Bad attitude....
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Sometimes I think I really have some attitude problem. Yes I know I have this problem and I dare to admit it. But the thing is...I do not feel bad or what. Especially, when I attend department dinner. I do not smile, and do not talk to the new staffs who are girls that just joined our department. The only thing I love on the dinning table is Beer.
I give F Face.....and...I feel shiok....Is there something wrong with me???
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yes. go eat sht.
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you got something hiding izit? like a bad memory or u feel uncomfy mixing around?Originally posted by Seventh_Son:Sometimes I think I really have some attitude problem. Yes I know I have this problem and I dare to admit it. But the thing is...I do not feel bad or what. Especially, when I attend department dinner. I do not smile, and do not talk to the new staffs who are girls that just joined our department. The only thing I love on the dinning table is Beer.
I give F Face.....and...I feel shiok....Is there something wrong with me??? -
wtf.Originally posted by starblue:yes. go eat sht. -
No, you are entitled to express how you feel, perhaps you are not happy with your job. Anyway you are not obliged to speak to new staff from your department. There's plenty of time to do that at work. Cheers enjoy your beer!
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Nope got nothing to hide or whatsoever.Originally posted by StarPuppy:you got something hiding izit? like a bad memory or u feel uncomfy mixing around?
I can talk to everyone except those new staffs.
Just want to intimidate them and make them SIAM me. -
obviously u realized u got an attitude problem.
u r probably an egoistic person n like to be at the steering wheel of things.
and u probably feel u dun own anyone a living. do u feel happy abt it or u prefer to change and mingle with the crowd.
smiles r free. smile show the sunshine inside ur heart. smiles beget smiles. smiles r not invitation to bed her.
change ur preception and smile will change u. -
dats bad.
be nice to newbs mah, they new after all. -
Actually i have the same problem.... i do not talk to my fellow colleague or even my bosses....cos i find them insincere and bitchy..... they very fake loh... bosses crack some stupid joke this is not funny at all .. they laugh like ... they are almost gonna roll on the ground.. quite unlike my previous colleague ... its already 6 years ... and i still meet up with regularly ...
Of Cos i know to survive in this soceity ....we have to put up a false front and mingle with pple we do not like which is for Growth and Develpment.... Well its just me .... and I want to be the unpretenious real me ..... I have even told my boss if she is not my boss we would have become good fren! -
Try to act 'lao chiao'?
Want them to fear and respect u? -
Nope...me not trying to act Old bird.Originally posted by Magnus:Try to act 'lao chiao'?
Want them to fear and respect u?
Infact, me only talked to those that is directly related to me in work.
And for other teams, I totally bochap. -
Smile at them? If only I know them better. If not NO.Originally posted by Apollo_sg:obviously u realized u got an attitude problem.
u r probably an egoistic person n like to be at the steering wheel of things.
and u probably feel u dun own anyone a living. do u feel happy abt it or u prefer to change and mingle with the crowd.
smiles r free. smile show the sunshine inside ur heart. smiles beget smiles. smiles r not invitation to bed her.
change ur preception and smile will change u. -
If you think you're just like that, what you want us to say?Originally posted by Seventh_Son:Smile at them? If only I know them better. If not NO.
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Do what you want. Do not care about others. U r your own universe. They will smile at you if they want. If not they can fark off...U r not paid to enertain them.
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agree.Originally posted by starblue:yes. go eat sht.
go f.ark spider than after eating sht -
so you wan to change for the better?
or juz wan to remain as you are now??? -
i think he wants others to understand him, but remain unchanged.Originally posted by hyuuga neji:so you wan to change for the better?
or juz wan to remain as you are now??? -
then wats the point of posting???Originally posted by Ito_^:i think he wants others to understand him, but remain unchanged. -
Originally posted by hyuuga neji:then wats the point of posting???
one advice.. u can dun talk to them. just smile loh... with a little bit of luck, they'll think you're crazy, then leave you alone in your personal private precious space... -
why not talk to the beer? So many of them need entertaining...
There's Calsberg, Tiger, Heineken, Fosters, Guiness, you can drown your sad sorrows with them...no need for gals! -
Wah really got attitude problem... intimidate ppleOriginally posted by Seventh_Son:Nope got nothing to hide or whatsoever.
I can talk to everyone except those new staffs.
Just want to intimidate them and make them SIAM me. -
i can only say that u r real mean... what's ur pt in being so mean when no one has actually done anything to u? dun forget u were once a newbie and pple had rendered help to you before... read my signature if u still dun get it...
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i agree with those who said you can behave how ever you want to behave.
but please consider that your actions may affect other people.
consider that fact that you're imposing your bad mood on other people by projecting a negative vibe.
i think you're just attention seeking. grow out of it! -
people will says, dun act cool lah...
cool and F look is only a thin margin diff...so depends on how they perceive it..