Originally posted by observer81:
just observe clearly... always pay attention to details.. ask her? yes.. maybe.. maybe not.. because most probably won't tell clearly what she really really wants and comes out with "nothing.. i just want to be with u" or "im happy just to see u"...But.. are they true? Anyway they just leave lots and lots of hints for guys to pay attention. Quite simple... if she likes to go shopping with u.. maybe she wants u to complement her looks.. if she likes to mention about movies.. bring her to watch movies.. if she brings u into jewellery store or give hints about it.. she wants u to marry her
........is it really nec to go to extend to try to understand what the girls want to so call chase them??
I mean, won't it be better to just be yourself?? showing your sincerity and interest in her would do??
what is the point of trying so hard to do all the things the girl would like and upon married, u reveal the true u?? (if wat u hv been doing to woo her differs alot from the real u)
then prob begins........

for eg.....u buy this and that for her.....but actually deep in you do don't find such things nec or its a waste of money....then after married, u find u cannot carry on buying such things, then u tell her that she should try to be more trifty....then how....u break her heart le....