Need HELP from u ppl.....

• frostice

  17 Jul 05, 23:03

  how come some guys can talk to gals on phone non stop....like got alot of things to tell...
  
  but as for me when i talk to gal on phone....i think less then 5 mns i got nothing more to say liao....then is like me turn slient liao....
  
  can u ppl give me some tips on what to talk more abt to the girl ???
  
  btw not gf hor......is just the gal i like....
• bo liao

  17 Jul 05, 23:09

  hmm..u try dun ask "open-ended" question..eg, hv u eaten? hv u brushteeth...
  
  ask thing lik which food she like, then say "tat one nice mea,/or u also like it, where will she recommand it, etc"...then ask her viewpoint, from there , dig ur way into it to start conversation...
  
  Lots of rubbish to talk wid girls lah...but u must think of way to make ur talking interesting also..dun be dull, if not no point..
• drx

  17 Jul 05, 23:14

  just crap about anything under the sun.
  
  
• aCid_rAIn

  18 Jul 05, 01:23

  chemistry is very important. be open and be yourself, dun self silter those things u wanna say. good luck
• stellazio

  18 Jul 05, 01:26

  different people in this world ma,if everyone is the same,den who is gonna do the listening??
• M©+square

  18 Jul 05, 01:30

  Originally posted by bo liao:

  hmm..u try dun ask "open-ended" question..eg, hv u eaten? hv u brushteeth...
  
  ask thing lik which food she like, then say "tat one nice mea,/or u also like it, where will she recommand it, etc"...then ask her viewpoint, from there , dig ur way into it to start conversation...
  
  Lots of rubbish to talk wid girls lah...but u must think of way to make ur talking interesting also..dun be dull, if not no point..

  Bo liao:
  
  Your e.g in open ended qns doesn't seem like very open. No offence.
  
  e.g: Have you eaten?
  Ans: Yes
  You.....Lan lan
  
  Have you brushteeth?
  Ans: Yes(weird) or Not yet(kaypoh)
  You: Lan lan
  
  Open Qns should be like:
  
  What kind of food do you like in particular?
  Time to take out jotter book and jot down the hints. (So you know where to date her to the next time)
  
  Or
  
  Do you have a particular time to have your teeth brush? I know it weird, yeah, but i do have this habit of having my teeth brush on time. How about you?
  
  Then it could lead to say - Breakfast then brush teeth or brush teeth first then breakfast?
  
  All this questions will lead to alot of other topics.
  It all depends on the speaker, it's usually not the questions asked.
  It's how he ask.
  
  Cheers
  
  
• Troy437

  18 Jul 05, 01:34

  Originally posted by drx:

  just crap about anything under the sun.
  
  

  Yeah man.
  I talk all sort of crap..and crap talk can last for hours.
  
  I talked 3 to 4 hours to my female fd !! And we just talked abt anything under the sun!! The best is talk abt the latest news.
• M©+square

  18 Jul 05, 01:38

  Originally posted by Troy437:

  Yeah man.
  I talk all sort of crap..and crap talk can last for hours.
  
  I talked 3 to 4 hours to my female fd !! And we just talked abt anything under the sun!! The best is talk abt the latest news.

  Like i've said before.
  
  This method is good for training in speech therapy towards opp sex.
  But a possible backfire method if use to chase after love interest.
  
  Cheers
• frostice

  18 Jul 05, 20:39

  Originally posted by Troy437:

  Yeah man.
  I talk all sort of crap..and crap talk can last for hours.
  
  I talked 3 to 4 hours to my female fd !! And we just talked abt anything under the sun!! The best is talk abt the latest news.

  wont the gal be sian hearing all the craps????
• ahkico

  18 Jul 05, 20:44

  Tell some funny incident abt urself..
  
  Say ur childhood time.. Alot silly things u have done when u young..
  
  sTart with.. Ha.. U noe when i was young.. I used to tot tat.. or I used to do.. eTc..
  
  Then ltr her turn le..
  
  Gd way to warm up tog.. Have a gd laugh.. And noe more bt each other..
• usck

  18 Jul 05, 20:45

  she is not the girl u can be with.
• mochou

  18 Jul 05, 21:01

  if u are courting her, u should be able to talk on the phone for the whole nite.
  if u two just start to go steady, u should be able to talk for hours.
  once u already XXXX her, and u think she's yours, talking for more than 5mins will make u feel bored. watever she said u just "hmm...." "ya....." "ok lor" "issit?"
  
  if u want to talk longer with her, talk about something she's interested. that's the basic, and most impt.
• NoTimeToWaitAr

  18 Jul 05, 21:47

  past exp.... if u tok to those female frenz, u can tok dunno until wat time, until the phone spoil oso can. but if u tokt o those u hv feelings on, u will sure kana LL state at 1st time 1......... lolzzz... dunnno y..
  
  but i feel that if tok to her 3-4 h, abit too long ar, later she feel boring but dun dare to reject u. den u LL oso dunno.......
• eemtij

  20 Jul 05, 20:22

  Before you talk, you update yourself with latest talk of the town. Sure got much to talk. Better still if she don't agree with you on certain topics. Makes conversation longer and YOU WILL KNOW her more.
  
  Some topics for discussion :
  
  1. Expensive peanuts.
  
  2. Golden tap
  
  3. Ministers' wives outburst
  
  4. LTA stupidest barrier design
  
  5. "Took" the butcher
  
  My 1/30,000,000 peanuts worth ...... that is about 2 cents
  
  
• Vivek Oberoi

  4 Aug 05, 10:43

  Originally posted by frostice:

  how come some guys can talk to gals on phone non stop....like got alot of things to tell...
  
  but as for me when i talk to gal on phone....i think less then 5 mns i got nothing more to say liao....then is like me turn slient liao....
  
  can u ppl give me some tips on what to talk more abt to the girl ???
  
  btw not gf hor......is just the gal i like....

  Talk about NS
• BlUe G@rF|eLd

  4 Aug 05, 10:47

  Talk widely then observe her tone. Once she start sound Excited! U koe u gt the bullseye! Continue to dig into it, it kan go on for hrs wan! ( provided u r gd in the topic! )