am i really at fault?
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i had a tiff with my girlfriend..
it started off when she fell ill.. and we stopped msging like we used to.. and i meant hardly a sms each day..
i did all i could to shower her with care and concern but her reply always turn out as though im bothering her that i eventually gave up.. i seriously doesnt think a sms a day is asking for too much..
am i really in the wrong now? -
If she's upset about an SMS a day, don't u think something is not quite right? Even when she's ill?
Is she trying to avoid u....? u have to figure it out.....
And r u sure she's ill? It could be an excuse too...... -
Hmmm.. deja vu..
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What was the cause of the quarrel?
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Think someone should breakout the post-breakup/rebound kit.
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that's horrible... but maybe you should calm down and think back where it al started... maybe give her some space first...
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she is sick of you, u're screwed.
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How long have she been sick? Recovered already? When's the tiff?Originally posted by chelseaduff11:i had a tiff with my girlfriend..
it started off when she fell ill.. and we stopped msging like we used to.. and i meant hardly a sms each day..
i did all i could to shower her with care and concern but her reply always turn out as though im bothering her that i eventually gave up.. i seriously doesnt think a sms a day is asking for too much..
am i really in the wrong now? -
She's sick......the SMSes reduced...and now, there's a tiff. Just like that..?? I'm sure there's more to it. If not, there's a lot of thinking that you should be doing....Man!! This is stressful!!
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you should go round to your gf's place & check if she's really sick or not...skarli she's having another boi boi over, you're dead man...
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Remeber it's NEVER your fault... These bloody b-i-t-c-h-es always makes everything seem like our fault
U call/msg her often, she said u are not giving her personal space
U don't call/msg her often, she said u are concerned abt her -
Originally posted by Prince Cumming:
relax man....
Remeber it's [b]NEVER your fault... These bloody b-i-t-c-h-es always makes everything seem like our fault
U call/msg her often, she said u are not giving her personal space
U don't call/msg her often, she said u are concerned abt her
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Originally posted by chelseaduff11:i had a tiff with my girlfriend..
it started off when she fell ill.. and we stopped msging like we used to.. and i meant hardly a sms each day..
i did all i could to shower her with care and concern but her reply always turn out as though im bothering her that i eventually gave up.. i seriously doesnt think a sms a day is asking for too much..
am i really in the wrong now?
i find it rather perplexing... there's always smthing called a telephone call rite??? i dun understand y u dun initiate a call to ask abt her well-being... is she suffering from sore throat or smthing??? and it cant be that she's too ill to even pick up ur call since she is still able to sms...
well, dun be too vexed lah... when she's well, ask her out to sort it all out... no point pondering too much... take care, yah?
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how about calling her and have a chat?
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uh-oh...you are screwed! there must be something wrong with her! Must be got third-party, or she is not interested in you already. Seriously, we are not here to make a mockery out of your misery. Have a good talk with her, ask her whats the problem, anything wrong with you, etc...
but wait till she recover from her illness...or else, she will get more frustrated with you!
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haiya, sumtimes posting questions in forums everyone will jump into conclusions straight away too early la.... n dun make things worse by saying things like she sure sumthing wrong la.... our fren here sure sianz enuff we dun add oil to fire la.... It's still too early to say she is gone wat...
Like wat others say, I think u should call her, can sense her tones etc too... best yet give her a surprise visit to show u care for her....
Juz dun think rite away that she is gone... What happen is indeed strange... juz find the right time to discuss with her... after she's well again... -
maybe an unresolved issue that is not worked on or talked about is eating into her feelings for you.
some people need time and space from relationships.
lesser sms-ing does not equate lesser love
absence makes the heart grow fonder, you know.