is this it?
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my male colleague has been going out with a vietnamese and chinese KTV girls.
he is married with kids. his wife of 20 years knows and accepts it. she wants to keep him the marriage no matter what; maybe face issue since she is a director of an insurance company.
he told us that the feeling is different; the girls know what he wants and how to please him. eg. he takes a cigarette and they get the lighter ready...
eating out with them is as good as a 'no-hand restaurant' experience.
most of all, they girls sometimes do not want his money or tips. as far as he is concerned, the girls are really nice and sincere and really really sweet.
they are everything his wife isnt. at least, he feels young and happy when he is with them.
i reminded him that his wife gave him 2 lovely sons, put on couple of kilos as a result, supported the family when he was jobless for a year (got retrenched), accepted his fooling around and never did him wrong...
so she isnt gorgeous or doesnt feed him...
but she uses her CPF and pay for the house with him. she also spent the best years of her youth, all 23 of it with him, raising a family.
i just feel it is so sad, that he should treat her this way. also, the girls do want his money, that is why they are here. considering that he is almost 50 years old and isnt terrific looking or rich, can they really be in love with him? unfortunately he doesnt want to believe that.
i told him that after listening to his story, i have really become disappointed in men and maybe marriage... is this what women deserve... after all these years?
looking at the number of men going for all these KTV girls from china, vietnam and wherever.. how about the wives and girlfriends?
the very wives and girlfriends who spend their lives slogging for their men and this is the 'reward'.... they get?
there are so many stories today out there; men cheated of their CPF money overnight by some sweet-young thing. they leave their wives and kids penniless...
common guys, is this it? -
ya. this is it.
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that's about it i guess... he could marry the other women and they can provide 2 child each for him too
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this is just a minority of the men who doesnt have conscience and responsibility. nope this isnt it.
even when there's no more passionate love, i feel that marriage couples should have a level of responsibility. unfortunately your friend cares more about himself and disregard his family. -
Passionate love seldom lasts forever, if everyone were to divorce because of loss of passionate love then there wont be many married couples love in the world
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sometimes guys just need a good kick in the nuts to see things straight.
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gosh
wat a sterotyper are u??
u know one man like tt and u wanna say all man??
tell me all man w beard is ur ah gong? -
the man will get his just deserts... really wonder how his 2 sons will think of him... if they are even discerning enuff, they should know what to do... anyway, i m not advocating that the sons should not look aft their father when he is old.. if they do, their mother has raised them well.. if they dun, the man simply deserves it and i think he has no reason to resent them...
anywayz, there are good men ard... i dun mean those that are already taken... ...lol... my definition of "good" being simple, down-to-earth n responsible... sometimes, gals also must lower a bit of their expectation or make more effort in knowing the guys, as i know some guys who are like that arent really attractive at first sight... 
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scary her ah gong was like dat..Originally posted by BaByBoY:gosh
wat a sterotyper are u??
u know one man like tt and u wanna say all man??
tell me all man w beard is ur ah gong?
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I have sympathy towards the wife. She let her insecurity control and dominate her. Haih~ a sad fact of life nowadays.
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Originally posted by BaByBoY:gosh
wat a sterotyper are u??
u know one man like tt and u wanna say all man??
tell me all man w beard is ur ah gong? -
Tell him off.That fella needs a kick up his balls..China KTV girls..wtf..is he dense or what?Don't tell me he doesn't know who is his benefactor when he was down and out?
A disgrace to us guys. -
haha i guess its a reality world...
This kind of guy only knows how to look at the surface of the reality.. one day i am sure he will regret~ I feel that he will have his own retribution soon dun worry.
As for his wife, feel quite sorry for her~ but i can sense that she is strong-willed, trying very hard to maintain the togetherness of a family. -
aiya.. just listen to me lah.. give him a kick in the nuts. that'll teach him...
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He is rich thats why he can play.
lets change a few things
if he suddenly kena sack by company and no job and no money will the ktv girl still look at him nicely?
DO u think the wife will still be with him if he lost all his cash?
Lets say if he is not rich and only a small fry but he goes around playing with gals do you think the wife will still stay with him? Come on lar we all know the ending for a poor guy.
