how do you humour(hong3) your other half when they r angry?

• Vidvin

  8 Jun 05, 10:49

  as above...
  
  
• M©+square

  8 Jun 05, 11:13

  To which gender?
• Vidvin

  8 Jun 05, 11:25

  either...
• drx

  8 Jun 05, 15:06

  standard SOP thing lar! hong only wat.
  
  1) act cute and loveable and hugable hehe ( chessy trick)
  
  2) act hurt and faint on ground ( use always in movies)
  
  3) scold her loudly ( use by fierce guys)
  
  4) "I surrender!!! Is all my fault, is never your fault" ( use by wimpy guys.)
  
  5) Action "KiSS" ( WARning use by handsome guys only never try it when you are in doubt )
  
  6) let her cool down and buy a $5k diamond ring and ask for her hand. (applies for rich people)
  
  7) Action "walks away hack care" ( use by super cool guy only)
  
  these methods are to be use on gals only!!!
  
  Please do not try on guys.
  
  For the next chapter on how to deal with guys please refer to the other gals in the fourn.
• ILPSY

  8 Jun 05, 21:10

  Just say "I AM SORRY!" sincerely.
• starblue

  8 Jun 05, 21:50

  hold his hand tight. look into his eyes and tell him i'm sorry. and that he's hurting me too. so let's stop the quarrel.
• Apollo_sg

  8 Jun 05, 23:02

  it really depends lor. if the person did this repeatedly as a bad habit or his bad nature, just too bad. it's game over. no point forgiving...
  
  can go get stuff all his integrity & credibility thru the hole where sun dun shine.
  
  
• carpe diem jur

  8 Jun 05, 23:26

  look at him wid very very innocent eyes... add abit of eyedrops, act blur and bit ur lower lips...
  
  alternatively, try doing something really stupid, such as, tek a marker and start drawing some 'arts' on his body...
• firewizard

  9 Jun 05, 00:54

  Originally posted by carpe diem jur:

  look at him wid very very innocent eyes... add abit of eyedrops, act blur and bit ur lower lips...
  
  alternatively, try doing something really stupid, such as, tek a marker and start drawing some 'arts' on his body...

  abit drama....
• drx

  9 Jun 05, 02:37

  wondering could girls in this forum tell me how gals hong3 their bf?
  Always wanted to understand their ways and methods.
• Steph84

  9 Jun 05, 02:46

  hmmm when my bf is angry with me, jus keep saying sorry n sa jiao to him lor.. actually my bf very nice de... wun be angry with me for long... hehe
  mostly is me angry den he hong me!!
• thelesis

  9 Jun 05, 03:05

  ya lor.. girls always the one who get angry easily. What I will do if my girlfriend angry... Hmmm , i always try to talk about her favourite things, sweettalk and buy something for her normally i always said sorry even she is wrong
• drx

  9 Jun 05, 12:54

  so can i say that most of the time is always the guys doing the hong3ing part but seldom see gals do it.
  
  sa jiao also consider hong3?
• shinta

  9 Jun 05, 12:57

  depends on the reason behind the anger...
  
  nel was angry with me once for being hmm ren4 xing4 (wats that in eng? wilful?)
  
  when i realised tat he's angry, i stopped that kinda behaviour... n the anger went away...
  
  maybe u could get sth for ur partner... sth she likes, to pacify her after she's cooled down
• starblue

  9 Jun 05, 16:29

  Originally posted by drx:

  so can i say that most of the time is always the guys doing the hong3ing part but seldom see gals do it.
  
  sa jiao also consider hong3?

  gals are better with the body language thing.. so we usually spot a storm coming, and start to hong the guy already... so most times it doesn't blow over... lolz... thats why u see less guys angry with the gal mah... maybe lah....
  
  
• ilovemyrolex

  9 Jun 05, 21:07

  just say, "orh la, orh la. sayang ok? i bring you eat good food."
  
  worked for me!
• mystiv

  9 Jun 05, 21:15

  Originally posted by ilovemyrolex:

  just say, "orh la, orh la. sayang ok? i bring you eat good food."
  
  worked for me!

  try that when she's really angry lol
• Vidvin

  10 Jun 05, 11:36

  hi all,
  
  thanks for the sharing... guess it involve more technique and work on gals rather than guys... am busying noting down into my brain...
  
  vidvin
• BaByBoY

  11 Jun 05, 00:49

  depending they`re angry w wat loh
  
  if they angry with anyother things other than you..
  just gib her a hug ( works wonders )
  
  if she`s angry w you....
  then jialat le..
  muz show sincerity lo..
  don humour be sincire wor
• chong-ster

  11 Jun 05, 20:04

  guys 'hoong' gals very hard..
  
  i think gals have an easier job 'hoong'-ing their partners (based on my experience)
  
  i need to do and talk so much before my gfs forgive me
  
  but whenever they anger me, all they need to do (i think this is the most street-smart and efficient tactic) is to look at me with that pls-forgive-me stare and utter 'sorry' dan i'll be so soft-hearted
  
• Patrik

  11 Jun 05, 20:11

  Buy something nice for her?
  
• LyCaN

  15 Jun 05, 12:38

  act cute...haha..if your gf like your cuteness that is...:p
• coffeeortea

  15 Jun 05, 15:48

  Originally posted by starblue:

  hold his hand tight. look into his eyes and tell him i'm sorry. and that he's hurting me too. so let's stop the quarrel.

  awww... thats sweet