How do you know if a girl is playing you?
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Would like to know what signs are there that lets you know the girl is actually playing with you/ leading you on/making use of you... been in a dilemma recently, my friends are saying this girl is playing with me yet I cannot see it... I choose to believe her...
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When she is holding a PS2 or XBOX gamepad whenever she goes out with u
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unless u12 hire prvte. investigator
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only time can tell....
wad use is it of to you, if you try to rush things and want to find out the truth? ur only hurting urself.. wad if shes true to you, and ur going about trying to know if shes toying with you? she'll feel hurt
let time tell.. u'll know the answer yourself sooner or later... -
u do whatever she ask u to do but den she doesn't do the same for u....i got it before and its still fresh.....Originally posted by Star_dust:Would like to know what signs are there that lets you know the girl is actually playing with you/ leading you on/making use of you... been in a dilemma recently, my friends are saying this girl is playing with me yet I cannot see it... I choose to believe her... -
1) she always ask you to pay for her expenses when both of u goes out.
2) you look at girls and was caught by her, her reaction is, she just smiles and says is ok.
3) she makes you carry her bag every sec you 2 were together.
4) she never intro you to her parents.
5) she slaps you in the face and starts laughing
6) she calls other boys "dear or darling" but never calls you that.
7) She sleeps with other guys behind your back.
she french kiss other guys in front of you and behind you.
9) she flirts in front of you with your friends and strangers..
10) when she is sad she always call you. But she is happy she refuse to go out with you. -
believe your friends. they have a clearer view of the situation.
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well put it simple lar, if she's serious with you, she would have given you a firm answer or committment to the relationship. If nt , then she's probably just enjoying the attention. Your friends will have a clear perception of this issue lar....trust ur friends, its hard to c what her real motive is when you are deeply in love with her.
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hmmm, did she cares abt u when u were sick? or do thgs for u?Originally posted by Star_dust:Would like to know what signs are there that lets you know the girl is actually playing with you/ leading you on/making use of you... been in a dilemma recently, my friends are saying this girl is playing with me yet I cannot see it... I choose to believe her... -
Are u attached to her or just friendsOriginally posted by Star_dust:Would like to know what signs are there that lets you know the girl is actually playing with you/ leading you on/making use of you... been in a dilemma recently, my friends are saying this girl is playing with me yet I cannot see it... I choose to believe her...
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Frankly speaking, u dun need us to tell u. If u really dig deep inside of u.. u'll know.. u'll feel it. Juz tt pple tend to be shrouded n blinded by their unrequited love for sb, allowing tt someone to exploit u.
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Hi all,
Thaks for your replies... I feel should wait n how her actions are...
Sadly she and I are not attached..... cuz she has a bf.... but then she'll still say she miss me n all tat la via email (cuz now i'm overseas)
My friends did say she is playing with me... but I cant feel it... cuz... a few times I said juz end contacts (cuz of the way she handle our conversations) she would be sad n want me to stay in e frenship...
however...she likes to lie alot.... =( -
She's got a bf. Nothing's clearer than that. What u say?
Maybe she's just looking for friendship?
You exposed yourself, got all smittened-up and end up she take advantage of u?
Ask your friends, they should be able to tell u.
Sometimes words are mere words. It's the mind that's playing tricks on you. -
her actions alternates between having feelings for me n saying things more than what friends should be saying to saying we are juz normal friends....
I ever asked her tat she say I am her friend wor... -
Mayb she's undergoing a rough patch in her current r/s and is looking for a 'spare'?
In any case, you will not be her top prioity as far as 'feelings' are concerned. U have to take her words with a large dose of salt. -
its obvious now isnt it? it shows she is not so serious as u in this relationshipOriginally posted by Star_dust:her actions alternates between having feelings for me n saying things more than what friends should be saying to saying we are juz normal friends.... I ever asked her tat she say I am her friend wor...
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how?
simple.. does she remember things she said or do?
is she talkative?
does she cover one lie with another? -
I rily dunno... for 1 thing she chosen her bf liao and second thing I am quite sick of her lies.... asking this cuz dunno should continue to be friends with her or not.... I feel she really felt for me n is confused between me n her bf.... it's like she dun wan to lose me like that.... tat's y keep me as frenOriginally posted by alexkusu:its obvious now isnt it? it shows she is not so serious as u in this relationship -
Originally posted by Star_dust:
there.. u have the answer urself liao..
I rily dunno... [b]for 1 thing she chosen her bf liao and second thing I am quite sick of her lies.... asking this cuz dunno should continue to be friends with her or not.... I feel she really felt for me n is confused between me n her bf.... it's like she dun wan to lose me like that.... tat's y keep me as fren[/b] -
I gotta tell u this bro , but.. man. Cut ur loses now. U gonna be in deep emotional stress. She is in a win win situation. She get to be with BF.. n in case shiet goes wrong..she comes back to ur sorry @$$. Well, by experience ? i say she playing u in the ballz. Ask ur friends what to do.. 3rd person perspective is always clearer....
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thx for all ur replies.... I get a clearer picture now....
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What a wonderful day, last time tell me got feelings for me, what sense of security is herself give herself one.... last nite she tell me to wake up and say she will not fall for a guy who is younger than her! 6 months only!!! HEllo?! Still wan to keep me as fren n ask me not talk abt feelings n such things....
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Both of you born in different year is it?Originally posted by Star_dust:What a wonderful day, last time tell me got feelings for me, what sense of security is herself give herself one.... last nite she tell me to wake up and say she will not fall for a guy who is younger than her! 6 months only!!! HEllo?! Still wan to keep me as fren n ask me not talk abt feelings n such things....
That is why its so hard to have platonic relationship between a gal and a guy.. unless both gal and guy are already attached to someone else liao -
different year but less than a year apart la.... now really felt being tua.... Of cuz can say she not sure of herself la etc.... hey... den like tat y tell me miss me my calls, my sms.... although tis was a few weeks back!
Of cuz can have platonic relationship la, but wah lao! Her bf let us be frenz etc... but she will always use bf as the excuse... take note it is her who want to keep the frenship with me, scared I will leave her! -
Actually, one way to tell is to use your sense. When she speaks to you, try to "sense" her words. See whether you can detect anything.
