How to give a girl the kind of love she wants?

• SMAPLionHeart

  7 Jul 05, 01:48

  ive been puzzled over it , what kind of love are girls exactly looking for and how can guys exactly give the kind of love girls want?
  
  
• drx

  7 Jul 05, 01:52

  u ask the girls lor
  
  study this topic for so long liao still got no answer
• Devil1976

  7 Jul 05, 13:15

  Originally posted by drx:

  u ask the girls lor
  
  study this topic for so long liao still got no answer

  That's because it can be quite a subjective matter.
• dragg

  7 Jul 05, 13:16

  by asking her to find someone else.
  
  
• observer81

  7 Jul 05, 16:31

  just observe clearly... always pay attention to details.. ask her? yes.. maybe.. maybe not.. because most probably won't tell clearly what she really really wants and comes out with "nothing.. i just want to be with u" or "im happy just to see u"...But.. are they true? Anyway they just leave lots and lots of hints for guys to pay attention. Quite simple... if she likes to go shopping with u.. maybe she wants u to complement her looks.. if she likes to mention about movies.. bring her to watch movies.. if she brings u into jewellery store or give hints about it.. she wants u to marry her
• DriftingGuy

  7 Jul 05, 16:33

  
  This is the greatest mystery which no one can really answer
• pete98

  8 Jul 05, 13:32

  Originally posted by observer81:

  just observe clearly... always pay attention to details.. ask her? yes.. maybe.. maybe not.. because most probably won't tell clearly what she really really wants and comes out with "nothing.. i just want to be with u" or "im happy just to see u"...But.. are they true? Anyway they just leave lots and lots of hints for guys to pay attention. Quite simple... if she likes to go shopping with u.. maybe she wants u to complement her looks.. if she likes to mention about movies.. bring her to watch movies.. if she brings u into jewellery store or give hints about it.. she wants u to marry her

  So if she been talking about how nice a white gold chain at Taka is does that means my wallet is going to burn Sigh!
• sillyme

  8 Jul 05, 13:48

  Start as friends first. You may get to understand her from there.
• Elftain

  8 Jul 05, 15:10

  They just wanna feel protected
• drx

  8 Jul 05, 15:28

  try the starting out as friends idea on a few case
  seems the result is too disappointing to say..
  
  if u r not good looking, not rich, do not pay for girls sometimes, no car, do not know how to talk to girls chances are, she will dump u as a friend immediately.
  
  most girls these days see ugly guys as their tools only.
  
  If ugly guy got car then use his car for transport.
  
  If ugly guy got cash always ask him to treat her.
  
  If ugly guy can work also ask him to help her.
  
  Got one case I remember is that the girl is in uni and she ask a ugly guy to do all her homework and she just dump him ask a friend after her uni days.
  
  Have u seen a handsome guy ever need to do anything to attract girls?
  
• macjoe

  8 Jul 05, 16:25

  When a somebody (not nobody) who many girls desire and she has admiration for gives his attention only to her and romance her.
  
  But be wise in choosing the girl - you don't want to end up heart-broken when the girl is just in it buying time for a better ship to come along to
  jump to.
  
  
• littlebeaker

  8 Jul 05, 16:37

  if someone don't have looks, no money and no work... maybe he should do something about his life...
  
  

  Got one case I remember is that the girl is in uni and she ask a ugly guy to do all her homework and she just dump him ask a friend after her uni days.

  if that someone don't have looks, no money and no work... then he ought to have some brains and not get exploited..
• f.1

  8 Jul 05, 16:39

  "jue shi hao BRA" .....
• a_splash

  8 Jul 05, 16:48

  Originally posted by observer81:

  just observe clearly... always pay attention to details.. ask her? yes.. maybe.. maybe not.. because most probably won't tell clearly what she really really wants and comes out with "nothing.. i just want to be with u" or "im happy just to see u"...But.. are they true? Anyway they just leave lots and lots of hints for guys to pay attention. Quite simple... if she likes to go shopping with u.. maybe she wants u to complement her looks.. if she likes to mention about movies.. bring her to watch movies.. if she brings u into jewellery store or give hints about it.. she wants u to marry her

  ........is it really nec to go to extend to try to understand what the girls want to so call chase them??
  
  I mean, won't it be better to just be yourself?? showing your sincerity and interest in her would do??
  
  what is the point of trying so hard to do all the things the girl would like and upon married, u reveal the true u?? (if wat u hv been doing to woo her differs alot from the real u)
  
  then prob begins........
  
  for eg.....u buy this and that for her.....but actually deep in you do don't find such things nec or its a waste of money....then after married, u find u cannot carry on buying such things, then u tell her that she should try to be more trifty....then how....u break her heart le....
• f.1

  8 Jul 05, 17:08

  the bigger the caret, the bigger the love ...............
• MRMUSICPRODUCER

  8 Jul 05, 17:21

  got $$$ got luv, no $$$ go wank yourself. life is cruel, face it
• shade343

  8 Jul 05, 17:31

  Cessation of happiness is suffering....
• Brightday

  10 Jul 05, 08:29

  care & concern as well as a bit of the mushy stuff once in a while...lol
• CannyOng

  12 Jul 05, 20:18

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  ive been puzzled over it , what kind of love are girls exactly looking for and how can guys exactly give the kind of love girls want?
  
  

  She wants YR ATTENTION!!!