would u...
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would u keep comparing yourself with your ex's current bf/gf? i don't know why i kept doing that... sigh and i feel i'm somehow inferior to her...
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ren bi ren qi si ren
I think I will get very inferior and depressed if I compare myself with her. Coz afterall, she's his CURRENT gf. What more can u say or do?
I chose to be blind and deaf in this case. -
that's exactly how i feel no matter how much my friends assure me tt i look better and stuff like that i still think she's better... it's killing me! argh... i also kind of wish i don't know who is she but i do.Originally posted by browniebaobao:ren bi ren qi si ren
I think I will get very inferior and depressed if I compare myself with her. Coz afterall, she's his CURRENT gf. What more can u say or do?
I chose to be blind and deaf in this case. -
No i won't, cos i know that i'm better.Originally posted by mek:would u keep comparing yourself with your ex's current bf/gf? i don't know why i kept doing that... sigh and i feel i'm somehow inferior to her... 
Have more confidence in yourself, it's easier for people to notice your good qualities when you're beaming with confidence.
I vote for you, I'm sure you're better than her.
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haiz... i can't help it.. i actually thought of living better and making myself looking better as a form of 'getting back' at him for what he did to me but it doesn't seem to work... he really shook my confidence ALOT i must say.Originally posted by parn:No i won't, cos i know that i'm better.
Have more confidence in yourself, it's easier for people to notice your good qualities when you're beaming with confidence.
I vote for you, I'm sure you're better than her.
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u know what...? Get a better guy than ur ex BF. U will feel much better. Stop thinking about him or comparing urself to her. That's really a wrong mindset. It doesn't really matter whether u or her is better. Get a better BF for urself.....
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ren bi ren, qi shi ren u noe?Originally posted by mek:would u keep comparing yourself with your ex's current bf/gf? i don't know why i kept doing that... sigh and i feel i'm somehow inferior to her... -
Comparing urself with someone else is human nature.
Juz think of it this way.. u n ur ex r not suited for each other coz there r better suited partners for both of u. So it's not a matter of u not being good enough but rather the compatibility. So.. don't be too hard on urself.
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No. It's OVER. She has a DIFFERENT life now... And THAT'S HER LIFE...Originally posted by mek:would u keep comparing yourself with your ex's current bf/gf? i don't know why i kept doing that... sigh and i feel i'm somehow inferior to her... -
Its natural that u r comparing and feel inferior. You 'll be asking yourself "what is it that I'm not good enuff that cause me to lose"...rite??
I believe u still have strong feelings for him. Nobody's perfect...not me..not you...not her. There are some qualities that u outshine her....so, believe it..its HIS LOST!!!!
Get back to your life....someone out there will appreciate u more than he does...n he will tell you that no one can compare to you. You'll be on top of the world. -
i know what you're going through man.
sometimes i also wish i dunno who my bf's ex is. but since i already know who she is, i'm learning to ignore everything about her. i'm trying. hard.. -
means that you cant let go of your ex lah..thats y u feel inferior with compared to your ex's gf/bf...
easy..get yourself a much better partner..maybe your ex will start to feel the same way as you did before! hahha