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I am indirectly telling her to wait, the guy might be busy with his work.Originally posted by shaunlaw:Dun add on to ppl's woes. Its not time for fun here. -
agree, but I do have gf that knowing for 1st day ,3rd day have sex and I am with them for 3 - 4 years.Originally posted by dragg:i dont mean to rub it in. but come to think of it what impression did you give to the guy, having sex with him after only one week.
surely he sees you as just another women out for fun. you cannot expect him to be serious about it. -
Silly girl, it's only 'like' and u can give urself away like that..
so what if he comes back for you? Most probably he comes back bcos he wants to bed u again. what for?
if i were u, if i see him again, i'll give him a tight slap, no matter where we are, coz it's an insult that he actually used money to make up for that night. It makes you no difference from a prostitute.
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agree, if he really like her, no matter how busy he will also give a call. But seems she miss him so much I think she will believe any reason the guy gives when he return and bed with him again.Originally posted by browniebaobao:Silly girl, it's only 'like' and u can give urself away like that..
so what if he comes back for you? Most probably he comes back bcos he wants to bed u again. what for?
if i were u, if i see him again, i'll give him a tight slap, no matter where we are, coz it's an insult that he actually used money to make up for that night. It makes you no difference from a prostitute.
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somehow i agree with what you posted. her behaviour obviously gave the guy, or any guy for that matter, an impression that she is 'easy'.Originally posted by browniebaobao:Silly girl, it's only 'like' and u can give urself away like that..
so what if he comes back for you? Most probably he comes back bcos he wants to bed u again. what for?
if i were u, if i see him again, i'll give him a tight slap, no matter where we are, coz it's an insult that he actually used money to make up for that night. It makes you no difference from a prostitute.
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I'm a girl asking a legit question.Originally posted by shaunlaw:Obviously U are also another inconsiderate fellow asking noob questions.
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I am not liking this bit about him leaving you money one bit.
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Originally posted by F.O.S:agree, if he really like her, no matter how busy he will also give a call. But seems she miss him so much I think she will believe any reason the guy gives when he return and bed with him again.
Fos, I think so too...
as the saying goes 'love is blind'
and women are stupid in love.
I know some people will protest or whatever. But then when a woman really devotes herself to a r/s, she can give up everything for the guy.
But then is this case...I would say that she is really foolish...really..one week of sweet talkings got her into bed with him. Haiz. -
Not even a txt msg.. that's not good enough.Originally posted by F.O.S:I am indirectly telling her to wait, the guy might be busy with his work. -
Face it...guys....what's the point of saying so much...it's her life...she shld know very well...i believe she's not a young kid anymore...
Furthermore....she's not the only girl whom had been "cheated"...there're lots more out there... -
Lets all look in a brighter side.
The guy may just want to leave a good memory for her and himself.
Being together might not be happy ending too.
Cindy,
Move on with your life, take it as a sweet memory. He might not be your Mr. right, maybe both of you together for few years and break up ,you suffer even more than now what you are.
There are many of this case happen around the world, you are not the only 1.
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Hello F.O.S,Originally posted by F.O.S:Lets all look in a brighter side.
The guy may just want to leave a good memory for her and himself.
Being together might not be happy ending too.
Cindy,
Move on with your life, take it as a sweet memory. He might not be your Mr. right, maybe both of you together for few years and break up ,you suffer even more than now what you are.
There are many of this case happen around the world, you are not the only 1.
There are guys cheated by gals too, its common.
insightful perspective.
Thanks.
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What if you get to talk to him?
Will you insist on no-sex if he asks for it?
If he says no sex, forget it, will you give in to him again?
The point is love can make you do silly things that only you get hurt.
Just remember this - never, never give sex to any good-looking stranger
but only a steady, loving bf (you may not agree with me on the last point).
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seriously i doubt love is even involved.
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pardon me, but i really wonder if u r an adult already... if no, then u shld realise that itz not the time for u to do smthing that only married couples can do... it yes, u need to use ur head a little more becoz a guy that has a glib tongue usu spells trouble, esp one who asks u for that thing in only 1-week...Originally posted by cindy80:I just knew this very nice guy who I'm very attracted too...Due to his sweet talking, we ended up having sex in just merely a week...When I woke up the next morning, he had already left and left some money on the table. He has not even replied to any of my calls anymore...I really like him and I do not know what to do... : (
sigh... gullible... but anyway, he probably will nv want to see the last of u again, so move on and forget abt the guy... pls be more intelligent next time... -
sneezy slaps cindy80 !!!
wake up girl! you already mentioned he left w/o telling you and also left money on the table.. you never think why he did that? Let you take taxi home izzit.. silly girl... He already trying to avoid you by not answering your call and you still think he is sincere.. Stop thinking abt him and move on.. -
Originally posted by cindy80:I just knew this very nice guy who I'm very attracted too...Due to his sweet talking, we ended up having sex in just merely a week...When I woke up the next morning, he had already left and left some money on the table. He has not even replied to any of my calls anymore...I really like him and I do not know what to do... : (
You are easily emotionally/sexually exploited (Good victim for AOS). Likely, you are a willing party, but to receive lasting and fulfilling love, you do not end up in bed as soon as the heat of passion rush in. In fact, this kills passion and everything dies as quickly as a night's fire.
And you can't earn the respect of man by giving yourself too early. Especially if you are looking for some kind of committed affairs.
Obviously, this man sees this relationship as a form of fling. Fling don't last and what do you expect other than such endings?
P.S: How is the relationship with your dad?
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Just some words of comfort. Take it as a lesson learnt, don't worry too much. Move on?Originally posted by cindy80:I just knew this very nice guy who I'm very attracted too...Due to his sweet talking, we ended up having sex in just merely a week...When I woke up the next morning, he had already left and left some money on the table. He has not even replied to any of my calls anymore...I really like him and I do not know what to do... : (