Originally posted by drogba:
Back when I was in secondary two, I did a lot of stuff and gave myself a very very bad reputation among girls
I did all those things for fun, just to irritate the girls, but recently I had a crush on one of them, who hated me right to the core for what I did :
1) After science lesson, I went to the whitboard and drew a picture of a naked woman.
Breast, vagina, nipple all included in a 3-1 package that sent my reputation beyond negative numbers
2) I put my MSN nickname as : I like to play with girls' body. Immediately after that, all of them just blocked me.
3) During literature lesson,
The teacher said to the class "Open your literature book unless you have bionic eyes and can see through books"
I replied "I have bionic eyes to see through women's bra."
4) I gained the reputation as "The Masturbator".
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I knew what I did was plain stupid, but I didn't know that the people i pissed of contained someone i truly like.
Since December 2004, i already stopped it and now, I want to make ammends.
Here are some things I can do
1) Say sorry to her (Most likely ignored)
2) Say "I luv u" (I dont need a slap)
3) Wait (I have one year left)
What should I do?
Need some advice
Remember this... "You can have millions of accomplishments, but one single mistake can make people remember you for life in the negative way."
All you need to do is to stop behaving like in the past. Be patient, and people will eventually see that you have changed for the better. Its very easy to be noticed that u have changed, esp when people spot opportunities for you to dish out all your atrocities, but you didn't. For once, people may think that you simply missed your chance in doing that. For multiple times, people may think that you are starting to change. With behavior that is more acceptable by others, people will also start to see you in a different light. Its difficult to change others perception on you. Even though you dearly wanted tht to happen, but you have no rights to that. Its up to others to decide. So jus be what you think you want to be. Forget about going on better terms or getting the gal as your gf for the time being. Let her notice your change naturally.
Good luck.