How to kick-start love life?
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Hey guys, this is my first thread in AA. I need a bit of help regarding my love life.
I am a third & final year student at an Australian University and am staying on campus. Lately, a fellow student and church member (new student of Latvian stock) has caught my attention and I hope to win her heart. She also stays on campus, but in another flat. Her flat mate is on our religious community's mailing list and so am I. I have told her flat mate through email that I am interested in the Latvian. Is this an acceptable move? I merely wanted the MSN of this Latvian student as I am a bit uneasy revealing my deepest feelings face to face.
It will not be the first time I will be telling someone over MSN I am interested in her. Tried it before but unfortunately the other party was attached. This was somebody from my creative writing tutorial.
Any words of advice on what I should do next?
Side note, if anyone is thinking of immigrating to Oz, it isn't the best time. The economy seems to be slowing down. -
I feel afraid for the girl whom you refer to as "stock".
Very afraid.
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wat idiot...Originally posted by charlize:I feel afraid for the girl whom you refer to as "stock".
Very afraid. -
grow some guts will you? i get pissed when guys like me and then play that i'm your secret admirer game after they got my number from a friend of a friend of a friend of a friend... -_-" go straight to the point dude.
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then you will shout at him to "GET LOST LAH".Originally posted by starblue:grow some guts will you? i get pissed when guys like me and then play that i'm your secret admirer game after they got my number from a friend of a friend of a friend of a friend... -_-" go straight to the point dude.
actually guys scare being rejected. -
go ahead and try cos girls do not like wimps as their bf.
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Well, she & I do not know each other that well yet. I have no wish to scare her and ruin all chances of friendship.Originally posted by drx:go ahead and try cos girls do not like wimps as their bf.
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Scary....Originally posted by starblue:grow some guts will you? i get pissed when guys like me and then play that i'm your secret admirer game after they got my number from a friend of a friend of a friend of a friend... -_-" go straight to the point dude.
Let's see.....peharps you shall find more abit more her, whether she's attached and stuff like that first. MSN is not a bad choice, try to search for common grounds to know her better....
P.S: "Stock" not a good word. ' -
Well, I have gathered so far that she reads JK Rowling and is lacto-ovo vegatarian. Surprised to learn recently that she and I are 6 years apart.Originally posted by CoolMyth:Scary....
Let's see.....peharps you shall find more abit more her, whether she's attached and stuff like that first. MSN is not a bad choice, try to search for common grounds to know her better....
P.S: "Stock" not a good word. ' 
"Stock" in the first post meant descent. -
You can dress like Harry Potter and see how....Originally posted by iveco:Well, I have gathered so far that she reads JK Rowling and is lacto-ovo vegatarian. Surprised to learn recently that she and I are 6 years apart.
"Stock" in the first post meant descent.
AFAIK, Europeans gals are more direct and won't really play mind games to tease the guy in this kind of stuff. Even if they reject you, they won't make you feel so bad like what some local gals can do. So, do the same thing, be direct, don't beat around the bush and hope for the best.
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which is why u should aim for friendship first before you start telling her how much you like her.Originally posted by iveco:Well, she & I do not know each other that well yet. I have no wish to scare her and ruin all chances of friendship.
becos when you know her who knows? u might change ur mind. -
erm, telling her u like her now is too fast liao... since u havent noe each other well enuff... jz go date her first then progress from there... gd luck...Originally posted by iveco:Hey guys, this is my first thread in AA. I need a bit of help regarding my love life.
I am a third & final year student at an Australian University and am staying on campus. Lately, a fellow student and church member (new student of Latvian stock) has caught my attention and I hope to win her heart. She also stays on campus, but in another flat. Her flat mate is on our religious community's mailing list and so am I. I have told her flat mate through email that I am interested in the Latvian. Is this an acceptable move? I merely wanted the MSN of this Latvian student as I am a bit uneasy revealing my deepest feelings face to face.
It will not be the first time I will be telling someone over MSN I am interested in her. Tried it before but unfortunately the other party was attached. This was somebody from my creative writing tutorial.
Any words of advice on what I should do next?
