Originally posted by Mystry:
how to deal with rejection? I am so afraid of rejection that I would rather not ask and be alone than ask and be rejected. Does rejection mean that the person dun fancy your company or perhaps you as a person?
I presume u are refering to love rejections?
If that is the case, I would suggest u really try getting used to rejection. Diff ppl has diff wats of dealing with rejection.
In terms of love, there are also alot of reasons for people to reject u. But one main reason stays, that reason is at the moment of rejection, that person does not love u. (Being not ready to love u is also the same as do not love u at that point.)
It will depend on what u do after rejection or ur character that makes a person dun fancy ur company. If ppl reject u and u stil haunt her, of cos u will be dreaded as a not so welcomed person.
If u cant handle rejection, how are u going to get on with life? WE face alot of rejection in many areas: in jobs, in sch, in love, at home, etc. Deal with it as part and parcel of life. I have been rejected a few times ( in terms of love).
If u dun have the courage to ask, and face the music, u are going to be alone forever. Of cos other factor comes into play as well. Its not bcos u ask then the other person got to like u, got to give u reply, etc.
Learn to deal with it. Like others say: its part of life.