All Lonely~mites... Fall in Here!!
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Just realized, after reading thru some of the postings in AA, that perhaps I am not the only LONELY oONE. There appear to others who share my problems to varying degrees.
I suspect this to be just the tip of the ice bergÂ… just like the true numbers of HIV victims lurking unknown
Till today, I have yet to fathom why IÂ’m such a loneliness-afflicted soul. I am a clean, decent looking chap who study hard (but prob not smart), reads the Straits time & watch HK serials for past time. Am I that different, alienated from the rest of the happy, well-connected youth of SÂ’pore?
Despite many valiant attempts at improving my social life--- breaking the ice with complete strangers, choosing a course in uni which has more gals--- I still feel something kinda missinÂ’
1) A girlfriend ---- Not really, I guess IÂ’m not ready
2) Flings--- Yes, hopefully pleaseÂ…
3) Friends (Quality ones)--- Yes, badly missing
A sense of meaningful connections with the people around meÂ… a nice, normal bunch of people I can hang out with.
So, I thought why not gathering all these like-minded people with similar problems/sentimentsÂ… hopefully we can form a support group or even outings in future -
im not lonely not need a fling - but i support u la.
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Enjoy your stay.
Hope your eyes will see more of the subtle things in your life one day. -
Originally posted by Anakin Jr:
Outing?
Just realized, after reading thru some of the postings in AA, that perhaps I am not the only [b]LONELY oONE. There appear to others who share my problems to varying degrees.
I suspect this to be just the tip of the ice bergÂ… just like the true numbers of HIV victims lurking unknown
Till today, I have yet to fathom why IÂ’m such a loneliness-afflicted soul. I am a clean, decent looking chap who study hard (but prob not smart), reads the Straits time & watch HK serials for past time. Am I that different, alienated from the rest of the happy, well-connected youth of SÂ’pore?
Despite many valiant attempts at improving my social life--- breaking the ice with complete strangers, choosing a course in uni which has more gals--- I still feel something kinda missinÂ’
1) A girlfriend ---- Not really, I guess IÂ’m not ready
2) Flings--- Yes, hopefully pleaseÂ…
3) Friends (Quality ones)--- Yes, badly missing
A sense of meaningful connections with the people around meÂ… a nice, normal bunch of people I can hang out with.
So, I thought why not gathering all these like-minded people with similar problems/sentimentsÂ… hopefully we can form a support group or even outings in future[/b]
AA outing always poor attendance one.
Cheers -
I am lonely.
But i dun need flings and i have lotsa friends ard me.
Though not all may be good,but i dun need friends to survive. -
i am lonely in the relationship department.but i have an active social life and my friends around me share the same plight as me.so we keep each other for company..although someday we wish we can start having a different form of company.
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yes... i am a lonely one in all departments of social life. i hope this thing comes through becuz i had done something similar and it didn't work. no one responded. sigh.....
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thats really bad!!! feeling lonely at such a young age.
you should be out enjoying with friends. dont stay at home.
you have plenty of time to stay at home after 40. -
Lonely? Visit sgforums more often lor...
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ur too focused on getting gf/girl... how can u improve? Change must come from within.
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and first of all u gotta find a girl who can be ur soulmate and don't find just somebody to be a companion just because u r lonely. that's going to stress u even more.
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i need quality friends as much as u do too
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i also very lonely
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sing the lonely song
I am so lonely ..........I am so lonely............. -
/me sings "YOU'RE ONLY LONELY" by J. D. Souther
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Originally posted by Patrik:
Then why on earth u are replying here? to show off or what?
I am lonely.
[b]But i dun need flings and i have lotsa friends ard me.Though not all may be good,but i dun need friends to survive.[/b]
I'm looking for ppl who feel lonely & perhaps wish to make more like-minded frens
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Originally posted by Anakin Jr:
You are not alone, Pal.
Just realized, after reading thru some of the postings in AA, that perhaps I am not the only [b]LONELY oONE. There appear to others who share my problems to varying degrees.
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I understand how you feel.
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yeah... "loneliness" is almost as much a taboo like some STD?! i posted before abt loneliness-related probs & got critisized for whining etc. U wld also get response like the one by Patrik... he's like walking into a blood bank & declaring loudly "I am healthy & eligible!!" Then he said "But i dun wan to donate.." & walk off....Originally posted by delonicdevil:yes... i am a lonely one in all departments of social life. i hope this thing comes through becuz i had done something similar and it didn't work. no one responded. sigh.....
Anyway i am hoping to gather some like-minded ppl who can make regular hang--out kakis, like going for outing, movies etc
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I'm lonely even thou I have frens who r always there for me.. I jus din wan them to be worry abt me..
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man...i can imagine how itd be if all the lonely pple who go along with ur plan happen to be lonely because they are quiet pple...they'd make such interesting conversations,staring at each other blankly...Originally posted by Anakin Jr:yeah... "loneliness" is almost as much a taboo like some STD?! i posted before abt loneliness-related probs & got critisized for whining etc. U wld also get response like the one by Patrik... he's like walking into a blood bank & declaring loudly "I am healthy & eligible!!" Then he said "But i dun wan to donate.." & walk off....
Anyway i am hoping to gather some like-minded ppl who can make regular hang--out kakis, like going for outing, movies etc -
Originally posted by Anakin Jr:
My personal advice.
Just realized, after reading thru some of the postings in AA, that perhaps I am not the only [b]LONELY oONE. There appear to others who share my problems to varying degrees.
I suspect this to be just the tip of the ice bergÂ… just like the true numbers of HIV victims lurking unknown
Till today, I have yet to fathom why IÂ’m such a loneliness-afflicted soul. I am a clean, decent looking chap who study hard (but prob not smart), reads the Straits time & watch HK serials for past time. Am I that different, alienated from the rest of the happy, well-connected youth of SÂ’pore?
Despite many valiant attempts at improving my social life--- breaking the ice with complete strangers, choosing a course in uni which has more gals--- I still feel something kinda missinÂ’
1) A girlfriend ---- Not really, I guess IÂ’m not ready
2) Flings--- Yes, hopefully pleaseÂ…
3) Friends (Quality ones)--- Yes, badly missing
A sense of meaningful connections with the people around meÂ… a nice, normal bunch of people I can hang out with.
So, I thought why not gathering all these like-minded people with similar problems/sentimentsÂ… hopefully we can form a support group or even outings in future[/b]
Though it may be nice to hang around with like-minded people, but it's always better to just hang around with people and not choose your friends for a start if you're having difficulty in getting something appropriate to start with...?
There're always outings within the forums... Just keep your eyes open for them...? -
I am a very sociable loner
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isit?Originally posted by Yunhaier:Outing?
AA outing always poor attendance one.
Cheers
but mi v 1st outing is an AA outing wor..
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Those were the days...Originally posted by hopy:isit?
but mi v 1st outing is an AA outing wor.. -
more like nightmare to miOriginally posted by Devil1976:Those were the days...