Side note, if anyone is thinking of immigrating to Oz, it isn't the best time. The economy seems to be slowing down.
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I would have given him this advice but knowing me, he would have thought I was screwing with his head.Originally posted by CoolMyth:You can dress like Harry Potter and see how.... -
i cannot give you any good advise since i am also very shy shy type.Originally posted by iveco:Well, she & I do not know each other that well yet. I have no wish to scare her and ruin all chances of friendship. 
anyway good luck to you! -
For a start, ::marketing mode::Originally posted by iveco:Hey guys, this is my first thread in AA. I need a bit of help regarding my love life.
I am a third & final year student at an Australian University and am staying on campus. Lately, a fellow student and church member (new student of Latvian stock) has caught my attention and I hope to win her heart. She also stays on campus, but in another flat. Her flat mate is on our religious community's mailing list and so am I. I have told her flat mate through email that I am interested in the Latvian. Is this an acceptable move? I merely wanted the MSN of this Latvian student as I am a bit uneasy revealing my deepest feelings face to face.
It will not be the first time I will be telling someone over MSN I am interested in her. Tried it before but unfortunately the other party was attached. This was somebody from my creative writing tutorial.
Any words of advice on what I should do next?
Side note, if anyone is thinking of immigrating to Oz, it isn't the best time. The economy seems to be slowing down.
Initiating to her your interest in her is a right move - but not to scare her away by telling her you love her(keep your deepest feelings in the safe)
How would you feel if out of nowhere, a girl comes up to you one day and tell you she has a strong liking towards you.
My guess is, you'll freak out and stay away.
That's not the way we should approach mentioned above.
Attention - You can introduce yourself, thru MSN or face to face ; i feel that letter writing is the lost art of communication, it should be interesting but keep it short and enticing.
You mentioned she likes reading:fantasy genre?
I guess she's a book person and prefer reading good writings.
Say something or write in a way which could grab her attention.
If she's receptive, good for you. If she's not, find out why rather than feeling like a loser and walk away rejected. (You're not rejected unless she walk away from you without ending off positively)
Desire - It is good to express your intention to - know her better/you admire her/ positive relationship. Pls say it indirectly...girls take subtle hints and they know what is going on.
Be controlled and discipline, don't go crazy over her for goodness sake.
Anyway, she'll appreciate if you display your honesty.
Cont....
Personal advice:
You cared too much about your success. Or should i say your past 'failure' seemed to cripple you from advancing.
If you'll learn not to care so much and just do it.
Remember, you haven't got what you didn't start. There is nothing to lose.
You may perform better than the former.
Further questions:
What else do you notice about her?
Dress sense
Make up?
Personality
Activities in school?
Religous?
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MCSq: I have seen her attending the same church as I on a few occasions. Her dress sense is subtle, like mine. I have tried to use our church group home gatherings as a platform to know her better, but to no avail. She was busy on both occasions, if not I could have met up with her and gone to our hosts' place together.
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does she looks like bonnie wright?
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Originally posted by Pion:does she looks like bonnie wright? Of course not. What makes you say that?
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Yeah. But it'll be wise to get a little closer and have some level of 'aquaintance' before any move....Originally posted by CoolMyth:AFAIK, Europeans gals are more direct and won't really play mind games to tease the guy in this kind of stuff. Even if they reject you, they won't make you feel so bad like what some local gals can do. So, do the same thing, be direct, don't beat around the bush and hope for the best. -
wahOriginally posted by 798:then you will shout at him to "GET LOST LAH".
actually guys scare being rejected.
tt`s really true sia
wat happens if it becomes like tt??
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give her some Mothballz.
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tell her you like shagging italian buses exhaust pipes but now would like to switch your attention to putting your willy into latvian buses exhaust pipes...
does she look anything like maria sharapova?
there's always the option of putting her finger in your arse, you arsehole...
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Woah... relax!!!Originally posted by starblue:grow some guts will you? i get pissed when guys like me and then play that i'm your secret admirer game after they got my number from a friend of a friend of a friend of a friend... -_-" go straight to the point dude.
P.S: Are you Aries, Leo or Sagittarius?
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