Originally posted by dejour:
i'm 24 this yr, have a steady r/s..
i do not have friends... the only ppl i contact is my colleagues..my sec sch friends do nt contact me due to some mis-understanding yrs back.
i withdraw from poly when i was in 2nd yr n step into working circle
so i can say i do not have friends only close working colleagues...
Please bare in mind that wanting to have a friend, is not like "hey, please be my friend leh!" that kinda thing.
If you do not spare an effort in making friends, no one will ever gonna get close to you. If i'm not mistaken, you might fall under the category of "relationship oriented" guy. Which means you place your gf above all else. Well, its not something bad, but it will means your friends wun be in your priority list.
Note that acquaintance are totally different from a friend. acquaintance are there only when you met up and both of you will give response like "hi, bye" while friends listen to you, stand by you and advice on when you have troubles.
No one in this world likes to be ignore or being make use of. Spare more time in thinking what you can do to, like squeeze out time from your gf and communicate more with your friends. Either by going out, chat in msn or even an sms. Every little things makes a difference.