I'm loss..........
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hi minasan, i'm quite new to tis forum. therez sum probs tat require ya help.
pls dun mistaken tat i'm jap. i'm a pure s'porean
here goes the story:
i know tis gal thru' my colleague during an outing in spore & she's a nihonjin(jap). her hometown is at west part of jap & i hv worked there b4 for 6mths.
at tat time, i juz treat her as a friend & seldom do i call/sms her. 1 fine day, i suddenly received her sms
, telling mi tat she not feeling well. so i juz replied her back whether she already see the doc etc....
finally, i asked her out for a movie but end up shopping for the whole day. from there on, we hv been going out for few mths. day passes very fast, i developed a liking towards her & her image gradually starts to appear in my head... i juz dunno know mention it.
so to clear my doubts, i hinted to her whether r we possible to develop a relationship. she replied to mi tat she dunno & need time to think abt it but she told mi she likes mi very much... also, she never said she will reject me.
so now, wat i should do.......
persistent on tis relaionship or..... juz treat her as a friend....
pls kindly give mi ur advises.
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Go along with your heart.Originally posted by Ultraking:hi minasan, i'm quite new to tis forum. therez sum probs tat require ya help.
here goes the story:
i know tis gal thru' my colleague during an outing in spore & she's a nihonjin(jap). her hometown is at west part of jap & i hv worked there b4 for 6mths.
at tat time, i juz treat her as a friend & seldom do i call/sms her. 1 fine day, i suddenly received her sms, telling mi tat she not feeling well. so i juz replied her back whether she already see the doc etc....
finally, i asked her out for a movie but end up shopping for the whole day. from there on, we hv been going out for few mths. day passes very fast, i developed a liking towards her & her image gradually starts to appear in my head... i juz dunno know mention it.
so to clear my doubts, i hinted to her whether r we possible to develop a relationship. she replied to mi tat she dunno & need time to think abt it but she told mi she likes mi very much... also, she never said she will reject me.
so now, wat i should do.......
persistent on tis relaionship or..... juz treat her as a friend....
pls give mi ur advises. -
Well, I guess you have to be a gentleman and let her think about it first....
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of coz, i'll let her think. problem is tat.... she's very beautiful.Originally posted by ILPSY:Well, I guess you have to be a gentleman and let her think about it first....
(franlkly speaking, i'm not tat handsum of tall.)
too me, i can say she is my no. 1 in heart.
if i dun hint to her, i'll regret for my life if she taken away by sumbdy...
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maybe she is only being polite by saying she likes you too but needs more time?
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thanks 4 ur advise and i know wat i should do.Originally posted by shaunlaw:Go along with your heart.
there is a saying "if there is a will, there is a way".
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WTF.Originally posted by Ultraking:hi minasan, i'm quite new to tis forum. therez sum probs tat require ya help.
pls dun mistaken tat i'm jap. i'm a pure s'porean
here goes the story:
i know tis gal thru' my colleague during an outing in spore & she's a nihonjin(jap). her hometown is at west part of jap & i hv worked there b4 for 6mths.
at tat time, i juz treat her as a friend & seldom do i call/sms her. 1 fine day, i suddenly received her sms, telling mi tat she not feeling well. so i juz replied her back whether she already see the doc etc....
finally, i asked her out for a movie but end up shopping for the whole day. from there on, we hv been going out for few mths. day passes very fast, i developed a liking towards her & her image gradually starts to appear in my head... i juz dunno know mention it.
so to clear my doubts, i hinted to her whether r we possible to develop a relationship. she replied to mi tat she dunno & need time to think abt it but she told mi she likes mi very much... also, she never said she will reject me.
so now, wat i should do.......
persistent on tis relaionship or..... juz treat her as a friend....
pls kindly give mi ur advises.
get a brain dude, do you actually need us to tell you what to do? you were the one who asked for the relationship, and now she didn't reject you, don't tell me you're gonna back off...?! -
hopefully, tis is wat she has meant.Originally posted by Ito_^:maybe she is only being polite by saying she likes you too but needs more time?
u know...both of us can get along very easily as compared to others, becoz i can understand & speak sum of her language. we can even talk for few hours. -
i have a japanese gf. I just went for it. So whats stopping you?
