i don't trust marriage
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have seen divorce more den married couple
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That's what you've seen...but dun generalise...Originally posted by makiko:have seen divorce more den married couple -
marriage is just a gesture, its the other person dat u have to trust.
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I guess the phrase seeing = believing works here. There are people in this world who just have their opinion based on what they see and not what they really go thru.
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my colleagues are mostly divorced too.
i haf lost confidence in marriage as well. -
take marriage as one of life's many experience to go thru.....don't think whether u can trust or not.....if it goes well (which needed the rite effort from the parties involved) be glad....
if it doesn't, then move on....life still goes on.... -
then dun get married lor.... it's not required by law wat...
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ya....feel the same way too ....heard too many stories of cheating husband/ wife liao
wat is marriage all about!!!!
Watch desperate housewife lar!
BUT again on the bright side there are also some happy marriages out there too!
JUST DO IT ONCE IN A LIFETIME LAR! ONCE BITEN, TWICE SHY YA!
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Originally posted by pinkygal76:ya....feel the same way too ....heard too many stories of cheating husband/ wife liao
wat is marriage all about!!!! Watch desperate housewife lar!
BUT again on the bright side there are also some happy marriages out there too!
JUST DO IT ONCE IN A LIFETIME LAR! ONCE BITEN, TWICE SHY YA! 
Do it for the sake for doing...
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why din you trust marriage>>> some may be good after all..depending on the couple too you noe
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optimism at its best again.Originally posted by a_splash:take marriage as one of life's many experience to go thru.....don't think whether u can trust or not.....if it goes well (which needed the rite effort from the parties involved) be glad....
if it doesn't, then move on....life still goes on....
you never fail to amaze me!!
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What is marriage supposed to do for/to two people that they can't do
as singles outside of marriage these days?
Married vs Single-single status
1. Married can buy house - single-single can liao so buy next to each other.
2. Married can have sex - single-single can also mah.
3. Married divorces - no such thing for single-single
4. Married can have babies - single-single can adopt.
5. Wife maintenance, Husband no maintenance - none for two split singles
So please tell me the benefit of marriage that many seek to enter?
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Marriages break down cos lack of communication.
The couples worked long hrs., no time for each other.
Sometimes too stressed to have sex!
Also they are not willing to compromise.
Some spouse also not supportive when times get bad esp when one party gets retrenched. Money problems - another cause for divorce. -
Instead of letting statistics manipulate your actions, why not let your actions change the statistics for the better instead?
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should marry your colleague and have sex in the office.Originally posted by gerrykoh:Marriages break down cos lack of communication.
The couples worked long hrs., no time for each other.
Sometimes too stressed to have sex!
Also they are not willing to compromise.
Some spouse also not supportive when times get bad esp when one party gets retrenched. Money problems - another cause for divorce. -
as wat ppl say smaller vision smaller mind. get out of ur house more often for god sake.Originally posted by makiko:have seen divorce more den married couple -
there are many happily married couples outside?Originally posted by jonathan_n80:as wat ppl say smaller vision smaller mind. get out of ur house more often for god sake. -
find someone whom you love and who loves you back with interest... someone you can trust, respect and all that..
and... prove the cynics wrong
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good luck to whoever is trying.
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to prove the cynics wrong, we must all put alittle affort...Originally posted by the Bear:find someone whom you love and who loves you back with interest... someone you can trust, respect and all that..
and... prove the cynics wrong
finding someone whom u love and who loves u in return etc etc is not the end...its just the beginning.....
we are dealing with human....human are not stand still.....there are many things involved....we change with time, with new life experience, with diff ppl we meet on the way, with things we hear, learn etc etc....
how couples can keep up with each other's change and also to keep the fire still burning for the many years is a interesting challenge....u can read up tips etc but u will hv to innovise to suit your r/s...and of course u need two hands to clap....how u can make the other hand to clap with u is also another issue.... and we must also learn when we have to be a one eye jack (keep one eye close on trivial matters) ...and know when we must stand firm so that the other party don't take things for granted....etc etc
chim?? no lah.....only need u to put in little effort which can go a long way....
don't see marriage as such a scary thing....its actually very beautiful... -
sigh... relationships these days r so hard to maintain. i think pp now r harder to pls, more ambitious, n have higher expectations. true for both guys n gals. but i think guys r alwaz the one who's greedy n want more.
so after marriage, they r still not satisfied w having a good wife n a good family. they'll juz stray away, looking for more things for their own stuck up life. alwaz being selfish.
this is wat i think. obviously a cynic. so wat's e pt of getting married? unless there's this super duper tame n nice guy, who'll be satisfied and happy with juz having a good wife and a good family, who'll be willing to put in his heart n soul to maintain a happy family. (where to find nowadays?!?!?!!?!?)
well, this topic of guys vs gals in a marriage has been a hot topic in Today's paper for quite some time liao. can check it out for other's view of marriage! -
u mean u got small vision too? oh my godOriginally posted by dragg:there are many happily married couples outside? -
everybody got small vision, u r the only person living in the fairy tale worldOriginally posted by jonathan_n80:u mean u got small vision too? oh my god -
Guest marriage is just like company merger. One side make profit while the other party make lose. Marriage is like merger of one family to another, not between the couple only. Better look into the parent company before you marry. Marriage is just a legal right to claim the other party's estate when go separation. Sighhhh........ Marriage is not my objective of life.