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i am really in a dilemma. i just went steady with this girl for around a month but i am losing interest in her. i dont feel the same way as i do a month ago. is it better to break up but i am her first boyfriend and i dont want to ruin it for her. sometimes i get irritated by her behavior and stuff does it mean thats the end of it?
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Originally posted by Linksys7:i am really in a dilemma. i just went steady with this girl for around a month but i am losing interest in her. i dont feel the same way as i do a month ago. is it better to break up but i am her first boyfriend and i dont want to ruin it for her. sometimes i get irritated by her behavior and stuff does it mean thats the end of it?
did u go steady with her because u were asked to or did u really liked her?
Anyway....if u really liked her.....u must know how to give and take...thats also a part of good relationship -
you flirtatous bastard, you should've got to know her better in the first place.
how long have you known her before you gus went out? -
Hm... I wonder wats the reason u went stead with her? U really love her or is it just an infatuation that shld not have turn into love? Why are u losing interest?Originally posted by Linksys7:i am really in a dilemma. i just went steady with this girl for around a month but i am losing interest in her. i dont feel the same way as i do a month ago. is it better to break up but i am her first boyfriend and i dont want to ruin it for her. sometimes i get irritated by her behavior and stuff does it mean thats the end of it?
I think u 2 shld sit down and tok it out calmly, if that is really wat u wan. -
obviously you are not mature enough to handle a relationship.
your interest in her lasted only for a month? -
i really liked her in the first place thats why i chased her and stuff but now i am not sure if she is really the one. i only knew her for two weeks before we went steady so i guess i didnt get to know her better. it could have been infatuation
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just asking....how old are you?Originally posted by Linksys7:i really liked her in the first place thats why i chased her and stuff but now i am not sure if she is really the one. i only knew her for two weeks before we went steady so i guess i didnt get to know her better. it could have been infatuation -
i am 17 does it matter?
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Originally posted by Linksys7:i am 17 does it matter? yes....at your age.....ur feelings are mostly puppy love....but...those ppl at 30 still also not mature to tackle such r/s
maybe u should focus on your studies first....maybe its best u 2 be friends and when u 2 have completed ur studies or when u 2 are a bit older, u might consider having a r/s
Cheers
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How can u like a person and lose interest just like that? She did not do anything at all to deserve all these.Originally posted by Linksys7:i really liked her in the first place thats why i chased her and stuff but now i am not sure if she is really the one. i only knew her for two weeks before we went steady so i guess i didnt get to know her better. it could have been infatuation
If u really love a person, u will wan to spend the rest of ur life with her (not just 1 mth and then say lose interest). Even if u duno her well but u really love her, u will get and try to know her better when u are tog. Seems to me that u are missing all these.
Do u know how lucky u are to have somone who u love and love u by ur side?
I think u dun treasure her and is not serious abt love at all. The fact that u are 17 shows me that u cant handle this thing called relationship. Ur way is : U love, U chase, be tog, thats it. Nth more to that for u.
True love shld be: U love, U chase and u wan to spend a long time together.
I can say that u plainly are not serious abt relationships and not sincere abt love at all. I feel sad for the girl but if u dun love her, pls let her go and instead of treating her coldly in future. -
oh ok worth considering but i still got to break up with her right haha. i will feel really bad doing that
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Hey its not a laughing matter. Ur gf put her heart and soul into this rls and now u suddenly tell her u wana break up, how will she feel?Originally posted by Linksys7:oh ok worth considering but i still got to break up with her right haha. i will feel really bad doing that
Do u know u are going to hurt ppl and u can stil laugh?
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ya i realise its my fault this time i will try to do something to salvage this relationship thanks for ur help
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i dun understand....ppl my age nowadays...they can treat it like a game...breaking up to them is like nothing to themOriginally posted by Linksys7:oh ok worth considering but i still got to break up with her right haha. i will feel really bad doing that
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I presume u are the same age as him? Well, how many ppl nowadays understand that love isnt not a game? Dun mention love. Some people even treat frenship as a game.Originally posted by StarPuppy:i dun understand....ppl my age nowadays...they can treat it like a game...breaking up to them is like nothing to them -
i dont treat it like a game u know because thats how i really feel about it. i hate to feel that way i would like to continue liking her. but u cant control ur feelings but i guess i could do something about it. maybe doing something special with her
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If u dun love ppl, dun go and hurt them. Just leave them.Originally posted by Linksys7:i dont treat it like a game u know because thats how i really feel about it. i hate to feel that way i would like to continue liking her. but u cant control ur feelings but i guess i could do something about it. maybe doing something special with her
U are stil not realising u are treating it like a game? Its all abt ur feeling but wat abt hers?
Let me tell u that in this world there is a thing called karma and there is a thing called retribution. If u hurt someone now, someone will come back to hurt u untimately. -
Yes, you should break up with her. It's only a month old relationship, so it's better for you to end it now than dragging it for over a year when the relationship is much stronger than now. At least the pain will be greatly minimised in the pain department.Originally posted by Linksys7:oh ok worth considering but i still got to break up with her right haha. i will feel really bad doing that
Sometimes it's better to let go than holding on to it when you have already lost your feelings for her. In this case, I feel that it's appropriate for you to break up with her as soon as possible so that she's still able to get back to her normal single life without much difficulties.
But I've to say one thing to you, don't jump onto the relationship bandwagon whenever there's a chance. You'll be just wasting away your time and opportunities to meet the right one for you. Treat this as a crush/infatuation and grow out from it.
Best of luck to both of you and both of you will find a better partner in the future than now, someone who is more compatible.
Good luck.
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ok thanks i get wat u mean. i am feeling so lousy now
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try losing her
u`ll feel the pinch then -
My advice: Break up with her now.
Sometimes a fast clean break is better than if u keep lingering on. If u just continue and break up in the distant future, you just end up hurting her more. Well, just break up and remain friends. Who knows, you may 'click' again with her. -
you in love with other gals??? how come you got sick of her ?? is she irritating? think you better act fast to prevent subjecting further pain to her.....wish you luck
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omg. u're pathetic. break up with her, just tell her what you feel as honestly as possible, say that you are not sure so both of you should chill out and continue be good friends.
i tell u, even poly got such things de. pathetic. -
Cool.Originally posted by BaByBoY:try losing her
u`ll feel the pinch then
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He may not. It might become a habit.Originally posted by BaByBoY:try losing her
u`ll feel the pinch then