Originally posted by BaByBoY:haha
bbb u grew up le!!
lucky u say u don agree to that part only
keke
cheers and haf a nice day
What for hate her? She say she likes you but never indicate that she wanted to be with you nor did she imply that she wants you to leave your gf. In fact, everything was your own decision.Originally posted by Mystry:This is my story. A few years ago, I was in a relationship with Miss A. During this time, I got to know Miss B and she was a very fun and attractive girl. Did not feel anything much but slowly B got quite close to me and she confessed she liked me and I eventually broke up with A to try to be with B. I do admit that I was wrong but I didn't really loved A at that time. It was kind of a sudden relationship. B was the kind of "perfect" girl I had in my mind. I tried going after B after I broke up and B protested saying she didn't want to be the a third party. I spent much effort and time chasing her and although she admits she liked me, she did not accept me. In the end she went back to her ex-bf. I hated her for it. It was like being betrayed when all the things I did was because of her. After all this, my reputation suffered and my confidence dropped. And until now whenever I think back, the sense of hatred lingers in me yet I still treasure the happier times together. Until now I think that I am useless and have nothing to offer anymore. I also feel that every girl wants something out of guys be it money or looks. And there are so many guys outside who are so much better. Why would anyone want someone like me? I dun understand why other guys look so normal also can have gf. Pple may not know but I am those kind who live and die for love. Materials are secondary to me but not love.
cant agreed more on this....Originally posted by axlrose22:"I dun understand why other guys look so normal also can have gf."
Man this is one inflammatory statement.
a) Normal guys don't deserve girlfriends because of their looks?
B) You're saying you'e good looking! Man, that's just being plain self-centered.
c) Girls only go for abnormal people?
d) Personality plays no part whatsoever in a girl's choice of a boyfriend.
e) Normal looking guys sucks.
jeez.
1. Just concentrate on yourself for the moment and stop thinking about GIRLS. Spend some time for yourself, on your own, do some self reflection and assessment for your own sake. not anyone else. Self confidence is for your own sake, not to impress other people.Originally posted by Mystry:ok i was wrong but what do i do to rid myself of my guilt and hatred?Both A and B have happily moved on with their lives. But because of this, i lost my self-confidence and whenever I see people especially girls, I always have this idea that they can read my mind and always suspicious of my actions. For example, I try to be nice aand humourous, somehow I feel they think I have a motive and they think I am immature. And i tot girls like to be humoured.And because of that I will try to distant myself from them.
Do it slow... Maybe just 1 or 2 to start with...? And probably not so much in depth as you get to know more... There're bound to be 'nice' and 'bad' people out there, and a certain level of ugliness in each one of us...Originally posted by Mystry:Nice advise. Thanks a lot. Sometimes I wonder if I have truly screwed up my life. Sometimes see others so many friends I felt that I should be like them but I screwed up. I dunno why I always try to reject pple or deny pple although deep inside I want to be friends with them. It's like a monster inside me that is always going against my true wishes.
resist the devil and he will flee from you. take care sister. or brother, whichever.Originally posted by Mystry:Nice advise. Thanks a lot. Sometimes I wonder if I have truly screwed up my life. Sometimes see others so many friends I felt that I should be like them but I screwed up. I dunno why I always try to reject pple or deny pple although deep inside I want to be friends with them. It's like a monster inside me that is always going against my true wishes.
bro, no need to rid yourself of guilt, who no guilt. Your ex is happy now. so try to leave her alone, that is the best way to repay your guilt. unless you know she is not happy, then you wait quietly for her to breakup, don be the 3rd party now.Originally posted by Mystry:ok i was wrong but what do i do to rid myself of my guilt and hatred?Both A and B have happily moved on with their lives. But because of this, i lost my self-confidence and whenever I see people especially girls.