I feel you should not use him as a healthy guide to married life but use him as a guide on which type of guys you will not chose for your future husband.
If you want a rich husband and want a nice lfestyle, then you got to close one eye.to what he is doing outside.
If you want a simple life with a nice guy who earns a decent salary, then you got to work for it but will have a decent home to go back to. -
Nope this is not it. His wife has a part to play too.Originally posted by nuchio:my male colleague has been going out with a vietnamese and chinese KTV girls.
he is married with kids. his wife of 20 years knows and accepts it. she wants to keep him the marriage no matter what; maybe face issue since she is a director of an insurance company.
he told us that the feeling is different; the girls know what he wants and how to please him. eg. he takes a cigarette and they get the lighter ready...
eating out with them is as good as a 'no-hand restaurant' experience.
most of all, they girls sometimes do not want his money or tips. as far as he is concerned, the girls are really nice and sincere and really really sweet.
they are everything his wife isnt. at least, he feels young and happy when he is with them.
i reminded him that his wife gave him 2 lovely sons, put on couple of kilos as a result, supported the family when he was jobless for a year (got retrenched), accepted his fooling around and never did him wrong...
so she isnt gorgeous or doesnt feed him...
but she uses her CPF and pay for the house with him. she also spent the best years of her youth, all 23 of it with him, raising a family.
i just feel it is so sad, that he should treat her this way. also, the girls do want his money, that is why they are here. considering that he is almost 50 years old and isnt terrific looking or rich, can they really be in love with him? unfortunately he doesnt want to believe that.
i told him that after listening to his story, i have really become disappointed in men and maybe marriage... is this what women deserve... after all these years?
looking at the number of men going for all these KTV girls from china, vietnam and wherever.. how about the wives and girlfriends?
the very wives and girlfriends who spend their lives slogging for their men and this is the 'reward'.... they get?
there are so many stories today out there; men cheated of their CPF money overnight by some sweet-young thing. they leave their wives and kids penniless...
common guys, is this it?
If she is so willing to accept her"fate"
then of course men being men, her husband would do nothing to improve the situation. And it is precisely because his wife is so understanding, that makes him himself think it's ok to fool around.
Maybe the wife is not as innocent as she seem, maybe she too have a secret life?
I believe that if his wife had demanded her husband to behave or else... things MAY change... if not LEAVE HIM!!!
Yes It will be tough on the kids but they'll understand when they get older.... think about it, would you prefer YOUR MUM suffer like her in silence? -
this is a rhetorical question, dearOriginally posted by Ito_^:ya. this is it. 
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nope. i didnt say all men are like that. ... how can i ???Originally posted by BaByBoY:gosh
wat a sterotyper are u??
u know one man like tt and u wanna say all man??
tell me all man w beard is ur ah gong?
in this world, there are 2 genders (nevermind their preferences) men and women.
if i stereotype that all men are like this, does it mean i have to settle for women then? -
if u haf not noticed,Originally posted by nuchio:nope. i didnt say all men are like that. ... how can i ???
in this world, there are 2 genders (nevermind their preferences) men and women.
if i stereotype that all men are like this, does it mean i have to settle for women then?
u`re ranting at this particular guy fren u know
and asking GUYS here to answer and be responsible for his actions??
how will we know wat up his mind?
every man is different u know?
to tone things down, the only `excuse` i can find for u is that he`s the bad apple.. okies? -
So I admit. Sometimes guys really silly creatures...Originally posted by nuchio:my male colleague has been going out with a vietnamese and chinese KTV girls.
he is married with kids. his wife of 20 years knows and accepts it. she wants to keep him the marriage no matter what; maybe face issue since she is a director of an insurance company.
he told us that the feeling is different; the girls know what he wants and how to please him. eg. he takes a cigarette and they get the lighter ready...
eating out with them is as good as a 'no-hand restaurant' experience.
most of all, they girls sometimes do not want his money or tips. as far as he is concerned, the girls are really nice and sincere and really really sweet.
they are everything his wife isnt. at least, he feels young and happy when he is with them.
