hey, i kind of understand how you feel. broke up with my ex more than 6 months ago, but now, even though i'm attached, i still think of her...Originally posted by sleepy:sometimes i do think of my ex even if i'm currently attached...
i love my current gf but somehow i still can't forget my ex...
for eg. last nite i went for supper with my frens... saw a lady whom's back view was 9 of out 10 similiar to my ex... it really makes me think of my ex and wonder how was she doing in life. although she did me wrong, the hatred has gone away and what left now are memories![]()
Originally posted by rumie:
[b]guess it's pretty normal, to have memories, but at least no more feelings, yah?[b]
damn.. you're good.. i am feeling nostalgic as well.. and even though it doesnt feel good.. i like this feeling..Originally posted by sleepycat:Don't be affected by this. It may not be what you think it is.
Nostalgia may be one reason why our mind's eyes choose to see the things of the past and this ghost can be purged.
If symptoms persist, do bring to your remembrance why both of you did the things you did and part your ways, re-enact how things had gone from pure bliss to utter despair and you'll see yourself walking out of these redundant emotional indulgences.
Remember, inhale, close your eyes and stay focused, pal.![]()
Things like that happen... Just don't let yourself too far back into the memories if you can't handle it... Often I'll just give it a smile or give myself a bit of time to tone down the feeling... And remember... You've got a gf now for you...Originally posted by sleepy:sometimes i do think of my ex even if i'm currently attached...
i love my current gf but somehow i still can't forget my ex...
for eg. last nite i went for supper with my frens... saw a lady whom's back view was 9 of out 10 similiar to my ex... it really makes me think of my ex and wonder how was she doing in life. although she did me wrong, the hatred has gone away and what left now are memories![]()
yup and i wun let her downOriginally posted by Devil1976:Things like that happen... Just don't let yourself too far back into the memories if you can't handle it... Often I'll just give it a smile or give myself a bit of time to tone down the feeling... And remember... You've got a gf now for you...![]()
yah lah, u university student lah, so clever lah, mi o leve niaOriginally posted by hopy:its called 'memories'
get urself a job... work until u tired.. and reach home sleep straight...Originally posted by -den-7:if hav no gf atm how ah?how to get over the pain cause...all i do is self indulgent spending on myself,spend time with friends...but some times can get boring and u can;t help thinking of ur ex...its onli been 4 mths