Wat is breakup?
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Can i ask how many types of breakup do you know of?
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Amicable or non-amicable?
It doesn't matter actually -- the end result is usually the same. -
still got diff style de meh? break means break le mah?
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Yeah... very true.Originally posted by Tuatau:Amicable or non-amicable?
It doesn't matter actually -- the end result is usually the same.
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it can be in a happy way...both still remain friends
or can be in unhappy way...both became enemies or simply dun talk to each other
for me i chose the latter..because i broke up with my gf (or ex-gf) 6 minutes ago -
My ex told me that she want the breakup to be amicable and remain as friends. but damn.. she treat me like stranger after that. everytime chat with her online only get cold response. so pissed off.. then now become like enemies..
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just ignore this kinda person then..not worth ur effortOriginally posted by Mao x 2:My ex told me that she want the breakup to be amicable and remain as friends. but damn.. she treat me like stranger after that. everytime chat with her online only get cold response. so pissed off.. then now become like enemies.. -
Break... up...
oni one kind nia...
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so there is so many ways of breaking up.
Which is the fastest and painless and both side will be happy,
breakup you ever know of or try before? -
3 kind ba..
1. you break her
2. she break you
3. break together -
+4 . ppl come in and breakOriginally posted by Neutrend:3 kind ba..
1. you break her
2. she break you
3. break together
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very trueOriginally posted by xiao chui:+4 . ppl come in and break 
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Originally posted by drx:
How could break-ups ever be painless? Why would a couple want to break up if they were perfectly happy and didn't feel any pain in the relationship?
Which is the fastest and painless and both side will be happy,
breakup you ever know of or try before?
If there is no pain during or after the break-up, there probably was so much pain in the relationship that the break-up brought wanted relief to both sides.
If there is neither pain during the break-up nor immediately before it, the break-up is probably just a formality. The relationship had already died a long time ago. Definitely not the fastest way. -
top ten reasons for breakups
1) he dun like her anymore
2) she dun like him anymore
3) they both don't like each other anymore
4) he likes another gal more
5) she likes another guy more
6) he prefers soccer
7) she prefers a cat he speaks excessive hokkien
9) she doesn't allow sex
10) he is MCP -
Not totally true...Originally posted by Tuatau:How could break-ups ever be painless? Why would a couple want to break up if they were perfectly happy and didn't feel any pain in the relationship?
If there is no pain during or after the break-up, there probably was so much pain in the relationship that the break-up brought wanted relief to both sides.
If there is neither pain during the break-up nor immediately before it, the break-up is probably just a formality. The relationship had already died a long time ago. Definitely not the fastest way. -
Originally posted by Devil1976:
Not absolute-ly true, you mean?
Not totally true...
Notice the liberal use of "probably"s?
Exceptional people think of exceptions to every rule. One is but a common man, so one speaks only of the common rule. -
The real reason is she don't love you anymore.Originally posted by starblue:top ten reasons for breakups
1) he dun like her anymore
2) she dun like him anymore
3) they both don't like each other anymore
4) he likes another gal more
5) she likes another guy more
6) he prefers soccer
7) she prefers a cat he speaks excessive hokkien
9) she doesn't allow sex
10) he is MCP -
Women must have equal benefits like men from the society ..
Women must have special treatment from men ..
Women must be given equal chances to prove themselves ..
If they can't , it's okay , because they are special ..
Haha ... If a Guy initiate a breakup with the girl , he is a jerk ..
If a girl decided to breakup , it is for the guy's good ..
what more can i say .. (my opinion might not fairly represent the other gender's view) -
Originally posted by Tuatau:How could break-ups ever be painless? Why would a couple want to break up if they were perfectly happy and didn't feel any pain in the relationship?
If there is no pain during or after the break-up, there probably was so much pain in the relationship that the break-up brought wanted relief to both sides.
If there is neither pain during the break-up nor immediately before it, the break-up is probably just a formality. The relationship had already died a long time ago. Definitely not the fastest way.
Not exactly always painful. Some are mutual agreement because of higher enlightenment. They understood that the relationship had reach a certain climax and decides mutually that it's time to leave the relationship... on a happier note. It was a decision to leave, not arguements and road to separation.
There wasn't any tear involved. Just acknowledgment because they understood each other and the relationship so well that they accepted the new lease of life.
P.S: This was a real case. It did happened.
Cheers -
I broke up with my ex because we both agreed that the relationship is going to be tough due to distance involved.
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So the best breakup is actually when both side agree is time to spilt .
No hurt no pain both side just shake hands then is all over.
So next is what is the worst case of breakup you have ever seen?
for example slapping of gf , sleeping around kena caught? -
isn't it all the same?
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To me, that is the worst break up coz you know that in your heart that you have feelings for each other, but still can't be together due to circumstances. And in years to come, you will stop and start to think back, "what if, then and only then, did we try?" The possibilities are endless...
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The effect of a good breakup will leave positive effect on the person and the person will be able to enter a new relationship easily without any problems.
A bad breakup will force a person to be afarid of relationship and takes time to gain back the confidence. -
Why has breakups got to be so complex?
Breaking up sucks to the core.
It means a end to a chapter in your life.
It hurts.
It revives cherished memories.
The scar it leaves last eternally.
The pain it provides shatters your fantasy.
love songs you have heard will all be squeezing your heart.
music that we both once shared would be more of a torture.
Beautiful sceneries we that both shared now becomes a painful image of the past.
Pictures of each other together, hugging, kissing, holding hands, will have a deep impression in the heart, which is almost impossible to remove.
Studying with the person you like may be a stupid thing to do, cause you won't feel like studying after the breakup.
seeing her again after the breakup hurts even more.
seeing her everyday in class makes your heart even more heavy.
hearing her voice again pierces your heart when you are trying to focus on the lesson.
hearing her laughter may be even more sour than a lemon with vinegar.
Seeing, hearing her chatting up with other guys, you won't feel like opening your eyes anymore.
So how is a breakup of any good? it just spoils the story in your life.
pity, thats life. Face it, or die with it.
And thats, my freaking life for the next few years..
I think its time for me to get another girlfriend.
Should i?
and thus, i believe, another breakup is imminent?
Sadly, as the proverb goes, begin with the end in mind.
How true, how true.
Can anyone save me from this abyess of unending pain and anguish?
Save me lord, oh save me please.