Hes gone ...

• notforme

  6 Jul 05, 11:38

  I like this guy alot..but he isnt really into me .Now that he is seriously and happily attached , I cant see him anymore.He has even stopped contacting me.I think im not able to see him for the rest of my life.Thing is that i still cant forget him ,and i know i can never make him like or love me . i think he just treats me as a fling..not a serious one
  
  Think he despises me... what can i do to meet him again? any way to win him back?
• agk_titan

  6 Jul 05, 12:06

  then how did u start things out with him? as fling or something more serious?
  
  if as a fling then u shld noe wat to do.
  
  if as something more serious then u shld let the person noe then.
  
  sometimes its reli hard for the guy to noe wat the girl is tinking abt. a little hint might help
• notforme

  6 Jul 05, 13:00

  he confesses he likes me...but why....
• kopiosatu

  6 Jul 05, 13:05

  Originally posted by notforme:

  he confesses he likes me...but why....

  its a fling~
• Devil1976

  6 Jul 05, 13:36

  Originally posted by notforme:

  I like this guy alot..but he isnt really into me and i do not meet his critera.Now that he is seriously and happily attached , I cant see him anymore.He has even stopped contacting me.I think im not able to see him for the rest of my life.Thing is that i still cant forget him ,and i know i can never make him like or love me . i think he just treats me as a fling..not a serious one
  
  Think he despises me... what can i do to meet him again?

  Why would ya wanna do that for...?
• drx

  6 Jul 05, 14:33

  You are lucky cos he rejected you early.
  
  Seen cases where the girl is cheated of her money and body then dump like thrash.
  
  When you find a new person you will be fine.
• gerrykoh

  6 Jul 05, 15:02

  Get over him & find a new bf
• MRMUSICPRODUCER

  6 Jul 05, 15:03

  jus wake up 2 reality. there r some d i c ks who will say anything 2 get into your panties. learn from it. u shd b lucky he is gone. but go 4 a check up thou. gd luck
• mach10

  6 Jul 05, 15:05

  he just flung u...
  
  pls lar... so many trees in the forest... any tree can be better. see open open abit... know wat u want... and go on...
• f.1

  6 Jul 05, 15:46

  silly.... u should treat him like a fling too and get over him.
  
  trust me, this guy, if he came back to u now would only mean he wants more "fling" with u....no emotions one....
• notforme

  6 Jul 05, 15:50

  cant believe someone can be so emotionless
• f.1

  6 Jul 05, 15:59

  Originally posted by notforme:

  cant believe someone can be so emotionless

  look when people (i) dun really care; (ii) can't be bothered to care; (iii) dunno what to do (avoidance); (iv) get over something already (made up their mind liao) or (v) self-protection mechanism.... they can act decisively and emotionlessly towards another being.
  
  think back to the experiences you or your friends had when someone broke off with someone and one party is crying the heart out while the other party moves on.....
  
  sometimes, life sucks lor but in reality, we must move on.
• Devil1976

  6 Jul 05, 17:52

  Originally posted by notforme:

  cant believe someone can be so emotionless

  He's already attached. What do you expect?
• the Bear

  6 Jul 05, 17:54

  face it.. there never was...
  
  cry, moan, grief.. then let it go.. go out and meet someone worthy of your love and affection
  
  be well
• starblue

  6 Jul 05, 18:35

  dun be a softie, gal. get over the guy. why bother racking your head over how to fish a hooked fish???
• Wolfwoof^^

  6 Jul 05, 18:39

  Another victim of love...God bless you
• shaunlaw

  6 Jul 05, 21:08

  Originally posted by notforme:

  I like this guy alot..but he isnt really into me .Now that he is seriously and happily attached , I cant see him anymore.He has even stopped contacting me.I think im not able to see him for the rest of my life.Thing is that i still cant forget him ,and i know i can never make him like or love me . i think he just treats me as a fling..not a serious one
  
  Think he despises me... what can i do to meet him again? any way to win him back?

  4 words: Learn to Let go.
• drx

  7 Jul 05, 01:10

  wondering why he is so attractive?
  
  So many girls like him ?
  
  Can Teach us why he is so good in attracting girls?
  
  Scratching head again.
• notforme

  7 Jul 05, 16:20

  I am trying so hard to hold back my tears..i just dont understand ..
• Devil1976

  7 Jul 05, 17:09

  Originally posted by notforme:

  I am trying so hard to hold back my tears..i just dont understand ..

  Neither can I understand?
• SoonKeong

  7 Jul 05, 17:15

  Originally posted by notforme:

  I like this guy alot..but he isnt really into me .Now that he is seriously and happily attached , I cant see him anymore.He has even stopped contacting me.I think im not able to see him for the rest of my life.Thing is that i still cant forget him ,and i know i can never make him like or love me . i think he just treats me as a fling..not a serious one
  
  Think he despises me... what can i do to meet him again? any way to win him back?

  He is attached. wad more you wanna do? be the third party?
  
  wad's the pt of liking someone who is attached and cannot promise you anything. there are so many more people out there who are more suitable for u and will be more den willing to be ur partner
• drx

  7 Jul 05, 17:15

  then cry lor hold back for wat?
  
  Cry until you can cry no more then the pain will go away!
  
  Then you will learn the meaning of given up hope!
• Nelstar

  7 Jul 05, 17:23

  Fight for what you wanted, live for what you loved. Sometimes, it ain't that bad. Just make sure you had no regrets.
  
  
• agk_titan

  7 Jul 05, 17:26

  a classic example of the blinding power love can pose to a person...
  
  scary..
• SoonKeong

  7 Jul 05, 17:34

  Yea agree.
  
  Love is blind. This is something no one can argue about. Even to an extend where their gf cheated on them and yet he can forgive.