Originally posted by Anakin Jr:Outing?
Just realized, after reading thru some of the postings in AA, that perhaps I am not the only [b]LONELY oONE. There appear to others who share my problems to varying degrees.
I suspect this to be just the tip of the ice bergÂ… just like the true numbers of HIV victims lurking unknown
Till today, I have yet to fathom why IÂ’m such a loneliness-afflicted soul. I am a clean, decent looking chap who study hard (but prob not smart), reads the Straits time & watch HK serials for past time. Am I that different, alienated from the rest of the happy, well-connected youth of SÂ’pore?
Despite many valiant attempts at improving my social life--- breaking the ice with complete strangers, choosing a course in uni which has more gals--- I still feel something kinda missinÂ’
1) A girlfriend ---- Not really, I guess IÂ’m not ready
2) Flings--- Yes, hopefully pleaseÂ…
3) Friends (Quality ones)--- Yes, badly missing
A sense of meaningful connections with the people around meÂ… a nice, normal bunch of people I can hang out with.
So, I thought why not gathering all these like-minded people with similar problems/sentimentsÂ… hopefully we can form a support group or even outings in future[/b]
Originally posted by Patrik:Then why on earth u are replying here? to show off or what?
I am lonely.
[b]But i dun need flings and i have lotsa friends ard me.Though not all may be good,but i dun need friends to survive.[/b]
Originally posted by Anakin Jr:You are not alone, Pal.
Just realized, after reading thru some of the postings in AA, that perhaps I am not the only [b]LONELY oONE. There appear to others who share my problems to varying degrees.
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yeah... "loneliness" is almost as much a taboo like some STD?! i posted before abt loneliness-related probs & got critisized for whining etc. U wld also get response like the one by Patrik... he's like walking into a blood bank & declaring loudly "I am healthy & eligible!!" Then he said "But i dun wan to donate.." & walk off....Originally posted by delonicdevil:yes... i am a lonely one in all departments of social life. i hope this thing comes through becuz i had done something similar and it didn't work. no one responded. sigh.....
man...i can imagine how itd be if all the lonely pple who go along with ur plan happen to be lonely because they are quiet pple...they'd make such interesting conversations,staring at each other blankly...Originally posted by Anakin Jr:yeah... "loneliness" is almost as much a taboo like some STD?! i posted before abt loneliness-related probs & got critisized for whining etc. U wld also get response like the one by Patrik... he's like walking into a blood bank & declaring loudly "I am healthy & eligible!!" Then he said "But i dun wan to donate.." & walk off....
Anyway i am hoping to gather some like-minded ppl who can make regular hang--out kakis, like going for outing, movies etc![]()
Originally posted by Anakin Jr:My personal advice.
Just realized, after reading thru some of the postings in AA, that perhaps I am not the only [b]LONELY oONE. There appear to others who share my problems to varying degrees.
I suspect this to be just the tip of the ice bergÂ… just like the true numbers of HIV victims lurking unknown
Till today, I have yet to fathom why IÂ’m such a loneliness-afflicted soul. I am a clean, decent looking chap who study hard (but prob not smart), reads the Straits time & watch HK serials for past time. Am I that different, alienated from the rest of the happy, well-connected youth of SÂ’pore?
Despite many valiant attempts at improving my social life--- breaking the ice with complete strangers, choosing a course in uni which has more gals--- I still feel something kinda missinÂ’
1) A girlfriend ---- Not really, I guess IÂ’m not ready
2) Flings--- Yes, hopefully pleaseÂ…
3) Friends (Quality ones)--- Yes, badly missing
A sense of meaningful connections with the people around meÂ… a nice, normal bunch of people I can hang out with.
So, I thought why not gathering all these like-minded people with similar problems/sentimentsÂ… hopefully we can form a support group or even outings in future[/b]
isit?Originally posted by Yunhaier:Outing?
AA outing always poor attendance one.![]()
Cheers
Those were the days...Originally posted by hopy:isit?
but mi v 1st outing is an AA outing wor..![]()
more like nightmare to miOriginally posted by Devil1976:Those were the days...![]()