resignation letter- can i hand it in to the HR?
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it is true that assholes and office politics are everywhere. but the situation difffers with companies.Originally posted by BillyBong:It's the same everywhere else.
You really think office politics is isolated? How do you think people run a company? With honest, hardworking, valued-added cronies sucking up to the BIG BOSS...
well that was rather extreme of me but you get the pic
i have seen and heard of companies with very little and/or very mild office politics. some like my last job was totally unbearable. -
Every company has its own office politics, juz differed by its intensity.
If you really feel that you can't cope with it, its better to leave. I was super stressed in my first job when I graduated and remembered crying every night before I sleep. I lost 4 kg within 1 month. I was almost going into depression. I decided that since i was not happy in my job, then, I shld leave. Thus, I won't forced you to stay if you are not happy in the company. -
==> I like your points very much, it is so pertinent and encouraging... one thing I would like to emphasize, if you could find a job first, then submit the resign letter, would be ideal, but based on your case, maybe you have to resign first liao.. don't put a shadow on yourself, not everyjob, every colleague, every company like that, you will find a better one, jia you.. =====Originally posted by Li Ka Shing:I think u can ask the HR for earlier termination. Tell them about how u feel. It's normal to terminate early. The contract is not so strict and binding, as long as both parties agree, there's no problem........Find someone who can make the decision while ur manager is away. (to terminate early).
If u cant find someone who can decide, then contact ur manager or wait for him. Ask for early termination.....
Remember to emphasize ur 'burned-out/ stressed out/ unhappy/ can't continue any more' situation while talking to HR or ur manager. They're unlikely to ask u to continue.......Probably u can stop working on that same day or the next day.....
But if u r really required to serve the 2 weeks, then just do it.....Don't stress urself in the 2 weeks time, take it easy....In the meantime, don't worry about making mistakes or missing deadlines, like u used to worry. Just work as usual and everything will be ok. Basically u know the ropes already. Be more confident. Cruise for 2 weeks.
And let everybody know u r leaving. They will start to put less pressure on u, expect less from u, and maybe assign some of ur tasks to other people. All this will help to reduce ur stress.
And don't worry abt ur BF......explain u r stressed out. He won't think less of u or be disappointed with u. Get a better job and impress him.
And more importantly.....u know u should really consider a job carefully from now on. -
===> some time maybe we put too much pressue on oursleves....Originally posted by ILPSY:Every company has its own office politics, juz differed by its intensity.
If you really feel that you can't cope with it, its better to leave. I was super stressed in my first job when I graduated and remembered crying every night before I sleep. I lost 4 kg within 1 month. I was almost going into depression. I decided that since i was not happy in my job, then, I shld leave. Thus, I won't forced you to stay if you are not happy in the company.
but anyway, there are some places, some ppl are not suitable to us.. ===
I believe to respect and to recognize other's work and be gracious will make our society a bette place to live in... nobody is perfect especially those who are fresh graduated...==== -
okay...for the record..i have tendered...gave my letter to the HR before i went home... hahaahah...
i know the office will be talking about me tomorw when they hear about the news. oh..have to give the letter to my mananger too.she wil be back tomorw. Not an easy person to deal with .... 
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If you are still young and no commitments, go out and explore as there are many opportunies for you.
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Good for you...Originally posted by snowygal:okay...for the record..i have tendered...gave my letter to the HR before i went home... hahaahah...
i know the office will be talking about me tomorw when they hear about the news. oh..have to give the letter to my mananger too.she wil be back tomorw. Not an easy person to deal with .... 
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I second that.Originally posted by Devil1976:Good for you... -
Wah! Congrats! Its a new beginning. Isn't it easier to work now? heehee...
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easier to work..... hmmmm... in a way yes...and no. yes coz i know that next friday marks the end of this adventure...and no -there are still alot of things to be done everyday
however, my mananger hasn't say much about my resignation .. and that makes me wonder if its approve.