up w such lousy gals and the lousy guys always get the good gals??
and the good guys/gals are left to suffer got the lousy guy/gal???
Relax dude.. She has already chosen who she wants to be. At least you can still make your CHOICEOriginally posted by nnilsia:Why did I meet such a lousy girl?? I guess its just called "chao suay"..... Just had to encounter one of these screwed up girls to make a mess of my mental and emotional state. Her secret "unofficial" liasions with all her various older men which she so verhemently denies to me really hammers the f****** final nail into our r/s's coffin. Enough is enough. I used to be so confident of myself and strong too.......she just came and ripped me apart, I didn't have any ego or a backbone at all after that. Never and never again will I allow myself to fall so vulnerable and head over heels for anyone else. If she's out for fun, I shall do too..... she can go to hell.....
Originally posted by nnilsia:Never and never again will I allow myself to fall so vulnerable and head over heels for anyone else. If she's out for fun, I shall do too..... she can go to hell.....
U lucky u din have sex w her. else u gota go for HIV test.Originally posted by nnilsia:keep her for sex? I think this option is out coz we never did it in the first place. ANyway, my mind is still set - not going to see her again man.....enough of ruining my life...
I've still got some of her stuff at my place, should I:
1) Return them to her?
2) Keep them first?
3) Throw them away?
What would you do?