I do agree with your gf. When she tells you that it doesn't really matters to her, you should listen and believe her. And that's the truth, it's really insignificant. So don't get frustrated over it. I understand you have your own standards and principles that you would like to fulfill, but it doesn't really matters at all to girls...trust me on that.Originally posted by tommylee:I asked my girlfriend earlier during a chat to ask if i was tactless to her....
And her merely told me whether i am or not doesnt matter to her....
But what i want to know if im really tactless...
I always assume that i am not....
And many of my friends assured me too..
I had always do the right time to do what and not to do what....
And i had show concern when she's upset or not feeling well....
And i had always give in whenever we quarrel..
So someone tell me if im really being tactless?
And im really vexed..
Please dont post 'funny' replies....
you should advise him to chop off his manhood for being so gay to his gf...Originally posted by parn:I do agree with your gf. When she tells you that it doesn't really matters to her, you should listen and believe her. And that's the truth, it's really insignificant. So don't get frustrated over it. I understand you have your own standards and principles that you would like to fulfill, but it doesn't really matters at all to girls...trust me on that.
Relationship is not really about performance and there is no exams for it. Very often, guys would love to live up to their own expectations and they assumed that is the very expectations that their gf wanted. But it wasn't true at all, girls had better and realistic expectations of their bf.
So stop dwelling on it, you should be doing fine if you are able to constantly monitor your own performance in the relationship. However I would strongly advise you to stop monitoring your own performance in the relationship. Instead, please focus your attention to your gf whenever she may needs it.
Oh...and please stop bugging her about your performance before it gets on her nerves.
Good luck.
cos she loves him no matter wad?Originally posted by dragg:beats it!!! why is it not important to the girlfriend if the boyfriend is tactless or not?
no wonder i am not attached.Originally posted by starblue:cos she loves him no matter wad?![]()
seriously, i think parn has a good point. don't force yourself to live up to your own expectation in a r/s. cos chances are, it's not wad gals are looking for. hell, you may not realise how much that sandwich you bought for her on your way to school means to her but she may feel like you're the most charming sandwich bearer there ever is.... as long as you see she's happy, you're a good bf.![]()
Don't even know what's happening between you and your gf, how to comment....?Originally posted by tommylee:I asked my girlfriend earlier during a chat to ask if i was tactless to her....
And her merely told me whether i am or not doesnt matter to her....
But what i want to know if im really tactless...
I always assume that i am not....
And many of my friends assured me too..
I had always do the right time to do what and not to do what....
And i had show concern when she's upset or not feeling well....
And i had always give in whenever we quarrel..
So someone tell me if im really being tactless?
And im really vexed..
Please dont post 'funny' replies....