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yap, i'm the 1 who asked 4 relationship. but the way she said to me, make me confused... so i juz wanna to get opinion from ya. anway, i hv make up my mind to continue not until my last breath.Originally posted by tut4nkh4m3n:WTF.
get a brain dude, do you actually need us to tell you what to do? you were the one who asked for the relationship, and now she didn't reject you, don't tell me you're gonna back off...?! -
im confused..is english ur 1st language?Originally posted by Ultraking:yap, i'm the 1 who asked 4 relationship. but the way she said to me, make me confused... so i juz wanna to get opinion from ya. anway, i hv make up my mind to continue not until my last breath. -
ASK THE "SEIREI NO OU" FOR HELP!!!
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so, ur gf is from which part of jap.Originally posted by Pion:i have a japanese gf. I just went for it. So whats stopping you?
nothings is in my way... juz that i have to make myself be more confidence. i think there are alot of guys after her that including my colleagues. -
chio? post her pictures
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of coz.Originally posted by Pion:im confused..is english ur 1st language?
sorry, i hv mix-up with my nihongo.
anyway, i'll not back off.....not until my last breath -
Kagawa...famous for udonsOriginally posted by Ultraking:so, ur gf is from which part of jap.
nothings is in my way... juz that i have to make myself be more confidence. i think there are alot of guys after her that including my colleagues.
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wakata.Originally posted by shade343:ASK THE "SEIREI NO OU" FOR HELP!!! -
soo ka.Originally posted by Pion:Kagawa...famous for udons
where is ur crush frm?
my 1 frm tottori...nothing special -
majite?
i ask my gf wats that place is special 4 2mrw then -
Originally posted by Ultraking:
"If men knew all that women think,
but the way she said to me, make me confused... so i juz wanna to get opinion from ya. anway, i hv make up my mind to continue not until my last breath.
they'd be twenty times more daring."
- Alphonse Karr
Don't want to rain on your parade, but here's a word of caution: The Japanese consider it impolite to say "no" and reject people bluntly. They are masters of subtlety when it comes to rejection. Besides, it is possible this lady is probably feeling lonely in a foreign land and needed some companionship from a friend, that's all.
On a positive note, women being women, it is never easy to fathom what they are really thinking. And while she has not yet readily said the word "yes", from your description her signals so far didn't seem to indicate a possible negative outcome, so strive on.
Do you know how the Japanese write "ganbatte" in kanji? Yes, be that. -
sorry, i can'tOriginally posted by SMAPLionHeart:chio? post her pictures
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quite disappointed rite, dun u? -
doozo.Originally posted by Pion:majite?
i ask my gf wats that place is special 4 2mrw then -
zenzen wakata.Originally posted by Tuatau:"If men knew all that women think,
they'd be twenty times more daring."
- Alphonse Karr
Don't want to rain on your parade, but here's a word of caution: The Japanese consider it impolite to say "no" and reject people bluntly. They are masters of subtlety when it comes to rejection. Besides, it is possible this lady is probably feeling lonely in a foreign land and needed some companionship from a friend, that's all.
On a positive note, women being women, it is never easy to fathom what they are really thinking. And while she has not yet readily said the word "yes", from your description her signals so far didn't seem to indicate a possible negative outcome, so strive on.
Do you know how the Japanese write "ganbatte" in kanji? Yes, be that. -
f.uck man...have you ever seen those japanese av videos???
listen to me...japanese girls like to be f.ucked...in all positions...anally, frontally, backdoor, frontdoor...you name it...
so go ahead...lose your sillypore inhibitions...ask her for a f.uck...no wait...don't bother...just go ahead & rape her...you don't have to worry about her feelngs...after all what happened to the chinese & korean comfort women in 1941-1945 you can safely rape any japanese girl without worry...