I saw my ex today
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My ex broke up with me 4 months ago. During that period it was really the lowest point of my life. I was practically not interested in anything except liquor and cigarette, drinking and smoking almost everyday.
I love her alot, but yet she had decided to end it all. It took me a lot of efforts to show her that I truly love her but no use at all. She still decided to end it. She wanted to remain as friends but I didnt want to. I don't want to be reminded of the past few months that I had gone thru. It is really very torturing.
It also took me a lot of effort to get over this r/s and to start everything afresh. It is really tough, and as and when memories just come and I miss her again..
She did sms and call me a few times. But I didn't just want to remain as friends, it's just too torturing for me. Now she has another guy.
Yet today, I saw her, actually I didn't want to call her. But I saw her at the clinic near her office. My heart soften, and I know deep within myself that I still love and care for her a lot. I am very worried as why is she seeing a doctor. So I called her and talked to her for a while, she really looked very pale and she said she was not feeling well for the past few days.
How I wished I could be right there by her side to take care of her right now, but seems not possible. So I wished her well and asked her to take care of herself.
I thought I had let go of this r/s, let go of her, but I was very wrong. I realise that I still love her a lot and that I still care for her alot....... -
Since its over, try to get over it. Take ur time to overcome it. Wat is not yours wont be yours. Holding on to it will only make u more miserable.
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It takes 5 minutes to fall in love and a life time to forget. That's life. Isn't very sad?
Time will help you better manage your emotions. So move on.... God Bless.
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mi condolence
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why condolence?
nobody died. -
condolence is not used just for comforting the pple who has the love one died, it is also for the death of the heartOriginally posted by dragg:why condolence?
nobody died. -
oic.Originally posted by sgboy2004:condolence is not used just for comforting the pple who has the love one died, it is also for the death of the heart -
U remind of my pass...... try to occupy yourself with something that you like. Keep yourself busy and time will slowly heal.....
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Originally posted by powerstation:My ex broke up with me 4 months ago. During that period it was really the lowest point of my life. I was practically not interested in anything except liquor and cigarette, drinking and smoking almost everyday.
I love her alot, but yet she had decided to end it all. It took me a lot of efforts to show her that I truly love her but no use at all. She still decided to end it. She wanted to remain as friends but I didnt want to. I don't want to be reminded of the past few months that I had gone thru. It is really very torturing.
It also took me a lot of effort to get over this r/s and to start everything afresh. It is really tough, and as and when memories just come and I miss her again..
She did sms and call me a few times. But I didn't just want to remain as friends, it's just too torturing for me. Now she has another guy.
Yet today, I saw her, actually I didn't want to call her. But I saw her at the clinic near her office. My heart soften, and I know deep within myself that I still love and care for her a lot. I am very worried as why is she seeing a doctor. So I called her and talked to her for a while, she really looked very pale and she said she was not feeling well for the past few days.
How I wished I could be right there by her side to take care of her right now, but seems not possible. So I wished her well and asked her to take care of herself.
I thought I had let go of this r/s, let go of her, but I was very wrong. I realise that I still love her a lot and that I still care for her alot.......
Are you a Leo, Taurus, Scorpio or Aquarius?
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Does horroscope really matter in this case?Originally posted by Yunhaier: Are you a Leo, Taurus, Scorpio or Aquarius?
Cheers
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Mine emailed me and told me how happy she was with other guy.
I realised one thing is that I have moved on. I am happy for her cos at least someone brings her joy. She will nvr admit that she ahs betrayed me but one thing for sure is that cos I have start to let her go, all hatred, anger, betrayal, hurt and vengence that haunt me for a couple of months are no longer affecting me emotionally.
