wat shld i do??
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i met tis ger and teased her tat i like her... in fact actually i do. She played along wif mi... And we were teased by our frds... Problem is i dunno if she is into mi... hw do i test her to c if she is interested in mi??? Hope i can hear some gd advice... thx
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i also wanna know!! lol same situations.
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Very simple, you go kiss her on the lips. See if she rejects you, if not then she likes you lo
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Woah! this is one test off the movie/TV screen.Originally posted by Wolfwoof^^:Very simple, you go kiss her on the lips. See if she rejects you, if not then she likes you lo
Ask her out for a date lah. 1x, 2x, 3x, you'll know.
And don't hide your fears under clownish behaviour while dating. -
mayb during 1 fine day while u r halfway teasing .. then change to a serious tone saying tat u do like her .. see her reaction lor .. erm .. if she likes u then u shld have good times ahead .. if she really jus playing along .. she might start to avoid u as such .. no risk no gain .. bla bla .. try ur luck
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touch her casually. see if she flinches.
unless she's the touchy sort, if not you'll know... -
Hello everywhere,
I do haf a few suggestions for you, but they haf to be used on suitable occasion and perhaps on the correct person???
1: Seduce them ( mentally thou )
Get one of ur common fren who`s `on ur side`, get him to tell her that he tinks u like her, see wat`s the condition like
2: Franky panky
Tell her that you like her, not in a funny way that you usually do, but w a tone that`s rather serious, and wat would be best is that when u all are alone w each other and in a rather romantic setting
3: Dangling bait
You can also try to `date her`, as in ask her out for normal show and do things that will `say` ur feelings. eg send her home, buy her litle gifts, extra `care` SMSs etc etc, thing u won do normally for a fren, get her thoughts wild..
if i come out w more ideas i`ll update here,
seriously u need me to list out the positive body signals too???
if u`re more serious into knowing wat her body language means, u can go to library and popular to get up some books pertaining boday languages,
PS. it`s best if u can get the book on the art of seduction.. i browsed thro a few pages last time, some of the points are rather useful in ur case of ambigous love -
i guess the best method is to date her out several times...
One is to check out aby her feeling to you.. another is to check out her character as well to see if she suit you really...
Of course she will be checking you out as well on your character and gentleman gestures...
Finally maybe if you feel very comfortable with her , then ask her to be your gf lo... at least to her, she feel that you make attempts to chase her sincerely and consider carefully before choosing her. A ger will not wan anyone to just pop out the question and think gers r easy to catch... -
wah.. so fast ask her to be gf liao?? not good lah.. must at least have a firm foundation as friends first i think... if not, when all that attraction is gone, then how???Originally posted by koshboi:i guess the best method is to date her out several times...
One is to check out aby her feeling to you.. another is to check out her character as well to see if she suit you really...
Of course she will be checking you out as well on your character and gentleman gestures...
Finally maybe if you feel very comfortable with her , then ask her to be your gf lo... at least to her, she feel that you make attempts to chase her sincerely and consider carefully before choosing her. A ger will not wan anyone to just pop out the question and think gers r easy to catch... -
thx 4 the advice guys... but there's 1 problem, there was once when i treated her a snack and she reply mi saying tat 1 of our other female frd will be jealous. Wat signal is she telling mi?? And i tink she noes tat i truely like her....
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She 'testing' you
See if u are going after that girl also or not
or
She trying to make u say:
"The one i like is you, not her"
I'm Guessing from a male point of view
Perhaps girls' opinion wld be more accurate -
That was the chance...You should have said why should that ger be jealous....i'm just treating someone i like....Push it alittle further....Originally posted by everywhere:thx 4 the advice guys... but there's 1 problem, there was once when i treated her a snack and she reply mi saying tat 1 of our other female frd will be jealous. Wat signal is she telling mi?? And i tink she noes tat i truely like her....
help.....
Gd luck Pal... -
maybe she was trying to see how you will handle it if you know got another gal likes you... to "test" your loyalty...Originally posted by UOS:That was the chance...You should have said why should that ger be jealous....i'm just treating someone i like....Push it alittle further....
Gd luck Pal... -
Originally posted by BaByBoY:Hello everywhere,
I do haf a few suggestions for you, but they haf to be used on suitable occasion and perhaps on the correct person???
1: Seduce them ( mentally thou )
Get one of ur common fren who`s `on ur side`, get him to tell her that he tinks u like her, see wat`s the condition like
2: Franky panky
Tell her that you like her, not in a funny way that you usually do, but w a tone that`s rather serious, and wat would be best is that when u all are alone w each other and in a rather romantic setting
3: Dangling bait
You can also try to `date her`, as in ask her out for normal show and do things that will `say` ur feelings. eg send her home, buy her litle gifts, extra `care` SMSs etc etc, thing u won do normally for a fren, get her thoughts wild..
if i come out w more ideas i`ll update here,
seriously u need me to list out the positive body signals too???
if u`re more serious into knowing wat her body language means, u can go to library and popular to get up some books pertaining boday languages,
PS. it`s best if u can get the book on the art of seduction.. i browsed thro a few pages last time, some of the points are rather useful in ur case of ambigous love
AOS is good for those who have base.
Those shy scared and continue being all the rest of their good adolescents life don't have to read.
Read already also no practical.
Now we are going into books to understand how to do courting.
Trust me: Man still won't understand.
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Highlighted part is very true.Originally posted by OldAhPek:She 'testing' you
See if u are going after that girl also or not
or
She trying to make u say:
"The one i like is you, not her"
I'm Guessing from a male point of view
Perhaps girls' opinion wld be more accurate
Depends on the observer also. Got to be sharp and sensitive. -
thx guys...
i hope she is nt saying it to tell mi she's nt interested in mi... -
Copy from somewhere too lazy to type ;p
here are some tell-tale sign whether she likes you or not :
1) she respond very fast to ur sms
2) she laugh alot in your presence
3) can get abit touchy with u, alot of teasing and body contact
4) she share with u alot of thing, ranging from her family to her pet's fav food
5) she took the effort to dress up, not repeating what she wear on the first few dates
6) direct eye-contact with her, her eyes will give her feeling away, if she like u, her pupils will be dilated
7) when her friends look at u from head to toe, giggle a lot when they saw u, tease u both, then it's cfm she like u le... -
also...Originally posted by drx:Copy from somewhere too lazy to type ;p
here are some tell-tale sign whether she likes you or not :
1) she respond very fast to ur sms
2) she laugh alot in your presence
3) can get abit touchy with u, alot of teasing and body contact
4) she share with u alot of thing, ranging from her family to her pet's fav food
5) she took the effort to dress up, not repeating what she wear on the first few dates
6) direct eye-contact with her, her eyes will give her feeling away, if she like u, her pupils will be dilated
7) when her friends look at u from head to toe, giggle a lot when they saw u, tease u both, then it's cfm she like u le...
remember.. try to hold ur self.. as a guy.. dont be too touchy freely.. u will scare her very very soon... Just act cool.. let her do the touching first.. Try to ask her about her.. maybe her family... or how her life is... or what she usually does etc etc... Keep maintain ur energy like u r very interested to her but not like u have to tell her everything about u... If she ask u back.. just give short answer and then get back to ask her.... Remember... being a "mysterious guy" is what any girl wants and droll her saliva for.. they dont want any guy that is too big mouthed.. too agressive or try to impress her too much.. Just act cool... the key word is "BE CHALLENGE to her". DO NOT tell her that u love her or like her too soon... It's a sharp turn off for her.. let her dig and discuss in her mind