Thinking of your ex...
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sometimes i do think of my ex even if i'm currently attached...
i love my current gf but somehow i still can't forget my ex...
for eg. last nite i went for supper with my frens... saw a lady whom's back view was 9 of out 10 similiar to my ex... it really makes me think of my ex and wonder how was she doing in life. although she did me wrong, the hatred has gone away and what left now are memories
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hey, i kind of understand how you feel. broke up with my ex more than 6 months ago, but now, even though i'm attached, i still think of her...Originally posted by sleepy:sometimes i do think of my ex even if i'm currently attached...
i love my current gf but somehow i still can't forget my ex...
for eg. last nite i went for supper with my frens... saw a lady whom's back view was 9 of out 10 similiar to my ex... it really makes me think of my ex and wonder how was she doing in life. although she did me wrong, the hatred has gone away and what left now are memories
guess it's pretty normal, to have memories, but at least no more feelings, yah?
live well, be happy...
i'm sure our ex wants us to be happy too! -
memmories will stay, but feelings won't. i mean it shouldn't, if feelings stay then good luck.
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once something nice hav e entered ur life, even when its gone, u will still remember it and think of it occasionally.. but thinking too much of it is unhealthy for ur current relationship..
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I still miss her after 4 years... Everytime i see someone backview that resembles her, i will break out in cold sweat, balls shrink & wonderif it's her... Haiz... SIMI lanjiao!!??
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I think you brought up a good point here. Memories should not be confused with feelings. Bridge under the water.... move on...
Originally posted by rumie:
[b]guess it's pretty normal, to have memories, but at least no more feelings, yah?[b] -
Don't be affected by this. It may not be what you think it is.
Nostalgia may be one reason why our mind's eyes choose to see the things of the past and this ghost can be purged.
If symptoms persist, do bring to your remembrance why both of you did the things you did and part your ways, re-enact how things had gone from pure bliss to utter despair and you'll see yourself walking out of these redundant emotional indulgences.
Remember, inhale, close your eyes and stay focused, pal. -
damn.. you're good.. i am feeling nostalgic as well.. and even though it doesnt feel good.. i like this feeling..Originally posted by sleepycat:Don't be affected by this. It may not be what you think it is.
Nostalgia may be one reason why our mind's eyes choose to see the things of the past and this ghost can be purged.
If symptoms persist, do bring to your remembrance why both of you did the things you did and part your ways, re-enact how things had gone from pure bliss to utter despair and you'll see yourself walking out of these redundant emotional indulgences.
Remember, inhale, close your eyes and stay focused, pal. -
its normal to think of ur ex i guess.. i have this prob too
i still think of my ex even though we've broken up like 6 years ago...
the important thing is not to
(1) use ur present gf as her substitute
(2) let 'think' become 'like/love'
i reckon its normal to think about our previous partners, who wouldn't?
as long as you know the difference between 'used to have' and 'what you have now' -
Till now,i have yet to meet someone who resembles her.
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ya it's okie when no feelings are involved.. memories are meant to be kept and look back.. when feelings are involved, u are hurting ur current partner(if u haf one) and that hurt is unbearable. so pls discern memories from feelings. think twice about why both ended the relationship in the first place.. and dun treat ur current or next-to-be partner as the next best substitute. It's too selfish..
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i don't reali miss my ex,i only miss those i loved & go after b4.
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Things like that happen... Just don't let yourself too far back into the memories if you can't handle it... Often I'll just give it a smile or give myself a bit of time to tone down the feeling... And remember... You've got a gf now for you...Originally posted by sleepy:sometimes i do think of my ex even if i'm currently attached...
i love my current gf but somehow i still can't forget my ex...
for eg. last nite i went for supper with my frens... saw a lady whom's back view was 9 of out 10 similiar to my ex... it really makes me think of my ex and wonder how was she doing in life. although she did me wrong, the hatred has gone away and what left now are memories -
yup and i wun let her downOriginally posted by Devil1976:Things like that happen... Just don't let yourself too far back into the memories if you can't handle it... Often I'll just give it a smile or give myself a bit of time to tone down the feeling... And remember... You've got a gf now for you... 
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its called 'memories'
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yah lah, u university student lah, so clever lah, mi o leve niaOriginally posted by hopy:its called 'memories'
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if hav no gf atm how ah?how to get over the pain cause...all i do is self indulgent spending on myself,spend time with friends...but some times can get boring and u can;t help thinking of ur ex...its onli been 4 mths
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get urself a job... work until u tired.. and reach home sleep straight...Originally posted by -den-7:if hav no gf atm how ah?how to get over the pain cause...all i do is self indulgent spending on myself,spend time with friends...but some times can get boring and u can;t help thinking of ur ex...its onli been 4 mths
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ya dat is wat i am also doing...working....si bei tired...also getting my driving licence so i can drive around...hehe