Its really very difficult to let go and I have minimised my email to her cos I know once she is gone, she is indeed gone. No use dwelling to the past, it will affect your future and also your current undertakings. -
i been wondering ArchAngel Yun always ask for horoscope....does horoscope do a part in rs too?Originally posted by DriftingGuy:Does horroscope really matter in this case? -
the greatest act of love is that let the person you love go and be happy that she is happy about it and its also the best defence for some who try to make u regretfulOriginally posted by ptw:Mine emailed me and told me how happy she was with other guy.
I realised one thing is that I have moved on. I am happy for her cos at least someone brings her joy. She will nvr admit that she ahs betrayed me but one thing for sure is that cos I have start to let her go, all hatred, anger, betrayal, hurt and vengence that haunt me for a couple of months are no longer affecting me emotionally.
Its really very difficult to let go and I have minimised my email to her cos I know once she is gone, she is indeed gone. No use dwelling to the past, it will affect your future and also your current undertakings.
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Actually, I think it is somehow related. Horoscope can be use as a guide.Originally posted by StarPuppy:i been wondering ArchAngel Yun always ask for horoscope....does horoscope do a part in rs too?
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I don't really believe in horoscope...just read it for fun, can't really depend on it to predict where your r/s will goOriginally posted by StarPuppy:i been wondering ArchAngel Yun always ask for horoscope....does horoscope do a part in rs too? -
I guess horoscope can be zhun if you believe in it
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Yes, I fully agree that to forget someone is very difficult, esp when I have given so much of my love for her. I am trying to let go, day by day, I just keep myself busy with my work. But there are times when I am alone, I will start thinking abt her.
That is also why, I refuse to remain as friends with her. Not that I am petty or what, but I feel that is the best way for me to let go and also not to remind me of the pain that I had gone thru also.
I am much better but today when I saw her, I keep thinking about our past again, really can't stop myself from not thinking.
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take care... juz another case of gal ending relationship for someone else....
curse that other guy
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Think u give in too much for ur relationship hence learn from mistake bro... Last time i have the same experience as u. Give her too much until a point where she felt boring...
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Originally posted by DriftingGuy:Does horroscope really matter in this case? Originally posted by StarPuppy:i been wondering ArchAngel Yun always ask for horoscope....does horoscope do a part in rs too?
Not really; i am just doing my own version of AC Nelson 'marketing research/survey.'Originally posted by rainee:I don't really believe in horoscope...just read it for fun, can't really depend on it to predict where your r/s will go
P.S: Sun signs can't predict where relationship goes; it's freewill (in simple term: our choices) that moves the relationship.
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How I wish I will bump into him again today...
How I wish he also thought of me today..juz today.. -
I cut off contact with all my exes too. Today when I see them again, I just stare them in the face and walk away.Originally posted by powerstation:Yes, I fully agree that to forget someone is very difficult, esp when I have given so much of my love for her. I am trying to let go, day by day, I just keep myself busy with my work. But there are times when I am alone, I will start thinking abt her.
That is also why, I refuse to remain as friends with her. Not that I am petty or what, but I feel that is the best way for me to let go and also not to remind me of the pain that I had gone thru also.
I am much better but today when I saw her, I keep thinking about our past again, really can't stop myself from not thinking.
Sigh..
Call me cruel if you like.
Oh, you will forget when you have met a better person in the future. Trust me on this -
Look into the future, no point thinking about someone who is already not thinking about you...Originally posted by browniebaobao:How I wish I will bump into him again today...
How I wish he also thought of me today..juz today.. -
Originally posted by rainee:Look into the future, no point thinking about someone who is already not thinking about you...
That's sad..
I know, but it's easier said than done.
How possibly would you be able to forget somebody you ever loved deeply before?
If you can forget easily, then I doubt you ever loved him. -
I do not agree with the last sentence. The more you love someone, the more you should learn to let him go if you know both of you are not meant to beOriginally posted by browniebaobao:
That's sad..
I know, but it's easier said than done.
How possibly would you be able to forget somebody you ever loved deeply before?
If you can forget easily, then I doubt you ever loved him.