true true... i suppose both of u are still like 16?Originally posted by f.1:concentrate on your studies first lah.....your young bf is not yet the committed type yet lah.....
have fun, date a few more....enjoy life.
ehh?? offering myself to him?? ha, sorry, but never will i do that, don worry. yes yes we're both 16.. gotta concentrate on Olvl.. well.. but i reali like him.. sighs.. thats why i feel so vex..Originally posted by mercurialz:true true... i suppose both of u are still like 16?... well, no use sticking with a guy who cant give u happiness... if u have tried and nothing works, and u r unhappy, be sensible and move on... pls dun do things like offering urself to him in bid to salvage the relationship, it doesnt work that way
... read too many stories like that already (although dunno how many are true)...
Okay here goes, if he doesnt aknowledge you when you walk apst each other or with a kiss or a hello or even a smile then this is damn rude. You have to understand that us guys do need to spend time with our mates just as much as you do with yours girrly friends, maybe you could try meeting both with your friends and his at the same timOriginally posted by sunpastilles:hi pple. uh.. ok.. a short story of mine. ive been going steady with this guy for 6months already. in school, we seldom talk. when we see each other, we jus walk RIGHT PAST. no hellos or anything. yea but of cos we do meet after school and go out together. the problem is.. well i think he is spending really alot more time with his friends than me.. which leads me to feeling neglected. i've never felt this way before.. its like.. well, things were fine for the first few months.. only recently..
Its only natural to be jelous, you obviously care for him alot but to be honest i think this guy has issues, i mean when i am in a relationship i want to spend as much time as possible, not going out with other girls, especially not without her ... this is disrespectful
last month, he went out with girls, and he didnt tell me. okay i admit maybe im holding him too tightly, i hate to see him with girls, and vice versa. but still i found out, and was pretty pissed. but i already told him i'd changed for him.. i'll be more reasonable, i'll let him go out with anyone he desires as long as he tells me where and who is he with. thats all i needa know. im tryin to control my jealousy here. and he used to be a casanova.. even when he's got a gf, he still go around sms, call girls 'dear' and more. but now he changed already, for the better.. i hope.
well, he used to do that (callin other girls dear even when he's attached).. ya i know he's got the rights to make frens and everything else.. yes i know. i realised i've been holding him abit too tight too.. but i feel insecured.. i dunno why im feeling like this.. but.. maybe he jus doesnt gimme muchh security feelings ba.. and also.. i think that he's hiding things from me.. wat i wan him to realise is that im his gf.. im always here for him.. and always will. im someone he shld confide in, seek advise from and go thru thick and thin together. but that doesnt seems like the case.. think he still don get it, dumb guy lol. hais..Originally posted by browniebaobao:The honeymoon period is over.
Understand the fact that he is not yours. He has the rights to make frens, to have some breathing space and freedom. To me, frens and lover are equally important.
but the fact that he call everyone dear etc..is a bit too much? u nv meet up ever since the patch up? and he fu yan u at times? then i guess he dun love u a lot..
To love somebody, is not to possess...no point holding him tightly if his heart is not with u, coz ultimately u might not only hurt him, but also hurt yourself.
Originally posted by sunpastilles:well, he used to do that (callin other girls dear even when he's attached).. ya i know he's got the rights to make frens and everything else.. yes i know. i realised i've been holding him abit too tight too.. but i feel insecured.. i dunno why im feeling like this.. but.. maybe he jus doesnt gimme muchh security feelings ba.. and also.. i think that he's hiding things from me.. wat i wan him to realise is that im his gf.. im always here for him.. and always will. im someone he shld confide in, seek advise from and go thru thick and thin together. but that doesnt seems like the case.. think he still don get it, dumb guy lol. hais..
and i think we'll be meeting this fri.. not confirmed thou.. if only he can treat frens n lover equally, i wouldnt title my thread "neglected"![]()
Personal advice, 'O' levels 1st. The other you might have much less to control the situation. Try not to get yourself hit with 2 stones at one time.Originally posted by sunpastilles:ehh?? offering myself to him?? ha, sorry, but never will i do that, don worry. yes yes we're both 16.. gotta concentrate on Olvl.. well.. but i reali like him.. sighs.. thats why i feel so vex..