i reminded him that his wife gave him 2 lovely sons, put on couple of kilos as a result, supported the family when he was jobless for a year (got retrenched), accepted his fooling around and never did him wrong...
so she isnt gorgeous or doesnt feed him...
but she uses her CPF and pay for the house with him. she also spent the best years of her youth, all 23 of it with him, raising a family.
i just feel it is so sad, that he should treat her this way. also, the girls do want his money, that is why they are here. considering that he is almost 50 years old and isnt terrific looking or rich, can they really be in love with him? unfortunately he doesnt want to believe that.
i told him that after listening to his story, i have really become disappointed in men and maybe marriage... is this what women deserve... after all these years?
looking at the number of men going for all these KTV girls from china, vietnam and wherever.. how about the wives and girlfriends?
the very wives and girlfriends who spend their lives slogging for their men and this is the 'reward'.... they get?
there are so many stories today out there; men cheated of their CPF money overnight by some sweet-young thing. they leave their wives and kids penniless...
common guys, is this it?
In other circumstances, so do women....
So basically I guess humans can be very silly creatures if they allow themselves to be..... -
Well.. Maybe? But not all women are willing to go through all thick and thin with you....Originally posted by kopiosatu:that's about it i guess... he could marry the other women and they can provide 2 child each for him too -
Thats why i say... u want to have fun ..play with young women..u can never have wife. Its the unwritten law.... all those that wanna become Sugar Daddy knows it.. u cant get the best of both worlds. I plan to become a Sugar Daddy..n get married way later say around 50..what to do..thats why i work my ass off to earn all the money , invest n make sure i got the moolah to support my missus.
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Yes it is, 50 years of gravity finally produces some side-effects which is the migration of blood from the brain to the penis. Can't blame them for not having enough blood in their brain...cos water does always flow downstream afterall.
Imagine a 50 years old ah pek listening to the song - It's my life - by Bon Jovi.
Originally posted by nuchio:my male colleague has been going out with a vietnamese and chinese KTV girls.
he is married with kids. his wife of 20 years knows and accepts it. she wants to keep him the marriage no matter what; maybe face issue since she is a director of an insurance company.
he told us that the feeling is different; the girls know what he wants and how to please him. eg. he takes a cigarette and they get the lighter ready...
eating out with them is as good as a 'no-hand restaurant' experience.
most of all, they girls sometimes do not want his money or tips. as far as he is concerned, the girls are really nice and sincere and really really sweet.
they are everything his wife isnt. at least, he feels young and happy when he is with them.
i reminded him that his wife gave him 2 lovely sons, put on couple of kilos as a result, supported the family when he was jobless for a year (got retrenched), accepted his fooling around and never did him wrong...
so she isnt gorgeous or doesnt feed him...
but she uses her CPF and pay for the house with him. she also spent the best years of her youth, all 23 of it with him, raising a family.
i just feel it is so sad, that he should treat her this way. also, the girls do want his money, that is why they are here. considering that he is almost 50 years old and isnt terrific looking or rich, can they really be in love with him? unfortunately he doesnt want to believe that.
i told him that after listening to his story, i have really become disappointed in men and maybe marriage... is this what women deserve... after all these years?
looking at the number of men going for all these KTV girls from china, vietnam and wherever.. how about the wives and girlfriends?
the very wives and girlfriends who spend their lives slogging for their men and this is the 'reward'.... they get?
there are so many stories today out there; men cheated of their CPF money overnight by some sweet-young thing. they leave their wives and kids penniless...
common guys, is this it? -
this part....
would make one wonder why he goes to them.. there may be two sides of the story.. he may go to them because she has stopped loving him?
the marriage is now a sham... she does not love him yet keeps him shackled to the marriage because of face?
who knows?
heck... there are stories of wives running around with toyboys while their husbands slog..
so let's not tar all with the same brush.. and most of all, let them settle it their own way... for it is a personal matter, not for anyone else to judge or interfere...Originally posted by nuchio:he is married with kids. his wife of 20 years knows and accepts it. she wants to keep him the marriage no matter what; maybe face issue since she is a director of an insurance company.