I saw someone who resembled my ex today
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was at holland village tcc... happily drinking my coffee and reading mag when this girl came up to the counter and started talking to her friend who was working there...
and, omg... she look SO MUCH like my ex. not saying that i dont see girls who resemble her, but this one whom i saw was just so much like her.
i just blurted out to my sister who was beside me: "she looks so much like xxxxxxx. but no, it's not her, cos xxxxxxx doesn't speaks in mandarin."
anyway, after that, i totally lost my mood of staying there... got off and went to another place.
sigh... is this a sign that I haven't let go, or is it normal? i mean, i have a gf now...
and sorry if i'm asking another hopeless and loser-type question here, it was really my first time breaking up with someone in my entire life. -
i guess it's just normal.. it's "memories".. i suppose e only time u cant remember ur ex.. is when u're suffering from retrograde amnesia..
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my condolence
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so? is tat impt? even if tat resemble him/her, do u really wanna approach?
learn to let go lah. -
Hmm.. I do encounter instances last time when I saw my ex in sch and shes got a new bf. I dun even bother to say a hi or even bother to be nice and acknowledge that I saw her.Originally posted by rumie:was at holland village tcc... happily drinking my coffee and reading mag when this girl came up to the counter and started talking to her friend who was working there...
and, omg... she look SO MUCH like my ex. not saying that i dont see girls who resemble her, but this one whom i saw was just so much like her.
i just blurted out to my sister who was beside me: "she looks so much like xxxxxxx. but no, it's not her, cos xxxxxxx doesn't speaks in mandarin."
anyway, after that, i totally lost my mood of staying there... got off and went to another place.
sigh... is this a sign that I haven't let go, or is it normal? i mean, i have a gf now...
and sorry if i'm asking another hopeless and loser-type question here, it was really my first time breaking up with someone in my entire life.
All she brought me was mem that she played with my feelings so no point of me rembering her. -
Think i have the same experience .... whenever i see someone who resemble i will try to take a closer look ... girls nowsday look so alike with all the rebonding stuff...
I think I will die of heartache rite in front of her if I see her holding hand with another guy....
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Just wish i have never known you.... my heart wont be aching and longing for you now .... -
it is ok, sometimes, to be hard-hearted and self-fish....Originally posted by shaunlaw:Hmm.. I do encounter instances last time when I saw my ex in sch and shes got a new bf. I dun even bother to say a hi or even bother to be nice and acknowledge that I saw her.
All she brought me was mem that she played with my feelings so no point of me rembering her. -
Haha. I am just being heartless and hard hearted to her only. LOL. I think most girls will wan to be frens with their ex where possible. My ex also wan to cos she say b4.Originally posted by sgboy2004:it is ok, sometimes, to be hard-hearted and self-fish....
But I am being mean ba.
i wan her to rem that she hurt me always so I am not going to be frens with her. I think I am bad. -
probably u were really hurt and have not put down this burden yet...it's ok brother, it's ok as long as u do her no direct harm and u r ok with it... just leave it and move on with your new gfOriginally posted by shaunlaw:Haha. I am just being heartless and hard hearted to her only. LOL. I think most girls will wan to be frens with their ex where possible. My ex also wan to cos she say b4.
But I am being mean ba. i wan her to rem that she hurt me always so I am not going to be frens with her. I think I am bad.
mi wish u all the best -
Don't worry, it can be natural.... Just don't let it bother you for long....Originally posted by rumie:was at holland village tcc... happily drinking my coffee and reading mag when this girl came up to the counter and started talking to her friend who was working there...
and, omg... she look SO MUCH like my ex. not saying that i dont see girls who resemble her, but this one whom i saw was just so much like her.
i just blurted out to my sister who was beside me: "she looks so much like xxxxxxx. but no, it's not her, cos xxxxxxx doesn't speaks in mandarin."
anyway, after that, i totally lost my mood of staying there... got off and went to another place.
sigh... is this a sign that I haven't let go, or is it normal? i mean, i have a gf now...
and sorry if i'm asking another hopeless and loser-type question here, it was really my first time breaking up with someone in my entire life. -
lol I am the exception then cos I am a girl but I do not want to remain friends with my exesOriginally posted by shaunlaw:Haha. I am just being heartless and hard hearted to her only. LOL. I think most girls will wan to be frens with their ex where possible. My ex also wan to cos she say b4.
But I am being mean ba. i wan her to rem that she hurt me always so I am not going to be frens with her. I think I am bad. -
Haha. Well, it really depends on individual and situation. I think mayb I am the same as u too. LoL.Originally posted by rainee:lol I am the exception then cos I am a girl but I do not want to remain friends with my exes