early 20s guy fooling with early 30s lady

• jimiris

  7 Jul 05, 04:17

  Recently, my friend got to know this lady in her 30s.. with a nice figure and pleasant looks. They somehow flirt around and got involved. She's someone fun and interesting to fool around with, but i dunno how people might look at them. He feels good with her around, like the feeling of hanky panky.
  
  I like to see views from outsiders on how u guys think.. they kept it low profile and enjoyed each other's company. Is it normal?
• aCid_rAIn

  7 Jul 05, 09:00

  so r u serious or simply fooling?
• drx

  7 Jul 05, 14:09

  Is your life you decide how you want to live it.
  
  If is a fling just keep short and simple, do not put real love in it and you will not get hurt.
  
• observer81

  7 Jul 05, 16:26

  in our conservative society... maybe its not possible to be serious in such relationship... unless u can overcome criticism that will be fired..
• fire & ice

  7 Jul 05, 16:30

  so u really interested in her LT or just a fling? if only a fling, then care less lah... she probably treat u like a fling too.
  
  people stare and say wat people want.... u cannot stop them, it's up to u to want to feel subjected to other people's values or not... more impt is wat your families think if you guys decide to take the realtionship further....
• SoonKeong

  7 Jul 05, 17:06

  Originally posted by jimiris:

  Recently, i got to know this lady in her 30s.. with a nice figure and pleasant looks. We somehow flirt around and got involved. She's someone fun and interesting to fool around with, but i dunno how people might look at us. I feel good with her around, like the feeling of hanky panky.
  
  I like to see views from outsiders on how u guys think.. we kept it low profile and we enjoyed each other's company. Is it normal?

  1) Is she married?
  
  2) Are you married?
  
  3) What do you look for in a relationship? More to Sex or more to love?
• ILPSY

  7 Jul 05, 21:03

  I would think its more of fooling around coz he emphasized on her physical looks, appearance, the feeling of hanky panky...
• jimiris

  8 Jul 05, 02:43

  Ya, its more to being hanky panky... but hard to say it might evolve to something else... so must listen to pple with more experiences. Both are single..
• Yunhaier

  9 Jul 05, 00:42

  Originally posted by jimiris:

  Ya, its more to being hanky panky... but hard to say it might evolve to something else... so must listen to pple with more experiences. Both are single..

  Then what's the issue about?
  
  Cheers
• MetalGear

  9 Jul 05, 12:26

  nothing wrong here... I'm with a girl in her 30s too. I wun define what kind of r/s we are in but we enjoy each other's company. I'm in my early 20s. I dun really ask for her age coz it's not important to me.
  
  I'm very career driven n so is she. It's funny that I can nvr date women the same way after dating her. Yes i'm one of the minority - I like older women. Their sexual maturity... their confidence... their daringness... they dun bother so stupidly anymore about 'Am I fat... Do I look big in this... is my bottom ok?' N yeah, you'll really learn a thing or 2 from them.
  
  I wun say I dun love her, neither will I say it's marriage man... YES, that kind of thing!!! Take things as it comes n yeah enjoy it as much as possible. Men who date older women will mature very fast n be mellowed n realistic.
  
  Oh yeah, i haven got down to the part of older women who still look good n work hard to keep themselves in shape. Very very sexy...