Love... Feeling Lost...
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Well.. I'm Currently With A Girl.. CAll Her A Ba... My relationship With A Was Filled With ups and Downs... and Actually WE Broke up B4.. BUt we Patched But my Feeling for her Wasn't there after the patching already.. it was More Of a Sympathy TIng that i patch with her.. AFter we broke SHe was Like crying everyday(her Frens told me).. REason for Breaking up was because i liked her best fren.. blahblah.. But i still patched with her cause i didn't wan to see her like that.. Like i cause all this... Well.. recently.. i'm starting to feel that.. MY feeling for her wasn't there since we patched.. wad sld i do.. I'm so confuse..
Then recently theres this gurl B that came into my life.. Well actually I known her for 2 yrs already.. but Only Starting to talk LIke everyday recently.. i TInk that i like her.. I wonder if its the same for her.. haix.. i'm so confuse.. -
i would luv to switch the alarm clock volume to max and put it next to ur head... HELLO!! WAKE UP WITH UR IDEA...
like means like, dun like means dun like.. as guy, u drag n drag n drag n drag n drag n drag n drag n drag the r/s like itz a tonne of sand and mud tied to ur ankles... u already know u dun hv feelings for her liaoz n u still drag n drag n drag n drag n drag n drag n drag n drag n drag n drag... pls dun complicate ur life as this is really not a big issue...
n i wonder if u r juz worried that u dun have a galfren to go out with on wkends...
tks very much... and pls type properly... either u type in all caps, or type in small letters... tks for being considerate...
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ya know.. it's precisely this kinda guy who gets on my nerves... you dun like the gal but you're toying with her feelings (sympathy is not an excuse). swell... super swell.. you go ahead man, retribution be upon you.
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wow.. i get flamed for posting my problems wad a good forum..
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and oh ya.. i wasn't playing with her feeling i just dun wan to see anione sad because of me ok.. i'll feel bad..
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i dun "flame" pple... i hvnt even started to do it...Originally posted by Psychedelic.Violence:wow.. i get flamed for posting my problems wad a good forum..
anyway, back to u... the thing is that u r obviously not interested in the gal wat, or rather, ur feelings for her are waning... so isnt it obvious that u shld put a stop to it? wat's holding u back?
if u can even put a finger to wat's holding u back with substantial reason, then u wun attract this kind of treatment from us mah... u only said (paraphrased) "i dun like A coz got B in my life, but dunno if want to go after B, but i also want A at the moment"... blah blah... how u expect us to feel 4 u man?????
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n so wat gd does it do when u drag n drag n drag n drag n drag n drag this?? n hv u ever thot of making clear to her... and u even got her best fren involved when u hvnt cleared this currently mess up... look how messy it becomes when u drag n drag n drag n drag??Originally posted by Psychedelic.Violence:and oh ya.. i was playing with her feeling i just dun wan to see anione sad because of me ok.. i'll feel bad..
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ok.. i summarise better.. First prob: SL:d i Break with my stead.. i got no more feelings for her.. but i dun wanna cause her to be upset or wad.. tho i noe its not possbile..
second sld i go after b after i broke up with A? WOuld i be doing aniting Wrong??
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sue me.Originally posted by Psychedelic.Violence:wow.. i get flamed for posting my problems wad a good forum..
quit playing games with her heart. let her cry over the breakup. she'll get over it in no time. dun stay in a r/s cos u scared the gal will be sad. utter rubbish. -
hmm... sounds like i sld break up as soon as possible?
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of cos, utter rubbish.Originally posted by Psychedelic.Violence:hmm... sounds like i sld break up as soon as possible?
and pursue your B all you like you heartless piece of sht. you know nothing about r/s Ashol. -
i kinda hv this impression that B is A's best fren...Originally posted by Psychedelic.Violence:ok.. i summarise better.. First prob: SL:d i Break with my stead.. i got no more feelings for her.. but i dun wanna cause her to be upset or wad.. tho i noe its not possbile..
second sld i go after b after i broke up with A? WOuld i be doing aniting Wrong??
simple and easy..
firstly, u already ought to have a clean break when u did it the first time... it's both ur responsibilities not to break up "in a moment of anger" when either of u dun really want it... ur r/s with her already has a permanent scar from that time, n u made it worse now by patching up... from a VERY subjective and personal point of view, u really ought to break up, n break up CLEANLY if u r sure u have NO MORE feelings for A...
as to whether u go aft B, if my impression is correctly, it's ur own decision coz i feel that u have put urself in such a predicament where u cld have avoided.. there's no rite or wrong, but from a VERY subjective and personal point of view, itz quite atrocious to know that "my ex went aft my best fren immediately aft dumping me"... i dun have to spell everything out rite?
to me, the only thing u did wrong is to drag n drag n drag n drag n drag n drag n drag the prob... the longer u drag, the more painful it is for the gal...
u really need to think hard, n act fast... gd luck..
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Cool down ppl...
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THankyou mercurial for ur advices.. and thank you starblue for ur bullshits.. ^^
Btw B is not A's best fren.. even if i broke up with A i wun go after B i tink.. Perhaps i can give myself some times to do other stuffs.. -
lol.. we are all very cool pple... cooling day isnt it? like i have said, i aint flaming anyone, yet...Originally posted by Devil1976:Cool down ppl... 
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no opinions for your affair, just wanna say, have a nice day.Originally posted by Psychedelic.Violence:THankyou mercurial for ur advices.. and thank you starblue for ur bullshits.. ^^
Btw B is not A's best fren.. even if i broke up with A i wun go after B i tink.. Perhaps i can give myself some times to do other stuffs.. -
you're welcome.. anytime you itch for more, just post more stuff saying how you toyed with gals' feelings ok??Originally posted by Psychedelic.Violence:THankyou mercurial for ur advices.. and thank you starblue for ur bullshits.. ^^
Btw B is not A's best fren.. even if i broke up with A i wun go after B i tink.. Perhaps i can give myself some times to do other stuffs.. -
lol..Originally posted by starblue:you're welcome.. anytime you itch for more, just post more stuff saying how you toyed with gals' feelings ok?? ... i think the mod's advice to cool it was meant for u.. lol... 
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interesting to watch.Originally posted by Devil1976:Cool down ppl... -
Tmd, took my seat.Originally posted by M©+square:interesting to watch.
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Can sit on my lappie mah.Originally posted by Yunhaier:Tmd, took my seat.
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let me predict the ending .
You will break up with A cos u do not like her.
You will not go after B cos she is more like a friend to you but not a lover.
My advice take neither one of them cos from wat I see u are not really in love with anyone.
Try to spend more time finding the rite one then you will not waste your life with these 2 gals. -
ERR, JUST BREAK UP! AND GO FOR HER BEST FRIEND!
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Love is not sympathy.
If u dun even feel for her, then break ba. Chang tong bu ru duan tong. Since u dun like her, why waste her time and youth? Moreover, u are very clear that u like her best fren. But then if she knows that u like her best fren, will break her heart even more. -
Sorry u r not a love sage, u can never make happy her now. Yes, u dun wan to see her sad but u will make her more sad over the time.Originally posted by Psychedelic.Violence:and oh ya.. i wasn't playing with her feeling i just dun wan to see anione sad because of me ok.. i'll feel bad..
So ru going to say u will be attached to her for now, tot of 2 timed her when u like other girls?