no friends
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i'm 24 this yr, have a steady r/s..
i do not have friends... the only ppl i contact is my colleagues..my sec sch friends do nt contact me due to some mis-understanding yrs back.
i withdraw from poly when i was in 2nd yr n step into working circle
so i can say i do not have friends only close working colleagues...
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take the 1st step by joining sgforums outings.........
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Bless you..go join SDU
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relax. take 1 step at a time. dun rush.Originally posted by dejour:i'm 24 this yr, have a steady r/s..
i do not have friends... the only ppl i contact is my colleagues..my sec sch friends do nt contact me due to some mis-understanding yrs back.
i withdraw from poly when i was in 2nd yr n step into working circle
so i can say i do not have friends only close working colleagues...
colleagues can become ur friends.
if possible, try ur best to talk more; a start looking into the interests of others instead of ur own. then slowly, u'll find more people begin to start conversations with u.
a few things that might get people's attention:
- gifts
- basic needs
- food
- time
- humour
as long as u share these with them.. things are gonna be lookin' on a brighter side. see ya on the other side then!
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Friends can be found anywhere easily but not easy to find a good buddy whom you can find to pour out ur problems. Slowly break the ice with them...Originally posted by dejour:i'm 24 this yr, have a steady r/s..
i do not have friends... the only ppl i contact is my colleagues..my sec sch friends do nt contact me due to some mis-understanding yrs back.
i withdraw from poly when i was in 2nd yr n step into working circle
so i can say i do not have friends only close working colleagues... 
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If people don't reach out for you, you can always reach out for people.Originally posted by dejour:i'm 24 this yr, have a steady r/s..
i do not have friends... the only ppl i contact is my colleagues..my sec sch friends do nt contact me due to some mis-understanding yrs back.
i withdraw from poly when i was in 2nd yr n step into working circle
so i can say i do not have friends only close working colleagues... -
Got hope. got colleagues means got hope.
Well, i left my work place in yr 2000, but my ex colleagues still in contact w me as frens...
All da best.
cheerios! -
maybe your heart isnt free.
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Maybe you are too stick to your steady?
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Please bare in mind that wanting to have a friend, is not like "hey, please be my friend leh!" that kinda thing.Originally posted by dejour:i'm 24 this yr, have a steady r/s..
i do not have friends... the only ppl i contact is my colleagues..my sec sch friends do nt contact me due to some mis-understanding yrs back.
i withdraw from poly when i was in 2nd yr n step into working circle
so i can say i do not have friends only close working colleagues...
If you do not spare an effort in making friends, no one will ever gonna get close to you. If i'm not mistaken, you might fall under the category of "relationship oriented" guy. Which means you place your gf above all else. Well, its not something bad, but it will means your friends wun be in your priority list.
Note that acquaintance are totally different from a friend. acquaintance are there only when you met up and both of you will give response like "hi, bye" while friends listen to you, stand by you and advice on when you have troubles.
No one in this world likes to be ignore or being make use of. Spare more time in thinking what you can do to, like squeeze out time from your gf and communicate more with your friends. Either by going out, chat in msn or even an sms. Every little things makes a difference. -
take comfort buddy..
my condition is far worst than yours..
i have social phobia, and so far i have only a friend, and no one seems comfy to be ard me.. -
at least you have a steady relationship.
try double date to get to know your partner's friends. -
friends? if you really need them find them lor.. or else, just stay with your present lifestyle lor
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Ur colloagues are ur frens aint it? Unless u tell me u dun treat them as frens. in ur way, how do u define a fren as? Mayb u can tell us abt it so that we know how come u think that u do not have frens.
Adding on, u have a stead isnt it? She is ur gf and also ur fren at the same time isnt it? Unless u tell me again that stead is stead and fren is fren. Whats ur definition of a stead?