What do girls mean by " I need sometime alone"
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1) is breakup time?
2) u r too sticky
3) I am looking for another bf and you are my backup
4) no time for you too much work
5) u are boring
6) your bed skills sucks
7) I have found someone better
my papa hates u!
9) my doggy barks at you and she feels u are a bad person
10) u got no more money liao so siam -
it means she wants to have a life without you.
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I'll put it as gently to you as I can.
She's telling you that you suck.
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I think it could be "all of the above"
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i need some time alone lor
can mean u're suffocating me, or pls give me some time to forget this incident that just happened or i'll remember it for the rest of my life
or.. i just need some space once in a while
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drx: are you facing a rough patch?
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err.. nope not facing anything at the moment
just asking to know more about the minset of girls
Still happy going and super care free.
thanks for asking .... -
No problem.Originally posted by drx:err.. nope not facing anything at the moment
just asking to know more about the minset of girls
Still happy going and super care free.
thanks for asking ....
Your post these days seemed quite negetive. Maybe for experimental sake.
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I believe more in prevention than problems.
If I can prevent somethings from happening why not?
I do not wish for something bad to happen first then crack my head to solve the problem. -
From my experiences, preventions can sometimes backfire too.Originally posted by drx:I believe more in prevention than problems.
If I can prevent somethings from happening why not?
I do not wish for something bad to happen first then crack my head to solve the problem.
It will drives a man crazy trying to understand a woman. -
ya.. dun ever try to understand women.... u never success
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it means, "im angry/hurt, juz leave me alone to sort things out."
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DonÂ’t worry so muchÂ…it is nothing.
She just wants some time alone to do the things that we guys never ever get to see girls doÂ…for example
-Dig nose
-Fart (there is even several threads in the forums discussing this myth)
-Scratch their crotch area
-pluck or shave their armpit
-etcÂ… -
Understand us women.Originally posted by Mao x 2:From my experiences, preventions can sometimes backfire too.
It will drives a man crazy trying to understand a woman.
Yeah right.
Pfffttt. -
X 2Originally posted by choco B:I think it could be "all of the above" -
it means its time 2 look 4 greener pastures
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You THINK TOO MUCH.Originally posted by drx:I believe more in prevention than problems.
If I can prevent somethings from happening why not?
I do not wish for something bad to happen first then crack my head to solve the problem.
How are you suppose to 'PREVENT SOMETHING' when there're actually NOTHING to prevent in the 1st place
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humm maybe I explain a bit deeper.
I notice these common problems in the cases I have handle.
"I need sometime alone"
Seems is a way for a gal to give a wake up call to the guy saying that there is something wrong in the relationship and most of thr guys just ignore it.
Once the girl saw that the guy hack care about her she will usually end up with other guy if she can find.
If the guy can put up some effort to notice these small signs maybe things will not turn out so bad.
This is the prevention I am suggesting. -
means "I need more time alone... with some other guy not you"
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i believe it means different things for different girls.
anyway, to me "need some time alone" just means she needs some time being left alone. -
Yes, we can notice these small signs.Originally posted by drx:humm maybe I explain a bit deeper.
I notice these common problems in the cases I have handle.
"I need sometime alone"
Seems is a way for a gal to give a wake up call to the guy saying that there is something wrong in the relationship and most of thr guys just ignore it.
Once the girl saw that the guy hack care about her she will usually end up with other guy if she can find.
If the guy can put up some effort to notice these small signs maybe things will not turn out so bad.
This is the prevention I am suggesting.
but, how can we prevent when we don't really know what's the real reason behind it?
It could be any of those that you mentioned earlier.
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Prevention..mmm.. yes. look what happened to the US.. they did not predict and thier assumption is wrong. So what u gotta do is source out every possible scenario and work out all the contingency plans. U must understand ur enemy.. n ur enemy now.. is ur GIRL@ thats why they from venus n we are from mars. Once we fully understand them..we will RULE THE WORLD !!!! HUAHAHA! Nyahaha!!! ...*cough*.. k la.. what she really means when she needs time alone is that she can go back to her sisters and plan out the next move to take u out..or how to play u by ur own..little 2 balls...
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For me, there are 3 meanings:
1. I want to think about us, where we're heading, & if I still want to be together with that person, then I want to think of how I can make it work.
2. I need time to cool off, too angry now, & if you talk to me 1 more time, I'm gonna scream!
3. I want to cool things off between us before dropping the final blow.
Thank goodness I very seldom do this nowadays, & usually, it's no. 2
FeowFeowOriginally posted by drx:1) is breakup time?
2) u r too sticky
3) I am looking for another bf and you are my backup
4) no time for you too much work
5) u are boring
6) your bed skills sucks
7) I have found someone better my papa hates u!
9) my doggy barks at you and she feels u are a bad person
10) u got no more money liao so siam -
It can still means more than just that? Though I would generally agree with you that most of the time in such cases, something might seems amiss..?Originally posted by drx:humm maybe I explain a bit deeper.
I notice these common problems in the cases I have handle.
"I need sometime alone"
Seems is a way for a gal to give a wake up call to the guy saying that there is something wrong in the relationship and most of thr guys just ignore it.
Once the girl saw that the guy hack care about her she will usually end up with other guy if she can find.
If the guy can put up some effort to notice these small signs maybe things will not turn out so bad.
This is the prevention I am suggesting.
But at other times, the other party might really just need a short break? So in such interpretations, it's really quite meaningless to say IF A happens
B happening. Often than not, not an absolute case.
I've known some couples who just need some time from each other once in a while.. Some of them might even appear suddenly distant to the other or show signs of total no interest at all.. But only those couples themselves know and understand that it's normal for them. They just accept things the way it is, and they actually get along pretty fine that way? -
But prevent lai prevent ke, along the way, you may forget to enjoy what's going on or at least not enjoy fully the relationship because you are always on the lookout (of any possible problems).Originally posted by drx:I believe more in prevention than problems.
If I can prevent somethings from happening why not?
I do not wish for something bad to happen first then crack my head to solve the problem.
From my own view, if I said that "I just simply means I like some time with myself". Even guys need that too. Not only just with our partners. With whomever. I think if we get too much of the same person, some kind of "sian" feelings begin to evolve. So rather quality time than quantity. Even the band, Chicago sang "everybody needs a little time way, I had to say, from each other. Even lovers need a holiday, blah, blah"....forgot the lyrics already, sorry. But get the drift?