To be or not to be
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there's this friend whom i'd known for close to 3 years; we have similar characters and likings. with her i can open my thoughts and share anything with her; family problems and such. we had really happy times together and would share each others' woes. as we are in the same course we understand what our work demands of us while few outside could.
we started going out for dinners; movies only at the beginning of this year and it's become quite consistently. it was really great and i feel really comfortable with her around, and talking to her will just make our conversation go on forever cos we have so much to talk about.
it wasnt until recentl til i realise that i'm beginning to like her, (she isnt attached) and i think she may feel same way... but i'm not too sure at the same time.
she's one of the best thing that could have happened to my life. i wanted to tell her how i feel but i'm not sure if it's the right time. i'll be going into ns is sept, but i felt that if i dun let her know i wouldnt have the chance when i'm in ns.
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GO FOR IT!!! TELL HER...hurry..
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it all starts as friends... dun worry abt NS or wat, if u like her, go for her....tell her
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Personally, i feel that you should wait till when you get into NS.
Sometimes, one will yield better results from waiting.
School of thoughts again.
M© ponders. -
NS = gg for relationships.. seriously -
U know her for 3 yrs.- a long time already.
Don't wait, tell her before u lose her to someone else. -
NO.....listen to your heart.
no one ever told you that the break up rate when the guy is in NS is about half of the total relationship that happen for guys in NS. hehe..just joking.
bring out your balls. summon your courage. you don want any regrets right?
most important thing, follow your heart. weight the consequences. seems to me that the girl also liked you, otherwise wouldnt go out with you alone, watch movies some more.
oh...so envious..guys before NS so innocent and naive. -
This is funny.Originally posted by heavenlyfire:NO.....listen to your heart.
no one told you that the break up rate when the guy is in NS is about half of the total relationship that happen for guys in NS. hehe..just joking.
bring out your balls. summon your courage. you don want any regrets right?
most important thing, follow your heart. weight the consequences. seems to me that the girl also liked you, otherwise wouldnt go out with you alone, watch movies some more.
oh...so envious..guys before NS so innocent and naive.
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x2Originally posted by M©+square:This is funny. -
ok so i've decided to tell her... but how odo i go about revealing my feelings to her? i intend to do it over a dinner for her bdae (with 2 of us only)
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u gonna tell her during her bday dinner o.. how sure are u of her responses ? dun want her to have a bday dinner she will never forget ! eg. shooting u down..n seeing ur sad face..ruining her night. Well.. i may be wrong but there is always the possibility lo.. but u can try. gluck
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Just treat it if you really go into a relationship with her. For merely 2 months how do you expect the relationship to bloom?
Think about the time she will need, and you are in ns unable to communicate with her. Of course there are couples whom i know eventually last thru out the ns-torturement. But, they had a base 1 year relationship knowledge before the guy went in.
If you feel you really love her, confess to her and work out a way that can last you and her thru the ns
If you only like her, perhaps its still not the time yet. -
i had a friend like that too,i tried to pursue a romantic relationship and it got screwed up and i lost a very good friend.
i'm not saying u shldnt bring this to the nxt level,but u shld proceed very carefully,keep in mind the consequences if ever things shld go wrong