Guys & Girls Pls Read this and HELP me...i am Totally LOst !
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My Story Begin.......
i used to know this girl which i like around 4 year ago. we will kind of very good friends at that time but becoz due to she already had a bf that time so i decided to give up
...therefore i lost contact with her for at least a year or two, but i still got her contact no:, just that i dont feel like contacting her...through i still had feeling toward her even until now...
Recently, i found her in friendster & her info she put there Single, but her bf photos is still in there. So i decided to look up her bf info and there he put Domestic Partnership with all him and her photos in there too....therefore i really dunno whether is their relationship is still continuing a not....dunno whether to sad or happy....
Yesterday, i decided to sms her, then in the night we chat in msn through she seldom online...but i didnt ask her abt her relationship....becoz long time no chat...hard to get back wad i and her used to be chat abt anything...
So Guys and Girls what should i do? should continue to sms her everyday or call her then date her out.....is it possible..... I AM TOTALLY LOST.....
Please help me i am very stupid in such love thingy.....
give me some tips on how am i going to do? -
they are still together. friendster status doess not mean anything
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but a few months ago i see they both info were still In Relationship but y they change it now???
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pictures still there that means together. when she takes down the pic then you got chanceOriginally posted by frostice:but a few months ago i see they both info were still In Relationship but y they change it now??? -
she took down a few le....now only left one, the rest is herself...... i think i no hope le...
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thats my fault???
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kaoz..why depend so much on friendster when you can ask her yourself? Rather than guessing here and there, isn't it better to get the truth itself?Originally posted by frostice:she took down a few le....now only left one, the rest is herself...... i think i no hope le... -
but how should i go abt asking....directly ask ???Originally posted by rainee:kaoz..why depend so much on friendster when you can ask her yourself? Rather than guessing here and there, isn't it better to get the truth itself? -
ever heard of the technique "test the water" ?Originally posted by frostice:but how should i go abt asking....directly ask ???
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how to go abt to test it? i am really stupid at it...Originally posted by rainee:ever heard of the technique "test the water" ? -
aiya, just say something like,"So many of our friends have bf/gf already. What about you?" Say it in a joking way la...Originally posted by frostice:how to go abt to test it? i am really stupid at it... -
young man... Can u heck care about this friendster thingy? Just call her n ask her out n from there u'll know. The problem with you is.. you are thinking so much now when u dun even know for real about what u are thinking! Are u sure what you debating about mentally is the truth? Go out with her n you know.Originally posted by frostice:My Story Begin.......
i used to know this girl which i like around 4 year ago. we will kind of very good friends at that time but becoz due to she already had a bf that time so i decided to give up ...therefore i lost contact with her for at least a year or two, but i still got her contact no:, just that i dont feel like contacting her...through i still had feeling toward her even until now...
Recently, i found her in friendster & her info she put there Single, but her bf photos is still in there. So i decided to look up her bf info and there he put Domestic Partnership with all him and her photos in there too....therefore i really dunno whether is their relationship is still continuing a not....dunno whether to sad or happy....
Yesterday, i decided to sms her, then in the night we chat in msn through she seldom online...but i didnt ask her abt her relationship....becoz long time no chat...hard to get back wad i and her used to be chat abt anything...
So Guys and Girls what should i do? should continue to sms her everyday or call her then date her out.....is it possible..... I AM TOTALLY LOST.....
Please help me i am very stupid in such love thingy.....
give me some tips on how am i going to do?
Drop hints that u still have an interest in her. But this time... come on differently... be confident n sure about ur feeligns for her. Chicks dig that. They love confidence in men who dare to say n touch them. If you gonna be spineless, n keep thinking n thinking, you can go to bed every nite with your hand.
Sooo.... Be a real man n do something! -
what do u like about her?
Is she really worth the 4 year wait?
if i help you you will be call the 3 rd party are you willing to accept that? -
does she knows u like her? or does she feel that same way towards u?
im sure in your conversation u can roughly guess if she's still attached anot...
coz i feel tat if she doesn't feel the same way towards u, she might stay away from u if u ask her directly...
to play safe, juz be gd frens with her for now? maybe she'll grow to like u...? might drop hints to u too? -
wa lau..
nothing wrong with showing concern for a friend right?
just pretend don know and ask her how are things between she and her bfriend. if she says breakup, then you say sorry.
so simple...in the meantime, keep chatting with her.. -
So have you found out if she's still attached to him...?Originally posted by frostice:My Story Begin.......
i used to know this girl which i like around 4 year ago. we will kind of very good friends at that time but becoz due to she already had a bf that time so i decided to give up ...therefore i lost contact with her for at least a year or two, but i still got her contact no:, just that i dont feel like contacting her...through i still had feeling toward her even until now...
Recently, i found her in friendster & her info she put there Single, but her bf photos is still in there. So i decided to look up her bf info and there he put Domestic Partnership with all him and her photos in there too....therefore i really dunno whether is their relationship is still continuing a not....dunno whether to sad or happy....
Yesterday, i decided to sms her, then in the night we chat in msn through she seldom online...but i didnt ask her abt her relationship....becoz long time no chat...hard to get back wad i and her used to be chat abt anything...
So Guys and Girls what should i do? should continue to sms her everyday or call her then date her out.....is it possible..... I AM TOTALLY LOST.....
Please help me i am very stupid in such love thingy.....
give me some tips on how am i going to do?
Just a PERSONAL GUESS... They might have broke off but she still has the heart for him....
And... Regarding you and her... If you really happens to be after her... Just REMEMBER... It's NOT what that between you and her in the PAST which really matters... It's what both of you are doing now... Feeling now... And wanting now... TODAY... -
just ask her straight if she got a guy or not. then decide your plan of action.. if she's attached, hands off... if not, you can go ahead and chat with her (but i think every night is a bit too much lah....)
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Seriously, ask her. Depends on whether you trust her enough as well. Friendster is just a place where people type things about themselves, some may not be true.
Also depends on how well you know her. -
you should go after her and stop being so whiny.
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I am totally lost reading your postOriginally posted by frostice:My Story Begin.......
i used to know this girl which i like around 4 year ago. we will kind of very good friends at that time but becoz due to she already had a bf that time so i decided to give up ...therefore i lost contact with her for at least a year or two, but i still got her contact no:, just that i dont feel like contacting her...through i still had feeling toward her even until now...
Recently, i found her in friendster & her info she put there Single, but her bf photos is still in there. So i decided to look up her bf info and there he put Domestic Partnership with all him and her photos in there too....therefore i really dunno whether is their relationship is still continuing a not....dunno whether to sad or happy....
Yesterday, i decided to sms her, then in the night we chat in msn through she seldom online...but i didnt ask her abt her relationship....becoz long time no chat...hard to get back wad i and her used to be chat abt anything...
So Guys and Girls what should i do? should continue to sms her everyday or call her then date her out.....is it possible..... I AM TOTALLY LOST.....
Please help me i am very stupid in such love thingy.....
give me some tips on how am i going to do?