HOPE I DID THE RIGHT THING - Comments PLS

• IntenseFlame

  8 Jun 05, 13:02

  Thanks for the generous answer on the I Fell in love with a girl which has BF.
  
  i find that what most of the forumers says are true.... it is a misery quest to break up a a relationship .
  
  Ehmmm recently , i come to my attention that she is having a tough time with the bf after my appearance as 3rd party. I am not happy either since everythying is so messy and so heartache.
  
  I think i would stop my insane quest on conquering her.
  
  I hope the bf is here and forgive my actions
  
  I have decided not to call her and entertain all her calls.... i hope i did the right thing and wish her all the best in her love line.
  
  I also hope that the bf treats her well and make her special in her life.
  
  The memories i spend with her , i will treasured and will always remembner till the day i die.
  
  I HOPE I DID THE RIGHT THING
• Kenneth Tan Jian Wei

  8 Jun 05, 13:04

  You certainly did the right thing by backing off.
  
  Kudos to you!
  
  
• M©+square

  8 Jun 05, 13:07

  You might remember her the least as you advance in age and have a few more girl friends ahead.
• drx

  8 Jun 05, 14:31

  soon she will be just one of the past gals in your life lar.
  
  No need to worry many gals out there and soon u will look back at her and say hey why am i so foolish to even fall for her.
  
  come on man u can do it !
  
  Remember never ever look back once you do the pain in your heart will start again.
• m_xvi

  8 Jun 05, 14:46

  It shows how strong you are. You think you made 1 mistake...try not to make another. Enjoy life as it is. The love feeling will comw again naturally..don't force into it.
• timble

  8 Jun 05, 15:26

  U did the right thing. Salute!
  BTW, I hope u will remember every girl u loved before...
• hisoka

  8 Jun 05, 20:13

  Originally posted by IntenseFlame:

  Thanks for the generous answer on the I Fell in love with a girl which has BF.
  
  i find that what most of the forumers says are true.... it is a misery quest to break up a a relationship .
  
  Ehmmm recently , i come to my attention that she is having a tough time with the bf after my appearance as 3rd party. I am not happy either since everythying is so messy and so heartache.
  
  I think i would stop my insane quest on conquering her.
  
  I hope the bf is here and forgive my actions
  
  I have decided not to call her and entertain all her calls.... i hope i did the right thing and wish her all the best in her love line.
  
  I also hope that the bf treats her well and make her special in her life.
  
  The memories i spend with her , i will treasured and will always remembner till the day i die.
  
  I HOPE I DID THE RIGHT THING

  hmm i have to say dun give up lah, either that or you were nto thinking straight. i mean you had to know it would be messy and heartache when you step in as a third party and the girl was interested in you right? or were you expecting the girl to just jump into your arms kick the other guy away in an instant?
• Apollo_sg

  8 Jun 05, 23:05

  Originally posted by IntenseFlame:

  Thanks for the generous answer on the I Fell in love with a girl which has BF.
  
  i find that what most of the forumers says are true.... it is a misery quest to break up a a relationship .
  
  Ehmmm recently , i come to my attention that she is having a tough time with the bf after my appearance as 3rd party. I am not happy either since everythying is so messy and so heartache.
  
  I think i would stop my insane quest on conquering her.
  
  I hope the bf is here and forgive my actions
  
  I have decided not to call her and entertain all her calls.... i hope i did the right thing and wish her all the best in her love line.
  
  I also hope that the bf treats her well and make her special in her life.
  
  The memories i spend with her , i will treasured and will always remembner till the day i die.
  
  I HOPE I DID THE RIGHT THING

  and i hope u did the right thing too. no one can tell u this is right or wrong. no 1 should tell u what to do. she'll probably try to stick to u for good ole time shake. is ur heart willing?
  
  my 2 ct, try to fall in love as soon as u can, forget the past.
  
  
• M©+square

  9 Jun 05, 00:48

  Originally posted by drx:

  soon she will be just one of the past gals in your life lar.
  
  No need to worry many gals out there and soon u will look back at her and say hey why am i so foolish to even fall for her.
  come on man u can do it !
  
  Remember never ever look back once you do the pain in your heart will start again.

  I wouldn't think that way. Though this thought always provoked me to believe that i should point my finger at the past. But It's fate/karma that brought people together.
  
  All things happen for certain reasons. We just got to appreciate the past and move on.
  
  Learn not to think negetive, instead use the circumstance to elevate oneself to richer and higher perspective.
  
  Cheers
  
• firewizard

  9 Jun 05, 00:53

  maybe....wait for the to break..and appear at the right moment?
• M©+square

  9 Jun 05, 01:06

  Originally posted by firewizard:

  maybe....wait for the to break..and appear at the right moment?

  .........
  
  That'll be a unhealthy strategy. Minority succeed in having a long term fulfilling r/s.
• zacken99

  9 Jun 05, 01:09

  Originally posted by IntenseFlame:

  Thanks for the generous answer on the I Fell in love with a girl which has BF.
  
  i find that what most of the forumers says are true.... it is a misery quest to break up a a relationship .
  
  Ehmmm recently , i come to my attention that she is having a tough time with the bf after my appearance as 3rd party. I am not happy either since everythying is so messy and so heartache.
  
  I think i would stop my insane quest on conquering her.
  
  I hope the bf is here and forgive my actions
  
  I have decided not to call her and entertain all her calls.... i hope i did the right thing and wish her all the best in her love line.
  
