Are girls born Angry???
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I can't finger it out. No matter how careful I try to be when talking to her I often ends up making her annoyed?
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How is she related to you?Originally posted by pete98:I can't finger it out. No matter how careful I try to be when talking to her I often ends up making her annoyed? -
Probably.Originally posted by pete98:I can't finger it out. No matter how careful I try to be when talking to her I often ends up making her annoyed?
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haha.
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how do you finger out if gals are angry always???
anyway, i am tempted to say that girls are actually born vicious and abominable. just to scare guys off, but well, this is AA, so i shall give my sincerest comments.
if your gal keeps "getting angry", it may just mean you're (i'm sorry to say this, but no ofence ok dude?) thick. you don't get her SIGNALs, and keeps saying things that she don't wanna hear, or dun say the things she wanna hear.. thats why she's pek cek with you lah...
on the other hand, if you see she's always angry with other people, not you only, it may just mean she's really born vicious and abominable. in which case, get yourself a couple of beers, and a new gal.
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NO we are not born resentful! and angry !! we are just easily annoyed by the silly acts of boys/ man
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woo..
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Hmmm.........
not all gals are like that
well gals want guys to be
entertaining yet not childish (i.e mature)
protective yet accomodating and giving in
and the list goes on...
They says gal are more mature than guys
However thats not always true
Some gals (no offense) are really plain "small gas"
Small little matter, they want to blow it up
Some are damn dominent, and always insist they are right all the times
No routes for compromise. She wld want a straight cut you-win or I-win,
in situations like this.
Under such circumstances, Guy usually do not wish to deteriorate it further.
Either act blur, give in or change topic.
You Act blur, You become insensitive
You give in, You become wimpy and boost her "Experience points" for the next battle
you change topic, you become elusive. And you are automatically sentenced 'GUILTY', they PBan you (permanently ban)
Lolx... am i right?
i kanna all these before, so i know -
if i were u, i'd choose to act blur right now.Originally posted by OldAhPek:Hmmm.........
not all gals are like that
well gals want guys to be
entertaining yet not childish (i.e mature)
protective yet accomodating and giving in
and the list goes on...
They says gal are more mature than guys
However thats not always true
Some gals (no offense) are really plain "small gas"
Small little matter, they want to blow it up
Some are damn dominent, and always insist they are right all the times
No routes for compromise. She wld want a straight cut you-win or I-win,
in situations like this.
Under such circumstances, Guy usually do not wish to deteriorate it further.
Either act blur, give in or change topic.
You Act blur, You become insensitive
You give in, You become wimpy and boost her "Experience points" for the next battle
you change topic, you become elusive. And you are automatically sentenced 'GUILTY', they PBan you (permanently ban)
Lolx... am i right?
i kanna all these before, so i know sum gals here will definitely kpkb about it. -
are guys born grouchy?? y do we seem to find it easier to swear??Originally posted by pete98:I can't finger it out. No matter how careful I try to be when talking to her I often ends up making her annoyed?
come on, give the gals a break.. y generalize? anyway, itz been said that they are more emotional, so even if they get angry easily, so be it... we love them all the same... dun u? -
hehehe the mystery of women, welcome to the clubOriginally posted by pete98:I can't finger it out. No matter how careful I try to be when talking to her I often ends up making her annoyed?
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yeah... i love the way you say it.. same for us gals wad. you guys are such tough nuts to crack. but we still love you all the same...Originally posted by mercurialz:are guys born grouchy?? y do we seem to find it easier to swear??
come on, give the gals a break.. y generalize? anyway, itz been said that they are more emotional, so even if they get angry easily, so be it... we love them all the same... dun u? -
thanks baby.
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you thanking me dude?Originally posted by thinger:thanks baby. -
Ouch..Originally posted by starblue:you thanking me dude? -
i dun see where the ouch came from...Originally posted by LazerLordz:Ouch.. -
Originally posted by pete98:I can't finger it out. No matter how careful I try to be when talking to her I often ends up making her annoyed?
It seemed more like your problem than hers. (Unless you are telling me that every other girl is on good/decent relationship with you, except her).
I think she is technically not an angry person, more like PMS-kinda behaviour towards you. It would be kinda worst if you are the dumb-dumb-insensitive type of guys who can't even penetrate level one mindset of women in generally and if she belongs to Cancer, Scorpio or Pisces.
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well, our nuts are quite tough too.Originally posted by starblue:i dun see where the ouch came from... -
ooh.
definitely ouch. -
ooh.
definitely ouch. -
ooh.
definitely ouch. -
thats because she is exercising her dominant role through emotional malaise.Originally posted by pete98:I can't finger it out. No matter how careful I try to be when talking to her I often ends up making her annoyed?
An informed decision would be to observe the rules of nonviolence.
An authority (her) suppresses a niche group (you) by the use of policing entities or localised power of punishment (her anger).
This is where the magic of nonviolence happens.
There must be a tandem of 2 parties at least for the circle to continue, by withdrawing group's co-oporation from the set, the power relations are reversed as the authority would have to react to compensate for that vacuum.
So the next time she gets angry with you, withdraw peacefully and cordialy. Gandhi, the parihaka and so many others before have proven this to be true.
p.s it could also backfire, gandhi died in the end. The parihaka were colonised brutally before it worked.
p.p.s where the heck is all this crap coming from. -
ooh.
definitely ouch. -
Hi, my first post here. Hope i may be of some help.
Hey maybe we give this guy some breathing space.. think he's frustrated enough over his situation.. There are prominent bad points about guys and a totally different set for the ladies.. While its trilling to flame this guy here, its not necessary.. Sure does not mean that the older u r the more informed choices u make. And no, girls are not born angry. I see more of character differences in yr problem and would advise u to let her know the way u feel. Have a talk with her to see if the situation can be salvaged. But only if u wnt to. Seems to me tat its better if the two of u go yr separate ways. Useful advise has already been well defined by other forum mates.. I feel its already enough for u to take action and stop waiting for the best advise if u already noe wat u should do. For romantics out there, Sorry cuz in his case his heart is already not where it should be. And for those who are flaming him as immature, pls give him some space as he doesn't want this to happen either. We know not even 10% of his life for us to judge his charater.. so please less scolding, more advise..
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advice is spelt with a "C"
"please advise him to do something" is spelt with an "S"
but welcome. =)