  I also hope that the bf treats her well and make her special in her life.
  
  The memories i spend with her , i will treasured and will always remembner till the day i die.
  
  I HOPE I DID THE RIGHT THING

  ok.. i forgive u this time... please dun call her again liao hor...
• babymac13

  9 Jun 05, 01:14

  
  To luv someone is not purely by processing him/her. Most impt is to make him/her happy, in happiness(xin fu).
  
  
• zheshi

  9 Jun 05, 01:35

  Originally posted by IntenseFlame:

  Thanks for the generous answer on the I Fell in love with a girl which has BF.
  
  i find that what most of the forumers says are true.... it is a misery quest to break up a a relationship .
  
  Ehmmm recently , i come to my attention that she is having a tough time with the bf after my appearance as 3rd party. I am not happy either since everythying is so messy and so heartache.
  
  I think i would stop my insane quest on conquering her.
  
  I hope the bf is here and forgive my actions
  
  I have decided not to call her and entertain all her calls.... i hope i did the right thing and wish her all the best in her love line.
  
  I also hope that the bf treats her well and make her special in her life.
  
  The memories i spend with her , i will treasured and will always remembner till the day i die.
  
  I HOPE I DID THE RIGHT THING

  From a outsider point of View.. u did the right thing....but seriously saying... i doubt there will be much use... u have already create a dent in their relastionship...i believe the ger will not feel the same to the guy... as compare to before u appear...
• thelesis

  9 Jun 05, 02:40

  You did the right thing never ruin other ppl's happiness so now you give them yr blessing... you can find yr dream girl soon
  
  

  Originally posted by IntenseFlame:

  Thanks for the generous answer on the I Fell in love with a girl which has BF.
  
  i find that what most of the forumers says are true.... it is a misery quest to break up a a relationship .
  
  Ehmmm recently , i come to my attention that she is having a tough time with the bf after my appearance as 3rd party. I am not happy either since everythying is so messy and so heartache.
  
  I think i would stop my insane quest on conquering her.
  
  I hope the bf is here and forgive my actions
  
  I have decided not to call her and entertain all her calls.... i hope i did the right thing and wish her all the best in her love line.
  
  I also hope that the bf treats her well and make her special in her life.
  
  The memories i spend with her , i will treasured and will always remembner till the day i die.
  
  I HOPE I DID THE RIGHT THING

• SoonKeong

  9 Jun 05, 10:42

  Yea i certainly agree with ur actions on this matter
  
  Take urself into her bf's shoe. If suddenly ur gf is "stolen" by another guy while all the while u put ur whole heart in, how will u feel? Somehow i realise that attached gals are rather more charming, but please think of the consequences. Wad if one day ur gf is been chase by another faithful guy? Like wad mc square says its all in the karma.. u do this to ppl, next time ppl do back to u..
  
  Well cheers to ur actions. Love one person doesnt mean have to be with her.
  
  ps. The forest contain many trees
• shaunlaw

  9 Jun 05, 14:15

  Originally posted by IntenseFlame:

  Thanks for the generous answer on the I Fell in love with a girl which has BF.
  
  i find that what most of the forumers says are true.... it is a misery quest to break up a a relationship .
  
  Ehmmm recently , i come to my attention that she is having a tough time with the bf after my appearance as 3rd party. I am not happy either since everythying is so messy and so heartache.
  
  I think i would stop my insane quest on conquering her.
  
  I hope the bf is here and forgive my actions
  
  I have decided not to call her and entertain all her calls.... i hope i did the right thing and wish her all the best in her love line.
  
  I also hope that the bf treats her well and make her special in her life.
  
  The memories i spend with her , i will treasured and will always remembner till the day i die.
  
  I HOPE I DID THE RIGHT THING

  Definitely right thing to do.
  
  Its totally unpleasant for someone to go after one whos aready attached. Which explains why i hate the show "Yuan Lai Jiu Shi Ni", hosted by Kym ng and Quan YIfeng. (They go after attached ppl so desperately to complete their job.)
• ilovemyrolex

  9 Jun 05, 21:02

  good on ya' you c-u-n-t teaser
• eyonx

  10 Jun 05, 00:20

  fwiw, and i quote,
  All people are free to move on from their relationships, should they no longer be satisfied with them, for any reason; this shall most likely happen if the other party fails to see to their needs, whatever they may be.
  
  that said, talk about stealing somone/win him or her over/etc is trival, perhaps even to the extent of being irrelevant/missing the point.
  
  if one is willing to leave an existing relationship for another, then it implies at least that he/she is not entirely satisfied in the existing relationship.
  
  some of the issues that pops up: why didnt he/she leave sooner? why did he/she choose to stay on? why leave when someone popped into the picture? if someone better didnt come along, will he/she stay in it? are there more important things to his/her well-being? ...
  
  either way reveals quite a bit about the person in question.
  but more importantly is how one see those traits. and be prepared for answers, if any, that arent expected.
• whydunknow

  10 Jun 05, 00:37

  I happy You did the right thing.
  I mSorry that I used A lot Of F Words.
  But, Seem you know That breaking up someone is Wrong.
  I m Very happy For You.
• sgFish

  10 Jun 05, 00:46

  Originally posted by babymac13:

  To luv someone is not purely by processing him/her. Most impt is to make him/her happy, in happiness(xin fu).
  
  

  processing people eh.
  
  like canned food